I’m Miriam Castilla and welcome to the Manifesting Playground for Soulful Women in Business – the place where we practice the art & science of Effectology to help you marry the magical with the practical so you can have more money and more time, the easy way – without all the extra hustle!
Today we’re going to talk about entrepreneurial ADD or what I call ‘entrepreneurial ballet dancing.’.. Where you’re just spinning on the spot over and over and over again and not really moving forward.
Sometimes it looks like, ‘hmm I’m not sure what I want to be when I grow up ‘, ‘maybe I want to be a business coach for single mums’ or ‘maybe I want to be a business coach for women leaving the workforce’ or ‘maybe I don’t want to be a business coach at all – ‘maybe I want to be a yoga teacher.’
Other times it’s a bit subtle more subtle than that and it’s more about, ‘oh maybe I just need another qualification in this and a qualification in that.. my website’s not setup or ‘I think I’ll tweak it a little bit because my target market has changed.’
So it can be more subtle than that but it’s entrepreneurial ADD – it is a lack of focus.
And the thing to realise if that’s what’s going on is that the key thing happening there is a fear and a lack of certainty.
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You’re spinning on the spot because you have no real drive, no real motivation and no certainty as to which way you’re heading and the reason for that is because you don’t want to go with something and find that you’re so far down the track and it’s not really your thing. So you spend all your time distracting yourself and staying where you are rather than risking moving forward.
However, if you don’t stick to one thing for a certain period of time and start to fine-tune it and craft your art and get better and better at it, start to experiment and play with things and fine-tune and then move to another level, your business will NEVER move forward.
You will just stay stuck on the spot – not really having started.
So what you need to do is actually get in touch with that part of you that is going to pull you forward, that is going to drive you and make you want to go for it and make you want to stick to one thing so that you can be successful. And in order to do that, you need to rid of that fear, that lack of certainty and the most powerful way to do that is to really get in touch with, at the unconscious level, in touch with your core values.
Which are the things that tap directly into your ancient lizard brain, your cerebellum, that part of you that doesn’t even have capacity for language but is fuelled by pure emotion and passion. And it’s that thing that drives you so it doesn’t feel like work and you’re happy to work on the weekend if you need to or do late hours at night. And it actually lights you up and you love it.
But unless you connect at that unconscious level in a really powerful way, you won’t be able to reach that place. And you do need to reach that place if you’re going to build a business that you love and adore. And that you’re willing to do what it takes for, because to build a business it does take effort and consistency. It does take a certain amount of commitment and motivation and also work. But it doesn’t feel like work when you’re so connected to what you truly love.
So if you’re not too sure what your core values are or if you can sort of vaguely remember doing them some time ago but it’s all a bit hazy or they’re really just a list of words that you reel off because they sound good, then I encourage you to go through them again.
Take my totally free Uncover Your Core Values Mini-Course.
Grab yourself that and go through the mini-course. I’m actually there to guide you through it and we’ll do it by going to the unconscious mind by using a beautiful hypnotic process that I’ve developed and that will powerfully connect you, so that you can stop spinning on the spot, put an end to this entrepreneurial ADD and go for it to build that business of your dreams.
Until next time, keep on embracing your amazing unlimited potential.
Bye for now!
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