Have your 2019 goals got you scared?

Have your 2019 goals got you scared?

Hi, this is Miriam Castilla and welcome to the Manifesting Playground for Soulful Women in Business. The place where we practice the art and science of Effectology, which is all about marrying the magical with the practical so you can have more money and more time, the easy way – without all the hustle.

Let’s talk about goals.

So, if your 2019 goals have got you scared already, or maybe you didn’t set any because you decided you didn’t want to be scared about them or you didn’t want to be disappointed by them OR maybe you don’t believe in goal setting (which is kind of my attitude as well and I’ll talk about that) then have a listen up.

If that’s how you’re feeling about goals you’ve got two options:

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The first option is, you can go ahead and set that goal but then you need to make it your mission to actually get in alignment with it… to become a vibrational match to the version of you that is at the other end… that’s got the “thing” and that needs to be your focus. Your focus needs to be on constantly, consistently, staying in alignment and lining up with that. That takes vigilance, takes a lot of persistence, and it’s all about the alignment.

Now, the second option you’ve got is, don’t worry about setting the goal and just worry about alignment. Just worry about lining up with the version of you that feels great because life is fantastic. I like that option!

That option, especially for people who are not so well practised at this, means that you leave a lot of space for the magic of the Universe to come to your aid and put things together in a way that really is gonna thrill you. And it also means you don’t get fixated on the goal and whether or not you’re on your way and whether or not you’re kind of at the point you should be at to hit the target at the end of the day.

Because you’re not distracted by the goal you can actually just focus on what it takes to achieve the goal anyway, which is your state of alignment.

That’s the much easier option, especially for people who are not masters of maintaining their alignment….because you focus on other stuff during the day and it’s not necessarily what you’ve decided to make your life’s work or your number one priority each day.

Having said that… I actually do think you should make that your number one priority each day because once you do, everything else in life becomes easy!

But if you haven’t mastered it yet then, for now, leave the goal.

If you do really want to set some goals for 2019 because goals excite you, or you’re just sick of kind of feeling like you’re back in the same place at the end of the year as you were at the start of the year, then have a look around and stalk me or message me because I am running a January intensive to help you align your abundance vibe to your 2019 success.

So, yes, we will set goals, but then we’re going to park them and go:

“Right, what actually needs to happen in terms of alignment, in terms of clearing out negative thinking and limiting beliefs that might get in your way, and in terms of keeping you on track on a practical level so that you can achieve the goal?”

So the goal is just the “thing,” but then it’s all about YOU.

Now, if you’re not joining me for the January program, then start by grabbing yourself my free Money Manifesting Video Training!

That is totally free and it’s going to take you through 5 reasons why you’re not manifesting more money, and what to do about it.

It’ll cover off all the critical points in helping you actually achieve what it is you’re looking to achieve, particularly on a financial level. Grab that from the link in the description.

If you want to find out about the January intensive just message me or, hopefully, by the time you see this there’s actually a link up on my website, but on Facebook, you will definitely find it as well.

Until next time, keep on embracing your beautiful, and unlimited potential.

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Why am I not reaching my goals?

Why am I not reaching my goals?

Hi, this is Miriam Castilla and welcome to the Manifesting Playground for Soulful Women in Business. The place where we practice the art and science of Effectology, which is all about marrying the magical with the practical so you can have more money and more time, the easy way – without all the hustle.

Let’s talk the problems with goals:

If you’ve set goals in the past that you haven’t achieved, you know how frustrating it can be. You set this beautiful, big, exciting goal, a little bit scary maybe.. you put it out there, you start doing everything you need to do to achieve it and as time goes on, it just seems to get further and further away and that becomes really disheartening and can be quite crushing.

So, there are two problems with goals:

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Number one, there’s this time issue: You’re here and you set a goal for there. What that means is that gives you all this time, all this opportunity, to notice that it’s not here yet, to start worrying, to start second-guessing, and to start doubting. So, the time is a real issue because it gives you time to, basically, screw things up.

The second issue with it is that there is the gap between who you are now (and what you have now), and what it is you want to achieve and who you need to be at the other end.

These two things combine and that means that you have all this time to notice the gap.

The more time there is, the more likely you are to notice the gap, and the more likely that is to get your attention. So as time goes on, your focus starts moving away from the goal that you were all excited about when you set it and you start focusing on the gap, the lack of it, the fact that it’s not even here yet. That gets your attention more and more and it actually starts to train your vibration. You start feeling the lack, the worry, the fear. So what then actually happens is that you are vibrationally a match to the lack of it, rather than what you do need to do, which is to vibrationally become a match to having the goal.

So, the way that goals WILL totally work for you is if you forget about focusing on the thing and start focusing on who you need to be to achieve that goal and actually make that your work, and make that your focus.

The goal is the end result and, yes, there’s going to be things that happen along the way and if it’s a dollar amount there’ll be one dollar at a time or lots of them all at once that come into the equation. And we tend to expect that that’s a linear thing so we get halfway and we go “Oh, but I’m not at the halfway dollar amount.”  Well, who says that you can’t make the whole lot on the very final day? We don’t think like that. The more time we have, the more we start worrying, second-guessing, and doubting.

If you are going to set goals, forget about the amounts and the exact thing that it is you’re looking to achieve, and just worry about becoming the person who is a perfect match to having that goal. If you can do that, if you can make that your focus, then the thing has to happen. The reality HAS to shift, because YOU are the creator of your life.

So, I’d love to hear from you. Have you set a goal? How do you go with goals? Do you find that short-term goals you’re pretty good with and for long terms goals the wheels fall off? Do you find that the bigger goals get you all excited at the beginning, but maybe you don’t hit them? I’d love to know what your experience is and have you actually thought about approaching it simply from the standpoint of, “If I want to have this thing, who do I need to become to have it,” and make THAT your focus.

All of this starts by connecting to what’s actually important to you… why it is you want that end result so that you can become that version of you… so you start resonating at that level… becoming that electromagnetic being that’s putting out THAT vibration.

Connecting to what it is that’s actually important to you about that end result is the most powerful way to get started, and that is why I have created a beautiful Uncover Your Core Values DIY course. You can do it at home and I’m there to guide you. There’s a video, a meditation, and the step by step process that I take my clients and my students through in my paid programs. You can do it all by yourself at home, and start really powerfully connecting to the version of you that has the end result and then everything else will get so much easier. Grab that from the link in the description.

I shall see you next time and, until then, keep on embracing your beautiful and unlimited potential.

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HELP! When I start tracking my money, my income dries up!

HELP! When I start tracking my money, my income dries up!

Hello beautiful, this is Miriam Castilla and welcome to the Manifesting Playground for Soulful Women in Business. The place where we practice the art and science of Effectology, which is all about marrying the magical with the practical, so you can have more money and more time, the easy way, without all the hustle.

Today we’re going to talk about what’s going on when you start to track your income and then suddenly find that it’s drying up completely.

You start tracking it, there’s some money coming in, and suddenly…zip, zero, zilch, nada. You think “What the hell? This income tracking thing is supposed to help me attract more money because what you focus on expands, right? And where attention goes, energy flows, so what is going on?”

I’ll tell you.

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So what you’ve got to recognize, if that’s what’s happening to you, is to become a little more aware of what thought processes are actually going on for you. If your income is drying up, that means that what you’re focusing on isn’t the money coming in, but it’s the gap between the money coming in and the money you’d actually LIKE to have coming in!

Maybe you have a zero income dollar day and it really knocks you energetically, and you start feeling really low and really flat. So, the more that you focus on that gap, on the “not enough money,” the more you’re actually on the vibration of “not enough money.” And so, that is becoming your predominant vibration, your predominant thought process, your predominant state of being, your predominant emotional state. All the hormones and emotions that are flooding through your body are all matching that state. So that’s what’s becoming your predominant vibration; your predominant state of being. That then gathers momentum and you get more and more of the same: more and more of “not enough” and “Oh my God, another zero dollar day!”

You need to hack that. Tracking your income is really helpful, but the key is to actually track and notice, become aware of and celebrate the INCOME.

The number one thing you can do is just really celebrate the money that does come in and do your very best to just disconnect from the zero income dollar days or the low income earning days. Make sure that your focus is on noticing, tracking, and celebrating the money that IS coming in.

Now, if that’s still too big of a stretch, then you need to go wider.

What I like to track is just evidence of abundance. Don’t just track the money coming in. Track the number of people that have said nice things about you in Facebook groups or have replied to your emails or track all the other little signs of abundance in your life: Someone buys you a free coffee, you get a discount on something, you find $20 in an old pair of jeans. Notice and track all of that. That way you’re getting off the topic of money a little bit and you’re managing to really build momentum on that vibration of abundance.

You’re training yourself into noticing all the good stuff that is going on for you, which then helps gather and build momentum there.

Now, to get started right away, grab yourself a copy of my Magnetic Money Tracker. There’s a link in the description. Grab that now and get started. And you will notice that it tells you to track ALL your abundance, not just the money coming in!

Have an awesome time with that, and keeping on embracing your beautiful, unlimited potential.

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Attract more money by going undercover

Attract more money by going undercover

Hello, it’s Miriam Castilla here and welcome to the Manifesting Playground for Soulful Women in Business. The place where we practice the art and science of Effectology. Helping you marry the magical with the practical, so you can have more money and more time, the easy way, without all the hustle.

Today we’re going to talk about why when you want to manifest more money it really pays to go stealth.

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What am I talking about? Well, when you’re in a position where you think “I really need to manifest more money,” … maybe to pay off some debts (stick around if that’s mainly why you want to manifest more money because I’ve got something really awesome for you)

So, you’re wanting to manifest more money because you really need it and you’re really feeling that need for it… what that actually means is that money is an issue in your life at the moment, right?

So, you’re feeling like there’s not enough. You’re noticing the lack of money and that means that that subject of money is loaded with all of that. What that actually means is that your focus and your vibration is on the lack of money, on not enough money, on the frustration that there’s still a GAP between where you’re at and where you want to be and that it’s not here yet and it’s not happening fast enough.

All of that frustration is actually creating energetic resistance to more money coming in.

You’re actually hypnotising and training yourself into “There is just not enough.” You’re programming your unconscious mind and the entire Universe into “I just never have enough. There’s a gap. I’m really noticing the gap. It’s really pissing me off, and the more it’s pissing me off the more there’s a gap,” and it just stays stuck on that. It’s like you’re in a revolving door and you can’t seem to get out.

You need to just get out of all of that. Break out of it. Get out of that revolving door, because that’s really hard and if a bit of money manages to sneak through it’s kind of a bonus but it’s really difficult.

So, you want to step away from all of that and recognize that money is just part of abundance. Money is really just a means to an end. The vibration that matches the end result of all of the things you want the money for is actually the vibration of abundance.

The feeling that you want to generate and the things you want to train your unconscious into knowing to be your reality, are all the things that match that vibration, that feeling state of “I’m living an abundant life.”

Money is just one of the factors within it.

So what you’re actually doing is you’re going bigger and wider and just letting the money drop in, rather than trying to micromanage that little aspect of this bigger topic of abundance and creating a whole lot of havoc.

So that’s why I have a saying that’s “Let’s get off the topic, and on the vibration.” Because the topic of money isn’t helping, but the vibration of abundance? You can get to that.

You can find lots of ways to get in that vibration of abundance. Just sit down right now, make a list of at least five things, or ten, or twenty, that make you feel really abundant. At the end of the day, that’s what you want the money for. The money itself? You look at it for a while, if you’ve got loads of it maybe you take a swim in the bathtub in it, but then that’s the end of the money’s purpose in your life.

The purpose of the money is something so much bigger.

So, connect to that, make it easy for yourself and until next time keep on embracing your unlimited potential!

BUT before I go, if debt is an issue, please grab yourself my free Debt Elimination Planner which is available at the link in the description. That will help you really start putting some practical steps in place to start clearing the debt and then meanwhile, you go off the topic and on the vibration, start attracting even more money and you’ll know exactly the most powerful way to get rid of that debt fast.

So grab that from the link now & keep on embracing your unlimited potential.

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How to generate and build abundance momentum

How to generate and build abundance momentum

Hello, it’s Miriam Castilla and welcome to the Manifesting Playground for Soulful Women in Business. The place where we practice the art and science of Effectology. Helping you marry the magical with the practical so you can have more money and more time the easy way, without all the hustle.

Today we’re going to talk about how to generate and build abundance momentum.

So we don’t just want drips and drabs of abundance and money coming to us, but we really want to get on a roll.

We want it to build and build and become more easy, more effortless, bigger and better.

Because that it was life is all about: It’s constant evolution. You will constantly want the next thing, and the next thing, and the next thing and that is a very good thing. Without progress, and without evolution you stagnate, you wither, you die.

This is how life operates. Everything is constantly growing and evolving and your desire will also do the same.

The bigger and more abundant you grow, the more you can spread your message, your service, and the more you can do good in the world.

So, I’m not going to try and talk you through the whole “all the things that come up,” although we are going to talk about it just a little bit in a second.

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Now, the first thing you want to do, obviously, is become more magnetic to money. Make it so much easier for that money to flow into your experience. Yes, you’re going to run your business and do all the things that you do, but you want to do things the easier way.

So, what you need to first of all get really good at is aligning with the vibration that money is on – which is the vibration of abundance. So that takes awareness and it takes constant fine tuning, tweaking, and really playing with it and becoming better at noticing where you’re at and getting that feedback from your external world as to whether you’re right on it, or a little bit off it.

It’s kind of like you’re a radio receiver and you’re learning how to really tune yourself to the station that you want to be listening to, because the radio signals, the abundance, it’s all out there. It’s up to you to align with it and make it really easy for that signal to find you.

So that’s number one, but then as you start attracting that money, you want it to stay around, you want to keep that money around and not just have it bounce off.

That’s the second thing you need to really start looking at: “What is it that makes money not stick around so much, that makes it bounce off?” What it is, 99.999999% of the time, basically all the time, is that it is not a match to your current self image. Somewhere there in your unconscious it says “Nope, this is not me, I don’t deserve it, I’m not good enough, I don’t know enough,” whatever the thing is – and it’s a mismatch.

So you find ways to unconsciously get rid of the money. Whether it’s manifesting extra bills, screwing up and getting speeding fines, or just making a bad investment, you’re unconsciously finding ways to get back to what does match the current self image.

You also need to do the work on clearing all those old money blocks. Those old limiting beliefs that aren’t allowing the money to stick around. That is when you can attract the money, it sticks around, and you can start to snowball and rebuild that momentum.

That’s really all the law of attraction is: it is another word for momentum. One thing leads to another similar thing, leads to another similar thing, and it builds and builds and builds.

So, if you want abundance momentum, that actually means that you are just keeping yourself in that beautiful abundance state and allowing the momentum to gather… allowing the law of attraction to kick in and send you more things that match where you are already at, right?

So you want to align yourself with abundance and keep tweaking that and really getting on that vibration, you want to release the blocks that are holding you back, but the last thing you also want to do that’s really important and that a lot of people skip, is become a really confident custodian of that money.

When you are attracting money and it’s sticking around, you’re going to need to know what to do with it. If you lack confidence, if you’re not knowing what to do with it, if you don’t want to look at it, if you don’t want to deal with it, that’s actually a sign that you still have some money blocks and some limiting beliefs and it is a mismatch.

So it’s really important to get your act together and know what to do with your money on the practical level, so that you can build your confidence which increases your alignment and shifts your self image up to the next level and helps you continue to build that momentum.

So it is these three aspects that I call the Magnetic Money Trifecta:

  1. You want to attract more money
  2. You want to keep that money around by releasing the blocks that keep making it ricochet off
  3. You want to help your money grow and multiply by becoming really good at the practical stuff, at being the confident custodian of your money.

Now, where do you even start with all of that?

Well, if you’re not already in my Magnetic Money program, definitely check that out, because that is what we do and we do it in a beautiful and supportive and inspiring group of women.

But the very first step is to start becoming self aware of all three of those prongs on the trifecta. I’ve got a beautiful freebie for you which is my Magnetic Money Tracker. It helps you to start becoming aware of all of those things so that you can start making those adjustments, becoming more self aware, and start getting on a roll to that beautiful abundance momentum. So grab that from the link in the description, and I shall see you next time.

Keep on embracing your beautiful and unlimited potential.

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When you keep fighting about money with your partner

When you keep fighting about money with your partner

Hello beautiful,

It’s Miriam Castilla here and welcome to the Manifesting Playground for Soulful Women in Business. The place where we practice the art and science of Effectology, helping you marry the magical with the practical so you can have more money, more time, the easy way without all the hustle.

Now, today we’re going to talk about what’s going on when you’re constantly fighting about money with your partner. It’s not fun, right? For starters, we want to deal with it, we want to solve it and resolve it and get back to a peaceful place where money isn’t causing such a rift in your relationship.

Now, the first thing to understand is that when there are arguments about money, it comes from an underlying fear. So the first thing you want to do is start to look into is, is it his fear, or your fear? And, at the end of the day, it actually doesn’t even matter. But it is important to recognize your own fear within that, because if you weren’t also fearful, even if he was, you wouldn’t feel the need to be defensive, right? So, it comes back to:

“Everything on the outside of us is a reflection of what’s going on on the inside of us”.

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So, particularly with our life partner, we’re constantly reflecting and mirroring and shadowing off each other. So sometimes, we will project all our unresolved things that we’re not really ready to deal with onto them. So we go, “You’re doing this, you’re doing that, you’re doing that,” but what it really is, there’s a part of us that doesn’t like the fact that we sometimes do that or maybe we are currently doing it and we’re just not owning up to it, not even to ourselves.

So, the bottom line is that you need to heal the fear within you, because it’s just causing a vicious spiral and when you get to a place where you no longer hold the fear around finances then, first of all, they won’t be mirroring it back to you. And even if they have their own fear going on, your energy, your calmness, your “Hey babe, it’s okay, we’re all sorted,” will actually start to rub off on them. They will start to resonate more and more with where you’re at once you are stable enough in your own state of being chilled about money and knowing it’s all under control, there’s plenty more coming and we’re okay, babe.

So, like everything else, really, that I teach you, it’s all about you, because you are the creator of your life and you are this beautiful energy with consciousness so you get to cause that effect on the energy field around you and your partner will just pick up on what’s going on with you. So, start fixing what’s going on within you and your world will shift.

Now, if you want to get stuck into it straight away, make sure you grab my new Money Manifesting Training. It’s a 25-minute video training that I’ve recently recreated especially for you, to make it even sharper, punchier, and more helpful. It takes you through the 5 reasons you’re not manifesting more money and what to do about it. It’ll go a long way towards healing those underlying fears that I’ve just talked about and help you have a much more harmonious relationship about money with your partner. So grab that from the link in the description.

I will see you next time. Keep on embracing your beautiful and unlimited potential.

Bye for now!

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