Are your manifestations taking way too long?
Like, the more you try, the longer slower things seem to progress?
It’s SOOOO frustrating! (feels a bit like when you want a cuddle with your cat but they just show you their butt hole…)
Today we’ll cover 3 things to help you manifest faster.
We’ll talk about the instant manifestation killer – that I bet you’re doing without even realising it!
AND I’ll share my favorite neuroscience hack to help you manifest faster.
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You know that old saying ‘a watched kettle never boils’?
Well, there’s a lot of wisdom in that. In fact, there’s a lot of neuroscience in that!
It refers to what’s known as the ‘Law of Reversed Effort’ or the Backwards Law’. That’s when your mind is constantly reinforcing the lack of what you want to you.
✔️ It’s watching the kettle that never boils.
✔️ Trying to sleep and only feeling more awake.
✔️ Trying not to stutter… and it only gets worse.
✔️ Trying to enjoy yourself and your social anxiety ramping up instead.
You get so focused on the thing you desperately want, that you end up getting in the way!
(And honestly, I don’t know how my cat knows about this, but every time I want a cuddle, I get her bum in my face. But then at 4am, she sits on top of me, starts licking my face & nibbling my ears)
I once worked with a woman who desperately wanted to get pregnant. She did numerous rounds of IVF and spent all her savings. It was all consuming. Eventually she has to give up. By then, she was such a stressed out mess that she and her husband sold their house, quit their jobs and went traveling.
And guess what? 2 months into their trip she emailed to say she was pregnant!
This is what happens!
You try and try and try… and it only gets worse.
Then you back away, ready to give up and hey, presto!
Here’s the thing you’ve been so desperately wanting all this time.
(Has this happened to you? Share your stories with me in the comments!)
So Number 1: The harder you try, the more you get in your own way
A big reason for that is the second thing we’re about to cover:
You can’t walk around in the sun all day, then complain that you got burnt because you weren’t ‘tanning,’ right?
You can’t say ‘I’m only tanning when I’m lying on a sunlounge in my bikini’
If you spend too much time in the sun, whatever your intention might be, you will get sunburnt.
It’s the same with Law of Attraction and manifestation. There is no off switch!
I constantly hear people say, “I’m manifesting <insert thing> now.”
What were you doing before? Because you’re always manifesting SOMETHING – you can’t turn it off.
This process of thoughts becoming things and things coming into our experience is an ever present flow. We play our part with our thoughts, words, beliefs and actions. And we can’t just turn that off and say, “Now I’m in it. Now I’m not.”
You’re always doing it. It’s just a matter of WHAT you’re doing with it.
It’s the same with ‘killing time’. There’s no such thing. You can’t make time disappear – you can only not use it well.
If you have an honest look at what you’re doing most of the time in this process of cause and effect – where you are then CAUSE and your life is the effect – you’ll probably have to admit that a lot of the time you’re not being very cooperative to the outcome you want.
Because I bet that – like most people – a lot of the time you’re COMPLAINING.
Complaining that it’s taking too long, complaining that it’s too hard, complaining that it’s still not happening.
So your energy, your output is going in the OPPOSITE direction to where you SAY you want it to go.
This is the real issue!
It’s not that Law of Attraction doesn’t work, or manifesting isn’t happening or not happening fast enough.
The REAL ISSUE is that you’re getting in the way because your ATTENTION is all over the place!
You’re like a rabbit on crack with ADD. And every little thing is getting your attention and taking you away from being consistently in alignment with the outcome you desire.
You’re never in alignment long enough for your manifestation to gather momentum and pop!
So your job in this process is to keep your attention on track. To keep your energy, your thoughts, your beliefs, your emotions, your words, and your actions CONGRUENT and CONSISTENTLY in ALIGNMENT with the outcome you want.
Because manifesting is always working. Law of Attraction is always ‘ON’.
All that’s going ‘wrong’ is that you’re not consistently in alignment.. that you’re not being a helpful, cooperative component to the outcome you desire.
It’s all about YOUR attention and the focus of YOUR energy.
So how do we keep your attention on the DESIRED OUTCOME, rather than the lack of it?
Here’s my favorite hack to help keep your focus and your attention on what you want:
In Magnetic Money™️, we actually have an entire module on this, but I’ll just give you the headline here.
Focus on any shred of EVIDENCE of the outcome you’re looking for!
Anything that resembles it, that’s a stepping stone along the way or an advance preview of it.
You want to get excited and focus on all those things!
We have limited bandwidth, so as you mainly focus on the evidence, your brain won’t have the capacity to continue focusing on the lack. And THAT is exactly why this hack works!
Here’s a bonus tip for you:
Reinforce the evidence to yourself with an ‘Evidence Mantra’.
This is NOT an affirmation! Evidence mantras work because you use them in the moment – when the evidence is right in front of you!
A hot tip is to start with the words ‘That’s Right!’ which is a hypnotic term.
So say something like, “That’s right, it is working. People are always booking in for sessions with me!” Say it in the moment to literally reinforce what you just experienced to yourself.
Which brings us to a great question:
What should you do – and not do – to manifest what you want faster, but without getting in the way?
How do you strike the balance between action that helps and action that hinders?
Well, that’s what the next episode is all about!
It’s linked for you below so jump on that next.
xx Miriam
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