Manifest faster by ditching this instant manifestation killer

Manifest faster by ditching this instant manifestation killer

Are your manifestations taking way too long?

Like, the more you try, the longer slower things seem to progress?
It’s SOOOO frustrating! (feels a bit like when you want a cuddle with your cat but they just show you their butt hole…)

Today we’ll cover 3 things to help you manifest faster.

We’ll talk about the instant manifestation killer – that I bet you’re doing without even realising it!
AND I’ll share my favorite neuroscience hack to help you manifest faster.

 

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You know that old saying ‘a watched kettle never boils’?
Well, there’s a lot of wisdom in that. In fact, there’s a lot of neuroscience in that!

It refers to what’s known as the ‘Law of Reversed Effort’ or the Backwards Law’. That’s when your mind is constantly reinforcing the lack of what you want to you.

✔️ It’s watching the kettle that never boils.
✔️ Trying to sleep and only feeling more awake.
✔️ Trying not to stutter… and it only gets worse.
✔️ Trying to enjoy yourself and your social anxiety ramping up instead.


You get so focused on the thing you desperately want, that you end up getting in the way!

(And honestly, I don’t know how my cat knows about this, but every time I want a cuddle, I get her bum in my face. But then at 4am, she sits on top of me, starts licking my face & nibbling my ears)

I once worked with a woman who desperately wanted to get pregnant. She did numerous rounds of IVF and spent all her savings. It was all consuming. Eventually she has to give up. By then, she was such a stressed out mess that she and her husband sold their house, quit their jobs and went traveling.

And guess what? 2 months into their trip she emailed to say she was pregnant!

This is what happens!
You try and try and try… and it only gets worse.

Then you back away, ready to give up and hey, presto!
Here’s the thing you’ve been so desperately wanting all this time.

(Has this happened to you? Share your stories with me in the comments!)

So Number 1: The harder you try, the more you get in your own way

A big reason for that is the second thing we’re about to cover:

You can’t walk around in the sun all day, then complain that you got burnt because you weren’t ‘tanning,’ right?

You can’t say ‘I’m only tanning when I’m lying on a sunlounge in my bikini’

If you spend too much time in the sun, whatever your intention might be, you will get sunburnt.

It’s the same with Law of Attraction and manifestation. There is no off switch!

I constantly hear people say, “I’m manifesting <insert thing> now.”
What were you doing before? Because you’re always manifesting SOMETHING –  you can’t turn it off.

This process of thoughts becoming things and things coming into our experience is an ever present flow. We play our part with our thoughts, words, beliefs and actions. And we can’t just turn that off and say, “Now I’m in it. Now I’m not.”

You’re always doing it. It’s just a matter of WHAT you’re doing with it.

It’s the same with ‘killing time’. There’s no such thing. You can’t make time disappear – you can only not use it well.

If you have an honest look at what you’re doing most of the time in this process of cause and effect – where you are then CAUSE and your life is the effect – you’ll probably have to admit that a lot of the time you’re not being very cooperative to the outcome you want.

Because I bet that – like most people – a lot of the time you’re COMPLAINING.

Complaining that it’s taking too long, complaining that it’s too hard, complaining that it’s still not happening.

So your energy, your output is going in the OPPOSITE direction to where you SAY you want it to go.

This is the real issue!

It’s not that Law of Attraction doesn’t work, or manifesting isn’t happening or not happening fast enough.

The REAL ISSUE is that you’re getting in the way because your ATTENTION is all over the place!

You’re like a rabbit on crack with ADD. And every little thing is getting your attention and taking you away from being consistently in alignment with the outcome you desire.

You’re never in alignment long enough for your manifestation to gather momentum and pop!

So your job in this process is to keep your attention on track. To keep your energy, your thoughts, your beliefs, your emotions, your words, and your actions CONGRUENT and CONSISTENTLY in ALIGNMENT with the outcome you want.

Because manifesting is always working. Law of Attraction is always ‘ON’.

All that’s going ‘wrong’ is that you’re not consistently in alignment.. that you’re not being a helpful, cooperative component to the outcome you desire.

It’s all about YOUR attention and the focus of YOUR energy.

So how do we keep your attention on the DESIRED OUTCOME, rather than the lack of it?

Here’s my favorite hack to help keep your focus and your attention on what you want:

In Magnetic Money™️, we actually have an entire module on this, but I’ll just give you the headline here.

Focus on any shred of EVIDENCE of the outcome you’re looking for!
Anything that resembles it, that’s a stepping stone along the way or an advance preview of it.

You want to get excited and focus on all those things!
We have limited bandwidth, so as you mainly focus on the evidence, your brain won’t have the capacity to continue focusing on the lack. And THAT is exactly why this hack works!

Here’s a bonus tip for you:

Reinforce the evidence to yourself with an ‘Evidence Mantra’.

This is NOT an affirmation! Evidence mantras work because you use them in the moment – when the evidence is right in front of you!

A hot tip is to start with the words ‘That’s Right!’ which is a hypnotic term.

So say something like, “That’s right, it is working. People are always booking in for sessions with me!” Say it in the moment to literally reinforce what you just experienced to yourself.

Which brings us to a great question:

What should you do – and not do – to manifest what you want faster, but without getting in the way?

How do you strike the balance between action that helps and action that hinders?

Well, that’s what the next episode is all about!

It’s linked for you below so jump on that next.

xx Miriam

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STOP decluttering your office to manifest money! (try this instead)

STOP decluttering your office to manifest money! (try this instead)

If you’ve been decluttering your office to manifest more money – for the love of God, please STOP!

Let’s talk about what you should be decluttering FIRST – before you worry about having a tidy office – that will help you enjoy more money faster.

I know that decluttering your office can SEEM to hello you manifest more money. And it’s definitely super common & popular advice. 

I’ll explain why it may help you attract a bit more money.

But once I share what you’re much better off spending that time on and WHY, you’ll never worry about having a messy office again! (I certainly don’t) 😊

 

 

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Let’s take a moment to think about this:

What are we wanting to attract more of? 

Answer: MONEY

And what are we trying to align our vibration with? 

Answer: MONEY.

So although our office is where we generate our money, how about we cut out the middle steps and just declutter our actual money?

Because as much as sitting in a cluttered space can add to your mental stress, having your actual money in a mess is a LOT more stressful!

If you don’t know where the money to pay your bills is – which money to run your business with – how much money you can comfortably spend on having fun, getting a massage and going out with your friends, THAT is stressful!

And if you’re stressed about your money because it’s in a mess, you’ll have a wobbly vibration around money – because money is a source of stress.

And so guess what you’ll be unconsciously blocking? More money!

Because you don’t want more stress, do you?

So instead of worrying about cleaning up your office (which yes, I really need to do that too one day), let’s focus on cleaning up your vibration on the specific topic of money by organizing the money you’ve already got and making it work a whole lot better for you.

Before I list the benefits of decluttering your money and give you a simple way to get started – let’s cover why decluttering your office MAY seem to work.

Because some people will try and convince you that THIS is the way – because they had some success with it.

Actually – was this you? Let me know below!

Have you ever decluttered your office and attracted unexpected money afterwards?

Here’s why it happens:

Basically, when you declutter your office, you’re distracting yourself and allowing your vibration to raise.

You’re taking yourself out of the equation, stepping away from the resistance & stress of trying to get more income flowing.

And as you tidy your space, it makes you feel a little better and raises your vibration. Maybe you even play some music while you’re decluttering. Awesome!

So as you let go of all that resistance on the topic of money & your vibration raises, you naturally align with abundance and that allows more to flow.

And that’s cool, but what I’m much more interested in is getting a CONSISTENT flow of money into your life and business..  and making that money work for you.

And that is where decluttering your ACTUAL money and your ACTUAL banking comes in!

Because if your money’s a mess, you’ll be a mess – likely a stressed out mess.

By simply getting your money sorted, you start to feel calmer, which shifts your vibration on the actual topic of money.

It’s not just a quick distraction that only lasts until you focus on money again,

You’ve actually cleared resistance on the specific topic itself!

And when you organize your banking, your money can flow properly into your business and through into your personal accounts.

It’s no longer all tangled up!
And that smooths the vibration AND the flow – both on an energetic and a practical level.

Organizing your money gives you clarity.

You know where the money to pay for things is and which accounts to use for what.

When you know that the money to pay your tax is there – that the money to keep your business running is there – and that the money to pay your personal bills AND have fun with is there, you feel calmer, in control, empowered and just all round.. GOOD!

And because this feeling is on the specific topic of money, not only are you raising your vibration and becoming more magnetic. You are also becoming a better match to that more abundant version of you.

Of course, on a purely practical note, it also means that your money’s working for you.

You can stop robbing Peter to pay Paul, shuffling money in circles or sneaking a quick peek at your banking at the supermarket checkout, in case you need to use the credit card….

As Bob Proctor once told me, there are 2 ways to make money:

People at work and money at work. 

By getting your money organized, you’re able to put your money to work for you.


Can you see how as we marry the magical with the practical it all comes together and builds momentum?

As we get more organized and declutter our money, it raises our vibration and makes us magnetic to more. And as we become magnetic to more and have a system in place to take care of that money, it can grow and multiply (or as I say, ‘make money babies’)

Your money is working for you and every dollar your money is making on its own, is a dollar you didn’t have to lift a finger for!


Here are 2 important principles for decluttering your money:


NUMBER 1: Separate business and personal money

Just as if you were decluttering your office, you would separate your office space from your home space, you want to do the same with your money.

You want that nice, clean focus.

NUMBER 2: Give every dollar a job to do

Every dollar needs a clearly defined job and a place to work.

I highly recommend you watch the episode linked below for more help with this, but here’s an easy way to get started:

Simply name your bank accounts to indicate what the actual purpose of the money in them is.!

Examples: ‘Business Operating’, ‘Fun Money’, ‘Household Bills’ etc ‘

Nickname them on your banking app so you know what the money in each account is for – and so you never have to worry about using the wrong account.

And be clear as to whether each account is business or personal.

How simple is that?

If you’d like me to take you by the hand and lead you through a step by step process to properly organize and tidy your banking, just jump on my free workshop here.


Tell me: What’s your biggest takeaway?

Are you going to stop decluttering your office and declutter your money first instead?

I’d love to see a ‘Hell yes – I’m decluttering my money!!‘ in the comments. It’ll make me so happy.


xx Miriam 

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Can you manifest without taking any action?

Law of Attraction critics will say, “You can’t just sit on a mountaintop and meditate and wait for it to rain money”

But can you manifest with action?

Or at least, without action that feels like work?

You absolutely can!
Because yes, you need to take action, but the right KIND of action. And when you take the right kind of action – it does not feel at all like hard – let alone like hard work!

 

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So in this episode, we’ll answer the questions “Can you manifest without action?” but even better than that:

We’ll talk about what kind of action you SHOULD be taking – and what kind of action is a total waste of your time and energy.

Like me, you’ve probably been applying Law of Attraction and doing all the things.

I know I did everything – all the Law of Attraction things and (just to be on the safe side) –  all the work things as well.

I worked hard and long hours. It all got really exhausting and disheartening because I was doing all this Law of Attraction stuff, but I was still burning myself out!

It wasn’t until much further down the track when I figured it out that, yes, there’s some action you need to take, but you’ve gotta be smart enough to know what kind of action is productive and what kind of action is counterproductive. Because most of the actions we take are a total waste of time and energy.

And when I figured out this seemingly fine – but actually massive difference between the different types of action, everything changed. Yes, I was still DOING things, but it didn’t feel like I was working. And it certainly didn’t feel like I was working hard! My income really took off and I would have my biggest income days & months when I wasn’t working AT ALL.

I still remember having a record $31,500 week without looking at my business at all. I wasn’t thinking about it and I didn’t even check my phone. In fact, I had my feet dangling in a pool in Bali at the time!

If this sounds like a plan you’d like to get in on, then let’s break this down for you. Let’s talk about the difference between the kind of action that leverages Law of Attraction versus the kind of action that’s counterproductive and a total waste of time and energy.

First, let’s talk about the innate problem people have trying to figure this out:

And that is that we equate ‘taking action’ with ‘working’. We take certain actions to achieve a direct desired result.

Cause and Effect.

But when you’re working with Law of Attraction, it’s different, right!
You’re actually looking to leverage the magic of the Universe, tap into synchronicities. And yes, you need to be a cooperative component to that, but the moment you get too involved and try to micromanage and force the process, you’re actually getting in the way and are stopping that effortless flow of manifestation.

Because you always get what you EXPECT. And when you get too involved and take all this action, it shows that you only expect to get things that are a direct line of sight to your actions.

You’re cutting the Universe out of the equation and taking over – shutting yourself off from the magic.

The other issue with getting way too involved and taking action that is more ‘work’ oriented is that you’re bringing an energy of fear and worry to what you’re doing.

“Ooh, I just better do this ONE extra thing to make sure it all works out.” Sound familiar?

And when you bring that energy of fear and worry, you’re sending out a vibrational message of, “I’m not really expecting this to be easy or to even work out at all.”

So in fact, you’re manifesting it NOT happening or manifesting it being WAy TOO HARD.

So we definitely don’t want to be doing that, but we do need to be taking SOME action because we need to put ourselves into the play, right? We need the Universe to be able to throw us those opportunities, nudges & great timing. So there is action to be taken.

(In a previous episode I covered the 6 steps to attracting a consistent 6-figure income. It’ll help you get a better understanding of where the actions you take fit into the overall process and you can find that at the link below.)

Before I share the kinds of actions that absolutely help manifestation happen, I’d love to know:

Have you ever taken just some small little action that has resulted in some awesome manifestation?
What are your manifesting stories? Type me a comment below and let me know!

So what kind of action do you need to take? 

Well, you need to put yourself into the play, put yourself where the Universe can find you. So when you take action, take it with that spirit of “I’m putting myself in the play. I don’t know exactly how this is all going to work out. I’m going to – as my mentor, Mike Dooley says – knock on lots of doors without knowing which one will open. But if I keep knocking, I know that one, two or more of them will open.”

The other reason you need to take action and get some motion going is because that is how the Universe can guide you. Think of it like the GPS system in your car. It can’t really do much for you if you’re just sitting in your driveway. Until you get moving, it can’t guide your next step, telling you whether to turn left or right. Your inner guidance that’s always there for you is much the same.

As you move forward and then pay attention to the guidance – those intuitive nudges, instincts & hunches – you will be guided step by step towards your goal.

And the action that you THEN take as a result of that, is INSPIRED ACTION.

And that’s going to feel totally different from the action of ‘hard work to try and get what you want’

It’s going to feel like fun, like child’s play. That inspired action has a whole different energy. When you‘re taking inspired action, just knocking on doors to open possibilities and putting yourself into the play of life, it feels like fun. It feels easy. It feels effortless. It feels like exploration and an adventure, rather than working hard to force an outcome.

Now, a great way to get yourself into the right frame of mind for this is through regular meditation. And if you don’t yet have it, I’d love to gift you one of mine. It’s a hypnotic meditation called ‘The Vibration of Abundance’.

You’ll find the link in the ‘Today’s Freebie’ section below.

Remember, gorgeous. It’s time to embrace your unlimited potential and you are so ready to take that next step.

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How would you like a meditation for manifesting money?

It might sound too good to be true to manifest more money with your eyes shut but it’s totally possible. The trick is to not just use any kind of meditation. The best kind of meditation for manifesting money is a hypnotic meditation that is a meditation that will tune you to the vibration of abundance.

This is done by reprogramming your mind and reconditioning your body – energetically upgrading you to a new, more abundant version of you. A version of you who is a vibrational match to more money.

In this episode, I give you access to exactly that kind of meditation. But before you rush off to download it, let me explain how to use it for maximum effect and why it’s so powerful.

 

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Both in my own journey going from broke, single mum to multiple 6-figure business owner, living an abundant life I adore … and in helping my clients do the same… there’s one thing that keeps cropping up over and over and over again. 

People think that it’s what they DO that will help them attract and manifest the money they want.

But it’s actually not what you do that matters. What matters is how you feel.

Because this is a vibrational Universe and Law of Attraction organizes all those vibrational frequencies and matches them up.

At the end of the day, the Universe isn’t listening to your desires. It’s not reading your daily manifestation lists or your journal or any of those things. It’s not listening to your affirmations. It’s not taking photos of your vision board and trying to find matches out there. It’s not doing any of that. All it does is respond to your vibration. It’s pure science, really.

It doesn’t judge and it doesn’t second-guess. 

It simply says, “This is what you’re putting out. I’m going to give you things that match it.”

So this takes me to the very first point:

When you do anything to manifest more money, it’s not about the act itself. 

It is about the shift inside of you that the act helps you achieve. 

Now there are two key things we want to shift here. 

The first one is we want to shift your neural pathways, the patterns in your brain that fire automatically over and over and over again.
And we want to shift those to be naturally tending towards more abundant thoughts. And as you do that, your brainwaves – which also emit a frequency – are going to be much more in alignment with abundance (which includes money). 

Money is just a subset of abundance. 

So that’s a really cool little hack. All we really need to do is match you up with the frequency of abundance.

So the very first way that meditation helps you do that is by shifting your neural pathways so that your brain starts automatically firing much more abundant thoughts.

Now, the second reason that a hypnotic meditation designed to create these unconscious shifts is so powerful and helps you manifest more money is that we can change your addiction to whatever mix of feelings is your current ‘normal’.

What do I mean by that? 

Well, we all have a normal, average way we feel. We have so much joy, so much frustration, so much worry, so much anxiety. There tends to be an average mix we’re used to that is our average. And when we go outside that natural mix, things start to feel uncomfortable – even if we’re starting to feel more abundant. 

That’s why when you grow, you usually hit what Bob Proctor used to call the terror barrier or what psychologists call cognitive dissonance or what I call perturbation or the wobbles.

As we start to grow and expand, it can get really uncomfortable because we’re starting to become a new version of ourselves.

You’re literally becoming a new version of you. 

There is a part of our brain, the cerebellum right near the brainstem, which is part of our ancient lizard brain. Its job is to go “Danger – Danger!! Warning – Warning!!” when we venture outside the norm.

It is literally trying to keep the caveman inside of us safe in the cave. Our biology is still wired that way.

That’s why sometimes when you want to grow and expand and do cool things in your business, you start self-sabotaging, things feel scary and you shrink back into the same old comfort zone. It’s not necessarily where you want to be, but it’s what you’re used to and therefore your body chemistry is comfortable with it and considers it ‘safe’.

So we literally have an addiction to a certain mix of body chemistry. And with a hypnotic meditation, we can recondition the body and slowly but surely start shifting that ‘normal’ to a more abundant mix. 

And as we do that – along with rewiring the thought patterns so they automatically start firing more abundant thoughts – we are shifting your vibration. 

We are shifting the signal you’re sending out into the Universe. 

Now, your signal is an electromagnetic signal. You are an electromagnetic being with electrical brain waves and magnetic heart energy. It all needs to be a match so your vibration is clear and clean. And then the Universe & Law of Attraction can say, “Now THAT is a match to more abundance, including this much more money!”

So that is how we can use meditation, especially a carefully and well-designed hypnotic meditation – to start manifesting more money.

You still need to show up during the day and put yourself out there, allow the opportunities to find you and be congruent in lots of other ways. 

But if you start by rewiring your brain and reconditioning your body then you’re shifting everything at the unconscious level first – and life gets a whole lot easier & more abundant as if by magic.

At the end of the day, it doesn’t matter much what you do on the outside of you. If you don’t first shift what’s going on inside of you, nothing else is going to work.

Remember, it’s not what you do that matters – it’s how you feel.

Because how you FEEL – that is your vibrational signature! That is the electromagnetic signal you’re sending out into the Universe, that the Universe will respond to and bring you matching things in return for. 

And with a hypnotic meditation that is designed to shift your ‘average normal’ state of feeling, you can become a more abundant vibrational being. And as you shift internally, your external reality will start to shift.

So here’s how to use this meditation. 

No.1: Download it (the link is below).

No. 2:
Listen to it frequently. Not 10 times a day, just once a day or maybe every second day – or maybe some weeks just once a week – that’s okay. Just keep using it regularly and enjoy it.

Enjoy it, and listen to it for the pure pleasure of diving deeper into feeling abundant. Allow yourself to be totally immersed in that vibration abundance so you continue normalizing yourself to it more and more.

You’ll find the link to this free meditation below. It’s called ‘The Vibration of Abundance”

Enjoy & remember, it’s time to embrace your unlimited potential and you are absolutely ready to do that – right here, right now!

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The secret power of acting as if (it’s not what you think!)

The secret power of acting as if (it’s not what you think!)

The power of acting as if is not faking it til you make it.

In fact – it’s kind of the opposite.

So I want to know:

  • Do you act as if you already are the person you hope to become? 
  • Do you act as if you already have some of those things you hope to have and plan to have? 
  • And do you act as if you’re already living that life that you desire? 

Cary Grant is quoted as saying, “I acted like Cary Grant for so long that I became him.”

(And if you don’t know who Cary Grant is, it’s because you’re a lot younger than me.) 

It’s genius advice because here’s the thing:
We all go on a journey in life. We start out in one place as a certain person, and then we aim to have the life of this new person that we want to become. 

This new life cannot be lived by the same person as the one who is at the beginning of the journey. 

This life can only be lived by the person who has created it. Who’s comfortable in it. 

So the trick – as with all things I teach – is to start from the inside out. 

You have to become that person.

 

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You have to think, speak, feel and act like that person who has the life you desire. 

You have to tap into the power of acting as if.

And then the outside of you can start to fall into place and match that.

Acting as if isn’t about faking it until you make it. It’s not about being fake at all.

It’s actually about BECOMING REAL… becoming your new reality.

It’s about lining up your thoughts, feelings, words and actions, and having them all be congruent. This means that to your nervous system and to the quantum field to which you put out this constant signal, you’re sending a really clear congruent message of, “This is who I now am.” 

Then the outside of you can start to morph, and the pieces of the puzzle can fall together for you. Everything can come together for you to match what’s going on on the inside of you. 

But you need to start inside, and acting as if is a wonderful way of adding another layer to the work you’re already doing by managing: 

    • How you’re feeling
    • The thoughts you’re thinking
    • The words that you’re speaking
    • What you’re consuming in terms of media and the conversations you have 

Acting as if is very powerful because the way you act directly speaks to the way you think and what you truly believe about yourself. 

Just do any little token gestures, such as buying the more expensive cheese at the supermarket or walking up to somebody at a networking meeting, introducing yourself confidently and asking them about themself. 

Do something that you wouldn’t normally do, but that that person that you hope to become would totally do every single day. 

Pick something as an experiment for the next seven days and start acting as if. 

I challenge you to do it for seven days and I’d love to hear what shifts for you, how it helps you become more congruent and feel more congruent with where you’re going, and what happens. 

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What’s one small way you can start acting as if today?

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