I love my biz but hate asking for money

I love my biz but hate asking for money

Hi, this is Miriam Castilla and welcome to the Manifesting Playground where we apply Law of Attraction in practical and magical ways to transform your business and life – so you can have more money, more time, and more alignment.

Let’s talk about what to do when you love your business but hate asking for the money.

So, first of all, let’s take a step back:

What’s your business all about and why do you love it so much?

If I was to take a guess, I would say that it’s the way you express yourself, it’s the way you show up as the most valued and valuable version of you, the version of YOU that really feels like she makes a difference and you’re doing the thing that is your unique contribution to this world in serving the people that you serve.

Your business is all about serving.

So, if your business is all about serving and self-expression, and then on the other hand also about money…let’s think. What’s money all about when it comes to business?

Well, money is received and exchanged for service rendered, right? It is an exchange of energy. You give service, and in return you receive money. You can’t have one without the other. Not in business (otherwise it’s called a charity or a hobby). If it’s a business, that’s the exchange of energy that happens. By receiving the money, it allows you to give the service. By giving the service, it allows you to receive the money. It’s part of a cycle, it’s an energy exchange.

Now, if you’re feeling uncomfortable about receiving money you’re effectively saying, “I don’t want to give too much service.” Energetically, you are refusing or blocking yourself from giving more service.

… Which is probably why you might find you don’t have as many clients as you’d like to have in your business, because you’re feeling uncomfortable about the money and it’s part of the cycle. If there aren’t any clients, you can’t give the service, so you can’t receive the money and that takes care of your little problem, see?

 

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If you want to resolve that problem and stop blocking the money, which blocks you from giving more service, then you need to do a bit of changing things up.

Start with that reframe and remember that the more money you receive, it means you’ve been giving even more service.

So really you owe it to the world, you owe it to those you serve to become very very rich.

It shows that you’ve been of incredible service to the world.

So that’s a big reframe, and that alone will help you really up your vibration around money. It’ll help you start to relate money to money in a whole new and much more resourceful and helpful way. In a way that allows you to attract the money in, to feel good about attracting the money in, and to give even more service.

Now, if you’d like to practice that a little bit further, then make sure you access my free money manifesting video training.

If you haven’t got it yet, you can access it from the link in the description. It’s a 25-minute video training that I’ve recorded especially for you to help you understand the 5 top reasons why you’re not manifesting more money, and what to do about it. You even get a little cheat sheet to help you remember what I covered for you in the training – just in case you need it later on.

So, hop to it!

Grab yourself that and until next time, remember to keep embracing your absolutely beautiful and unlimited potential.

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Do you feel guilty spending money on yourself?

Do you feel guilty spending money on yourself?

Hi, this is Miriam Castilla and welcome to the Manifesting Playground where we apply Law of Attraction in practical and magical ways to transform your business and life – so you can enjoy more money, more time, and more alignment.

Do you feel guilty spending money on yourself? Let’s talk about that and let’s talk about why it stops more money from coming into your experience.

Maybe you’re in this habit of saying, “Ah, not yet. I won’t spend that money on myself just yet. First I need to hit a six-figure income,” or “When I have my first big month,” or “When my launch does this,” or “When I have this many clients,” or “When I put my price up to X number.”

The thing is that what you will notice if you’re really honest with yourself is that you keep moving the goalposts. You keep finding excuses and you keep skimping and putting yourself last, feeling too guilty to ever really spend that money on yourself.

So my question is: When will you feel ready?

When will you actually get to a place where you step into and claim your abundance?

On this journey, if you want to create an abundant business and life, it’s all about you actually getting to enjoy it, right? So if you’re constantly dangling the carrot on the stick and you keep moving forward and forward but the carrot never gets any closer, then it’ll never be enough, you’ll never get there, and you’ll never get to enjoy the beautiful rewards of your heart-centred business.

So what’s causing that?

 

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Well, at the unconscious level, there is something within you that says, “You don’t deserve it. You haven’t done enough yet. You’re not good enough. You’re not qualified enough. You’re not worthy. You’re not deserving,”

But you ARE all those things, you were born deserving and worthy!

A part of you isn’t allowing you to have it, because it believes that you’re not ready because you haven’t done enough, not qualified enough, all those things.

It’s these old stories that are keeping you stuck.

What that means is that it’ll never be enough because the story doesn’t change with the dollar amount of income you’re making.

The story stays the same.

The story is what’s putting your abundance, your enjoyment of what you’re creating, on that stick. It’s keeping your carrot dangling in front of you and it’s keeping you working hard and just pushing yourself more and more and punishing yourself for still not having made it and gotten there, and it just never ends… unless you untangle and release that old story. When you notice a pattern like this, it’s really time to break free.

So… where the hell do you start?

Okay, the first thing that you need to do is to start to look into these old stories.

What’s creating them and how are they showing up? In my training with my students, I talk about these stories and I talk about how they’re just archetypal stories. They’re kind of the same theme, but just with different nuances and iterations. Now, those stories actually show up quite pronounced in your life through your habits and your behaviour. Your habits are really just an indication of what your beliefs are. And those stories? They create your beliefs. The stories that you were told growing up, the stories that you absorb by watching the world around you and listening to the people around you created your beliefs about life and how life works and what you deserve within it.

It all shows up in your habits. Your Money Habit Archetype is your predominant pattern around money. It kind of defines your relationship with money. That is your starting point because it’s that little sign at the surface, it’s the tip of the iceberg of what’s lying underneath. Once you find the tip of the iceberg, then you can start drilling your way down and getting to what’s actually created that to rise up and show up in this way for you.

If you don’t know what your Money Habit Archetype is so you can start uncovering and releasing these old stories that are keeping you stuck, then take my quiz!

It’s the Money Habit Archetype quiz. It will let you know what your money habit archetype is, and then you can start doing the work to release it – and I will support you with that as well.

So go on, jump on the quiz right now, the link is below!

Until I see you next, keep on embracing your beautiful and absolutely unlimited potential.

Bye!

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The real secret to attracting money EASILY

The real secret to attracting money EASILY

Hi, this is Miriam Castilla and welcome to the Manifesting Playground where we apply Law of Attraction in practical and magical ways to transform your business and life – so you can have more, more time, and more alignment.

Let’s talk about the real secret to attracting more money EASILY.

If you’ve been focusing on attracting more abundance and more money into your business and your life for a while, you might have found that, at times… or maybe a lot of the time, it starts to feel really hard and frustrating… and the more you try, the worse it gets!

That’s actually completely what happens. As you try harder, you’re reinforcing to the universe and your subconscious mind – which are kind of the same thing but we’ll talk about that another time – you are reinforcing that it’s hard work and that it’s not happening. Just the word “try” alone, actually implies NOT succeeding – which is why Yoda was so right (if you know what I’m talking about with the Star Wars reference)

There is no try. There is only “do” and “do not.”

In fact, in hypnotherapy, we use the word “try” to suggest to people that they cannot succeed. So, I don’t know if you’ve ever worked with a hypnotherapist (maybe you’ve worked with me?) We can do things like stick your hand to your leg or glue your eyes shut. We use the word “try” over and over again, “Go on try. Try to do it,” and the more you try the more you find you can’t do it!

The word “try” is hypnotic and it implies not succeeding. When you’re “trying” you are not succeeding and you’re reinforcing to your unconscious mind that you’re having to try because it’s not working, and that is the message you’re sending out to the universe with your energy of frustration and how hard it all is and how you just keep trying and you can’t crack it.

So, the real secret to attracting more money more easily, is to dance the dance of what I call the Manifesting Paradox.

 

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Yes, you need to connect with what you want. You need to have the idea. You need to dream the dream. You need to connect with that possibility of the outcome you want that already exists out in the quantum field. Now once that’s done, whether you visualise, or you daydream, or you make a vision board, or you just spend some time talking and thinking about it – that’s done. The connection has happened. It’s kind of like you’ve branded that event. You’ve branded that outcome with your electromagnetic signature.

So the universe heard your order, no need to keep repeating it.

The work from here on is simple: It’s allowing yourself to be in a state where you can attract it. And “trying” to bring it in is not the state you want to be in!

So what you actually need to work on is getting into a state of “allowing.” Allowing it to flow to you, which means that you kind of need to be unattached enough to “how” and “when” and still be excited and looking forward to the outcome. So being really thrilled because you know that you create your reality, but at the same time knowing that the details of that are not your work. The “how” is not your work and when you try to get in the way and micromanage the process, you just slow it down.

So that is the real secret to attracting more money, more easily:
Come up with all the great ideas, dream the dream, and then get into a space of “allowing,” which means you just have to stay in that beautiful state of unattached expectation.

Tune in and notice, “is that how I’m feeling?” If it’s not, make a little tweak and check it again. If it’s not, make another little tweak. Lots of baby steps add up beautifully over time.

Now, if you’d like some more tips like that to practice and you haven’t yet accessed my free money manifesting training, then please follow the link I’ve given you in the description because you get access to a free 25 minute training video that I’ve recorded for you with the 5 reasons you’re not manifesting more money and what to do about it so.

Along with the video, you also get a little cheat sheet, a checklist to remind you of what I cover for you in the training so that you can keep on refining and applying those beautiful baby steps and continue to grow in abundance.

Until I see you next, keep on embracing your beautiful and unlimited potential.

Bye!

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How rich can you get?

How rich can you get?

Hi, this is Miriam Castilla and welcome to the Manifesting Playground for Soulful Women in Business – the place where you get to marry the magical with the practical so you can have more money and more time, the easy way – without all the extra hustle!

How rich do you think you can get?

And another question: When I say “get rich,” does that trigger you? Does that make you feel a bit squirmy and uncomfortable?

Interesting, right?

So I want to talk about the paradox of conscious evolution. Sounds pretty cool, right?

The thing is that most people who start working with me in particular and who I see out there wanting to really look at Law of Attraction, the power of the universe, the power of their unconscious mind… are mainly interesting in how to get rich – how to get some more money in the bank. And that’s totally cool because money is important, but because they’re looking at spirituality as a means to achieve that, it actually means they’re also interested in their inner riches, in the richness of their inner life.

What happens is that when they first start, their focus is very much on their outer world. They’re focusing on the lack of enough money, how much they want more, the things that are going wrong, the things that are still not quite as they want them to be, and all their focus is outside of them. But as they start working on their inner world, they start to discover and unearth and connect to their inner riches. They start to realize how rich the world within them is and how many riches already lay inside of them that they can dive into and thoroughly enjoy and kind of bathe in. It’s a beautiful feeling to know that your inner world is so incredibly rich and there is so much beauty and abundance in there.

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As you continue doing this work and taking your focus within and really diving deep and plugging into the power that exists right there within you and discover how awesome that feels, the scales start to tip. You’re actually focusing on your inner world, on your inner abundance, on your inner riches, and you stop caring so much about the outside world and, paradoxically, what happens is that the outer world starts to shift and mirror the inner world. Your outer world also starts to become more rich, and more abundant.

Remember, “As within, so without.”

There’s a reason for all of these beautiful old sayings!

As you start to discover your inner world, that is when your outer world can shift.

While your focus is on the outer world where you don’t have any power and where everything is happening TO you, you have no control and you’re not going to be able to get what you want. But as you start to dive within and really plug into that incredible unlimited power that exists within you and just revel in how beautiful and abundant that is, you’re going to stop caring so much about the outer world, which means all that resistance you had falls away, and the outer world shifts and becomes magically abundant also. You’re going to be in a totally different place, because THAT will be the cherry on top – as you’ve discovered something much more important.

The reason why people want all the outer riches is that they want to feel rich, fulfilled, and abundant within.

So, the way to maintain your connection to your inner riches, my darling, is of course through meditation. There are many other ways, but the easiest way that you can do it without me there to guide you through some other stuff, is through daily meditation. If you keep up that beautiful practice, that means that every time you sit down and close your eyes you’re giving yourself an opportunity to really connect to and experience the riches within.

In my meditation library I actually have a very specific meditation that I’m going to suggest for you – it is called The Vibration of Abundance. It helps you connect to that vibration of abundance inside of you, so that the scales can tip, and your outer world can start to match your beautiful and abundant inner world.

So, if you are not yet a member of my totally free meditation library, then click the link in the description and sign up now. If you already are a member, just jump on it and look for The Vibration of Abundance and spend some time enjoying that meditation because it’s absolutely beautiful and it will help you continue to embrace your beautiful and unlimited potential.

See what I did there?

Bye, for now!

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Stop kidding yourself about being in alignment with abundance

Stop kidding yourself about being in alignment with abundance

Hi, this is Miriam Castilla and welcome to the Manifesting Playground for Soulful Women in Business. The place where we practice the art and science of Effectology, which is all about marrying the magical with the practical so you can have more money and more time, the easy way – without all the hustle.

Are you bullshitting yourself about being in alignment?

Yeah, sorry, I just had to come straight out and ask that. See, there’s a lot of people going around who go, “Ah! Alignment, alignment. I know exactly what I’m doing!” But the bottom line is that they’re still not fulfilled in their life. They don’t have the things that they want. They don’t feel that life is a beautiful place to be. They’re still experiencing a gap. They’re still aware of a whole lot of stuff in their life that they’re really not wanting there and want to get rid of it.

So, let’s talk about how to actually figure out whether or not you are in alignment so that you’re not just bullshitting yourself and time passes and you think, “Mmm, it’s getting harder and harder to keep up the charade.”

There are two ways to know whether or not you are in vibrational alignment with that highest part of you, with that amazing intelligence that creates the entire universe, so that things can flow to you in perfect harmony and perfect timing.

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Number one:

Have a look around you. Is life pretty damn good? Or, is life still full of stuff that you don’t really want. That you don’t want to actually be in alignment with. The thing is, if you’re not in alignment with it, it cannot be a part of your reality. It cannot be a part of your experience, because the law of resonance won’t allow it to come near you. If you’re surrounded by a whole lot of stuff that you’d rather get rid of and not have in your life, that’s a sign that you’re probably not in alignment, even if you think you are.

The second way to tell whether or not you are in alignment is simply by how you feel. Now, the thing is, most people are pretty good at fooling themselves and ignoring and pushing down how they truly feel. You know, they spruik affirmations, they write their goals, they listen to certain things over and over again, but it’s just surface level stuff and actually suppressing how they truly feel inside. It’s not really working, because the 98% of them that is unconscious is still running the show and creating the reality that is all around them.

Yes, that reality is constantly shifting and changing so, when you are consciously creating you have to be willing to go, “Okay, what is actually here right now is old news. I’m going to create something new and that’s what’s happening in this moment. I’m creating my next moment.” But if your next moment keeps resembling your previous moment and that just keeps happening over and over again for one, two, three, four, five, ten, twenty years, then you’re not really creating a new reality, you’re creating the same reality over and over again and you’re just BS’ing yourself along the way by ignoring the way you truly feel at the unconscious level.

So, this may be pushing some buttons and that’s totally cool because I’m here to wake people up. I’m not here to help people keep bullshitting themselves.

If you’d like to get better at tuning in so that you can start creating the new reality that you do want, then the easiest way to do that is to simply start becoming better at listening to your body. The body does not lie. The body IS the unconscious mind. So, you can do simple things like muscle testing. This little trick is a really good one. So the body responds instantly to your state of vibration – your emotional states.

When you’re strong, your body is strong.

When you’re not strong, your body gets weak.

So just this little finger hold is a great way to check in. Do make sure that you set it up really well. If you haven’t done this sort of thing before or you’re not really comfortable with kinesiology or you don’t even know what the hell I’m talking about, “What is this thing she’s doing,” then do it another way.

For example, if you think you’re pretty well aligned with the vibration of abundance and money then just note right now, take a nice deep breath in, get yourself settled into your body so you’re really aware of how it feels right here, right now and notice what you feel and where you feel it when I say the word “money.”

Now there will be some reaction in your body. Maybe when we’re just talking and I’m saying, “Yeah yeah and your money and your this and that and money and money,” you’re just not tuning in enough, but when we actually slow down and you decide that you’re going to notice, you will notice a reaction. That is simply your current, most powerful association to that topic, to the topic of money. That means that that is currently your predominant vibration.

Your body doesn’t lie.

Learn to listen to your body. Learn to really read it and pay attention. Then you can start making the changes so that you actually are in alignment with the vibration of abundance and all the things you want and then your reality will start to shift and then those two things, what have you got and how do you feel, will actually match the outcome you’re looking to get. Awesome!

I’m going to leave you with that.

I’d love to hear how you went and what your thoughts are and what came up for you, so please feel welcome to comment below or send me an email or whatever you prefer, but I’d love to hear what that brought up for you.

Until next time, keep on embracing your beautiful and unlimited potential.

Bye for now!

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Have your 2019 goals got you scared?

Have your 2019 goals got you scared?

Hi, this is Miriam Castilla and welcome to the Manifesting Playground for Soulful Women in Business. The place where we practice the art and science of Effectology, which is all about marrying the magical with the practical so you can have more money and more time, the easy way – without all the hustle.

Let’s talk about goals.

So, if your 2019 goals have got you scared already, or maybe you didn’t set any because you decided you didn’t want to be scared about them or you didn’t want to be disappointed by them OR maybe you don’t believe in goal setting (which is kind of my attitude as well and I’ll talk about that) then have a listen up.

If that’s how you’re feeling about goals you’ve got two options:

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The first option is, you can go ahead and set that goal but then you need to make it your mission to actually get in alignment with it… to become a vibrational match to the version of you that is at the other end… that’s got the “thing” and that needs to be your focus. Your focus needs to be on constantly, consistently, staying in alignment and lining up with that. That takes vigilance, takes a lot of persistence, and it’s all about the alignment.

Now, the second option you’ve got is, don’t worry about setting the goal and just worry about alignment. Just worry about lining up with the version of you that feels great because life is fantastic. I like that option!

That option, especially for people who are not so well practised at this, means that you leave a lot of space for the magic of the Universe to come to your aid and put things together in a way that really is gonna thrill you. And it also means you don’t get fixated on the goal and whether or not you’re on your way and whether or not you’re kind of at the point you should be at to hit the target at the end of the day.

Because you’re not distracted by the goal you can actually just focus on what it takes to achieve the goal anyway, which is your state of alignment.

That’s the much easier option, especially for people who are not masters of maintaining their alignment….because you focus on other stuff during the day and it’s not necessarily what you’ve decided to make your life’s work or your number one priority each day.

Having said that… I actually do think you should make that your number one priority each day because once you do, everything else in life becomes easy!

But if you haven’t mastered it yet then, for now, leave the goal.

If you do really want to set some goals for 2019 because goals excite you, or you’re just sick of kind of feeling like you’re back in the same place at the end of the year as you were at the start of the year, then have a look around and stalk me or message me because I am running a January intensive to help you align your abundance vibe to your 2019 success.

So, yes, we will set goals, but then we’re going to park them and go:

“Right, what actually needs to happen in terms of alignment, in terms of clearing out negative thinking and limiting beliefs that might get in your way, and in terms of keeping you on track on a practical level so that you can achieve the goal?”

So the goal is just the “thing,” but then it’s all about YOU.

Now, if you’re not joining me for the January program, then start by grabbing yourself my free Money Manifesting Video Training!

That is totally free and it’s going to take you through 5 reasons why you’re not manifesting more money, and what to do about it.

It’ll cover off all the critical points in helping you actually achieve what it is you’re looking to achieve, particularly on a financial level. Grab that from the link in the description.

If you want to find out about the January intensive just message me or, hopefully, by the time you see this there’s actually a link up on my website, but on Facebook, you will definitely find it as well.

Until next time, keep on embracing your beautiful, and unlimited potential.

Bye for now!

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