Hi, this is Miriam Castilla and welcome to the Manifesting Playground for Soulful Women in Business. The place where we practice the art and science of Effectology, which is all about marrying the magical with the practical so you can have more money and more time, the easy way – without all the hustle.

Okay, I’m going to take you through the 5 steps to creating your own reality – consciously.

That word is really important, “consciously,” because you are already creating your own reality.

YOU are the creator of your life.

You are an electromagnetic being that is emitting a signal to which the field of infinite possibilities, the quantum field, the God Mind, the Matrix, whatever name you want to give it, is responding.

Everything is energy and everything is in constant communication. All the stuff that we think is solid around us, it’s not really solid. It’s actually particles popping in and out of this “reality” that we live in and the interesting thing about it is that those particles are actually NOT here a lot more than they ARE here. So reality’s constantly recreating and reassembling itself and YOU, as an energetic being with consciousness, can affect that reality. You are the observer, and the observer directly affects the reality that they are observing.

So, without getting into all the Quantum Physics of it, let’s talk about what it takes to actually create your own reality – consciously… because it’s happening all the time, whether you like it or not.




98% of what goes on inside of us, in our bodies, our minds, our emotional system, it’s totally unconscious. 98% of you is running the show, and 2% of you is noticing what’s going on and thinking that it’s in charge. So, if you want to start switching up what’s happening around you, you need to become more conscious, you need to bring those unconscious things up out of the unconscious and start making the changes and then it can go back in there and start running the show on autopilot.

Wouldn’t it be cool to just have everything you desire come to you automatically without you needing to think about it? Well, that’s what happens when you start consciously creating your reality and programming your unconscious to then just take over. Super cool, right?

So, this is happening all the time anyway, but you want to choose.

Step number one is exactly that: choose. Decide what will actually light you up. What’s going to give you that joy, that feeling that you’re after. What is it you truly want because honestly most people are out there saying “Aaaw, I’m not happy about my life,” but if you ask them what they actually want they haven’t got a freaking clue because they never actually sit down to work out what it is they do want or what is important to them. They’re so busy bitching about what they don’t want and what they don’t like about life, but ask them what they do want and they run out of things pretty quickly, because just a big lump sum of money doesn’t really get you very far. What do you want the money for? What is it you want to do with it? So that’s number one: decide.

Second is: line up with it. Energetically start doing the work to become a match to it.

For that, you’re going to need step three: support, systems in place, and your own habits and routines and ideally a little bit of a community and someone to smack you in the back of the head when you need it so that you stay on track. You don’t just align once, you have to do the things it takes to stay in and maintain that state of alignment frequently. Because, you know what, the world around you has a really great way of getting your attention so you need to stay in alignment with the future you, the outcome you’re looking for and practice the art of not getting sucked into lining up with the current you because then you get stuck where you are and you just keep getting same thing, different day. So support and systems is the third one.

The fourth one is: you really do need to be consciously aware of what’s coming up that’s getting in the way and clean out that gunk. Be aware of the gremlins, notice the voice in the back of your mind that’s saying “You can’t do it. It’s never going to happen. Who do you think you are. Blah blah blah blah.” Be aware of that and have the tools and systems to clean out the garbage, to get rid of that shit. Otherwise, it will keep running unconsciously in the background and totally trip you up, and that’s very frustrating. So you need to do that.

The fifth and very important thing is: you’ve got to support all of that by taking appropriate action, by showing up. If you’re running a business, you’ve got to put yourself out there. If you’re an employee, you’ve got to show up to work and do your very best. When you do it from a place of alignment, from knowing what it is you want, what your end result that you’re after is, and you’re willing to constantly do it with the mindset work of clearing out the gunk, then your actions are leveraged by the power of that beautiful quantum field. It comes to your aid, and you just show up at the right place, at the right time, because you’re being unconsciously guided and absolute magic happens: you meet the right people, at the right time and you think “Wow, how did life ever get so magical?” It’s simply those 5 steps that take you there.

So, remember, the very first one is: get clear on what’s actually important to you.

If you think “Mmm, yeah, uh, maybe I do need to do a little bit of a refresh,” then click the link in the description and help yourself to my free Uncover Your Core Values mini-course.

It takes you through the entire process that I practice with my students. There’s a video, there’s a meditation, and there’s a workbook to take you through it step by step so that you can powerfully connect with your core values which are the things that light you up, which are the REASON you want the stuff you want. When you line up with those, then that alignment is going to feel fabulous. You’re going to know when you’re in alignment because it’s going to feel FREAKING AMAZING..  and yes, I did almost say another word.

Cool! Have some fun with that. I’d love to know what your core values are once they drop out the bottom end of that process, so feel welcome to leave me a comment here, or message me, or email me, whatever is your preferred method of communication.

I shall see you next time, and until then keep on embracing your amazing and unlimited potential.



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