It’s Miriam Castilla here and welcome to the Manifesting Playground for Soulful Women in Business. The place where we practice the art and science of Effectology, helping you marry the magical with the practical so you can have more money, more time, the easy way without all the hustle.
Now, today we’re going to talk about what’s going on when you’re constantly fighting about money with your partner. It’s not fun, right? For starters, we want to deal with it, we want to solve it and resolve it and get back to a peaceful place where money isn’t causing such a rift in your relationship.
Now, the first thing to understand is that when there are arguments about money, it comes from an underlying fear. So the first thing you want to do is start to look into is, is it his fear, or your fear? And, at the end of the day, it actually doesn’t even matter. But it is important to recognize your own fear within that, because if you weren’t also fearful, even if he was, you wouldn’t feel the need to be defensive, right? So, it comes back to:
“Everything on the outside of us is a reflection of what’s going on on the inside of us”.
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So, particularly with our life partner, we’re constantly reflecting and mirroring and shadowing off each other. So sometimes, we will project all our unresolved things that we’re not really ready to deal with onto them. So we go, “You’re doing this, you’re doing that, you’re doing that,” but what it really is, there’s a part of us that doesn’t like the fact that we sometimes do that or maybe we are currently doing it and we’re just not owning up to it, not even to ourselves.
So, the bottom line is that you need to heal the fear within you, because it’s just causing a vicious spiral and when you get to a place where you no longer hold the fear around finances then, first of all, they won’t be mirroring it back to you. And even if they have their own fear going on, your energy, your calmness, your “Hey babe, it’s okay, we’re all sorted,” will actually start to rub off on them. They will start to resonate more and more with where you’re at once you are stable enough in your own state of being chilled about money and knowing it’s all under control, there’s plenty more coming and we’re okay, babe.
So, like everything else, really, that I teach you, it’s all about you, because you are the creator of your life and you are this beautiful energy with consciousness so you get to cause that effect on the energy field around you and your partner will just pick up on what’s going on with you. So, start fixing what’s going on within you and your world will shift.
Now, if you want to get stuck into it straight away, make sure you grab my new Money Manifesting Training. It’s a 25-minute video training that I’ve recently recreated especially for you, to make it even sharper, punchier, and more helpful. It takes you through the 5 reasons you’re not manifesting more money and what to do about it. It’ll go a long way towards healing those underlying fears that I’ve just talked about and help you have a much more harmonious relationship about money with your partner. So grab that from the link in the description.
I will see you next time. Keep on embracing your beautiful and unlimited potential.
Bye for now!
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