You can manifest anything you want – if you DO THIS!

You can manifest anything you want – if you DO THIS!

You can manifest anything you want – provided you can create momentum & reach critical mass based on the consistent choices you make.

 

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Manifesting your desires and dreams into reality is not just about setting goals and visualizing them.

It involves doing the inner work necessary to reach a critical mass where that new reality becomes your normal, everyday INTERNAL STATE.

Achieving critical mass takes a consistent effort of aligning with the person you want to become and tapping into the power of momentum to help you tip over so that new reality becomes the NEW YOU.

It means constantly and consistently making choices that serve you – focusing on positive thoughts and emotions, while letting go of negative self-doubt and limiting beliefs – so that momentum can build, which helps you get to critical mass faster.

So if you’re not getting the results you want in your business or personal life, it might be because you’re waiting for permission from external sources.

And this stops you from achieving the 3 key factors to achieving any new goal:

  1. Critical mass
  2. Inner transformation
  3. Momentum

Let’s break it down:

1.Critical mass 

To become a new version of yourself who can achieve new things, you need to reach a certain level of consistent behavior and mindset.

It takes more than just writing down goals, creating a vision board and reciting a few affirmations.

You need to do the work internally and continually shift your state of being to align with that more abundant version of yourself.

This requires you to be brutally honest with yourself and make the effort to feel a little bit better – a little more abundant – a little more aligned – each & every day until this ‘new you’ becomes your natural state.

Until you BECOME her.

2. Inner work

There is a process required of shifting your state of being and aligning with the version of yourself you want to become.

This involves choosing to go to a better feeling place where you can imagine and FEEL  yourself enjoying your desired outcome.

This is a choice you need to make over and over and over again –  regardless of external circumstances. Inner work is a lifelong commitment, and as you continually do it, you will reach critical mass and start to grow & evolve, faster & faster.

3. Momentum


This is the third factor in achieving that tipping point.

Momentum comes as a result of consistently making the right choices and building positive energy.

If you make positive choices, you build positive momentum, and you reach critical mass faster.

However, if you keep making negative choices, you build negative momentum, and it becomes increasingly difficult to pull yourself out of that and make positive choices.

To reach critical mass so you can tip over & become that NEW YOU, it’s essential to make positive choices as often as possible. To feel good – and then a little better and a little better – over & over & over again so you can build positive momentum.

That’s how this process becomes easier.

But it starts with a decision & the willingness to shift your internal state – the way you FEEL – to a better, higher vibing place – again & again.

It’s about choosing to feel good – and always looking for ways to feel even better – regardless of external circumstances.

Once positive momentum builds, it will get so much easier.

And eventually that positive momentum, assisted by those continual choices to shift your vibration to a higher state, will help you achieve critical mass and reach that tipping point.

And that is when that manifestation can finally pop – seemingly out of nowhere!

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Manifest faster by ditching this instant manifestation killer

Manifest faster by ditching this instant manifestation killer

Are your manifestations taking way too long?

Like, the more you try, the longer slower things seem to progress?
It’s SOOOO frustrating! (feels a bit like when you want a cuddle with your cat but they just show you their butt hole…)

Today we’ll cover 3 things to help you manifest faster.

We’ll talk about the instant manifestation killer – that I bet you’re doing without even realising it!
AND I’ll share my favorite neuroscience hack to help you manifest faster.

 

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You know that old saying ‘a watched kettle never boils’?
Well, there’s a lot of wisdom in that. In fact, there’s a lot of neuroscience in that!

It refers to what’s known as the ‘Law of Reversed Effort’ or the Backwards Law’. That’s when your mind is constantly reinforcing the lack of what you want to you.

✔️ It’s watching the kettle that never boils.
✔️ Trying to sleep and only feeling more awake.
✔️ Trying not to stutter… and it only gets worse.
✔️ Trying to enjoy yourself and your social anxiety ramping up instead.


You get so focused on the thing you desperately want, that you end up getting in the way!

(And honestly, I don’t know how my cat knows about this, but every time I want a cuddle, I get her bum in my face. But then at 4am, she sits on top of me, starts licking my face & nibbling my ears)

I once worked with a woman who desperately wanted to get pregnant. She did numerous rounds of IVF and spent all her savings. It was all consuming. Eventually she has to give up. By then, she was such a stressed out mess that she and her husband sold their house, quit their jobs and went traveling.

And guess what? 2 months into their trip she emailed to say she was pregnant!

This is what happens!
You try and try and try… and it only gets worse.

Then you back away, ready to give up and hey, presto!
Here’s the thing you’ve been so desperately wanting all this time.

(Has this happened to you? Share your stories with me in the comments!)

So Number 1: The harder you try, the more you get in your own way

A big reason for that is the second thing we’re about to cover:

You can’t walk around in the sun all day, then complain that you got burnt because you weren’t ‘tanning,’ right?

You can’t say ‘I’m only tanning when I’m lying on a sunlounge in my bikini’

If you spend too much time in the sun, whatever your intention might be, you will get sunburnt.

It’s the same with Law of Attraction and manifestation. There is no off switch!

I constantly hear people say, “I’m manifesting <insert thing> now.”
What were you doing before? Because you’re always manifesting SOMETHING –  you can’t turn it off.

This process of thoughts becoming things and things coming into our experience is an ever present flow. We play our part with our thoughts, words, beliefs and actions. And we can’t just turn that off and say, “Now I’m in it. Now I’m not.”

You’re always doing it. It’s just a matter of WHAT you’re doing with it.

It’s the same with ‘killing time’. There’s no such thing. You can’t make time disappear – you can only not use it well.

If you have an honest look at what you’re doing most of the time in this process of cause and effect – where you are then CAUSE and your life is the effect – you’ll probably have to admit that a lot of the time you’re not being very cooperative to the outcome you want.

Because I bet that – like most people – a lot of the time you’re COMPLAINING.

Complaining that it’s taking too long, complaining that it’s too hard, complaining that it’s still not happening.

So your energy, your output is going in the OPPOSITE direction to where you SAY you want it to go.

This is the real issue!

It’s not that Law of Attraction doesn’t work, or manifesting isn’t happening or not happening fast enough.

The REAL ISSUE is that you’re getting in the way because your ATTENTION is all over the place!

You’re like a rabbit on crack with ADD. And every little thing is getting your attention and taking you away from being consistently in alignment with the outcome you desire.

You’re never in alignment long enough for your manifestation to gather momentum and pop!

So your job in this process is to keep your attention on track. To keep your energy, your thoughts, your beliefs, your emotions, your words, and your actions CONGRUENT and CONSISTENTLY in ALIGNMENT with the outcome you want.

Because manifesting is always working. Law of Attraction is always ‘ON’.

All that’s going ‘wrong’ is that you’re not consistently in alignment.. that you’re not being a helpful, cooperative component to the outcome you desire.

It’s all about YOUR attention and the focus of YOUR energy.

So how do we keep your attention on the DESIRED OUTCOME, rather than the lack of it?

Here’s my favorite hack to help keep your focus and your attention on what you want:

In Magnetic Money™️, we actually have an entire module on this, but I’ll just give you the headline here.

Focus on any shred of EVIDENCE of the outcome you’re looking for!
Anything that resembles it, that’s a stepping stone along the way or an advance preview of it.

You want to get excited and focus on all those things!
We have limited bandwidth, so as you mainly focus on the evidence, your brain won’t have the capacity to continue focusing on the lack. And THAT is exactly why this hack works!

Here’s a bonus tip for you:

Reinforce the evidence to yourself with an ‘Evidence Mantra’.

This is NOT an affirmation! Evidence mantras work because you use them in the moment – when the evidence is right in front of you!

A hot tip is to start with the words ‘That’s Right!’ which is a hypnotic term.

So say something like, “That’s right, it is working. People are always booking in for sessions with me!” Say it in the moment to literally reinforce what you just experienced to yourself.

Which brings us to a great question:

What should you do – and not do – to manifest what you want faster, but without getting in the way?

How do you strike the balance between action that helps and action that hinders?

Well, that’s what the next episode is all about!

It’s linked for you below so jump on that next.

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STOP decluttering your office to manifest money! (try this instead)

STOP decluttering your office to manifest money! (try this instead)

If you’ve been decluttering your office to manifest more money – for the love of God, please STOP!

Let’s talk about what you should be decluttering FIRST – before you worry about having a tidy office – that will help you enjoy more money faster.

I know that decluttering your office can SEEM to hello you manifest more money. And it’s definitely super common & popular advice. 

I’ll explain why it may help you attract a bit more money.

But once I share what you’re much better off spending that time on and WHY, you’ll never worry about having a messy office again! (I certainly don’t) 😊

 

 

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Let’s take a moment to think about this:

What are we wanting to attract more of? 

Answer: MONEY

And what are we trying to align our vibration with? 

Answer: MONEY.

So although our office is where we generate our money, how about we cut out the middle steps and just declutter our actual money?

Because as much as sitting in a cluttered space can add to your mental stress, having your actual money in a mess is a LOT more stressful!

If you don’t know where the money to pay your bills is – which money to run your business with – how much money you can comfortably spend on having fun, getting a massage and going out with your friends, THAT is stressful!

And if you’re stressed about your money because it’s in a mess, you’ll have a wobbly vibration around money – because money is a source of stress.

And so guess what you’ll be unconsciously blocking? More money!

Because you don’t want more stress, do you?

So instead of worrying about cleaning up your office (which yes, I really need to do that too one day), let’s focus on cleaning up your vibration on the specific topic of money by organizing the money you’ve already got and making it work a whole lot better for you.

Before I list the benefits of decluttering your money and give you a simple way to get started – let’s cover why decluttering your office MAY seem to work.

Because some people will try and convince you that THIS is the way – because they had some success with it.

Actually – was this you? Let me know below!

Have you ever decluttered your office and attracted unexpected money afterwards?

Here’s why it happens:

Basically, when you declutter your office, you’re distracting yourself and allowing your vibration to raise.

You’re taking yourself out of the equation, stepping away from the resistance & stress of trying to get more income flowing.

And as you tidy your space, it makes you feel a little better and raises your vibration. Maybe you even play some music while you’re decluttering. Awesome!

So as you let go of all that resistance on the topic of money & your vibration raises, you naturally align with abundance and that allows more to flow.

And that’s cool, but what I’m much more interested in is getting a CONSISTENT flow of money into your life and business..  and making that money work for you.

And that is where decluttering your ACTUAL money and your ACTUAL banking comes in!

Because if your money’s a mess, you’ll be a mess – likely a stressed out mess.

By simply getting your money sorted, you start to feel calmer, which shifts your vibration on the actual topic of money.

It’s not just a quick distraction that only lasts until you focus on money again,

You’ve actually cleared resistance on the specific topic itself!

And when you organize your banking, your money can flow properly into your business and through into your personal accounts.

It’s no longer all tangled up!
And that smooths the vibration AND the flow – both on an energetic and a practical level.

Organizing your money gives you clarity.

You know where the money to pay for things is and which accounts to use for what.

When you know that the money to pay your tax is there – that the money to keep your business running is there – and that the money to pay your personal bills AND have fun with is there, you feel calmer, in control, empowered and just all round.. GOOD!

And because this feeling is on the specific topic of money, not only are you raising your vibration and becoming more magnetic. You are also becoming a better match to that more abundant version of you.

Of course, on a purely practical note, it also means that your money’s working for you.

You can stop robbing Peter to pay Paul, shuffling money in circles or sneaking a quick peek at your banking at the supermarket checkout, in case you need to use the credit card….

As Bob Proctor once told me, there are 2 ways to make money:

People at work and money at work. 

By getting your money organized, you’re able to put your money to work for you.


Can you see how as we marry the magical with the practical it all comes together and builds momentum?

As we get more organized and declutter our money, it raises our vibration and makes us magnetic to more. And as we become magnetic to more and have a system in place to take care of that money, it can grow and multiply (or as I say, ‘make money babies’)

Your money is working for you and every dollar your money is making on its own, is a dollar you didn’t have to lift a finger for!


Here are 2 important principles for decluttering your money:


NUMBER 1: Separate business and personal money

Just as if you were decluttering your office, you would separate your office space from your home space, you want to do the same with your money.

You want that nice, clean focus.

NUMBER 2: Give every dollar a job to do

Every dollar needs a clearly defined job and a place to work.

I highly recommend you watch the episode linked below for more help with this, but here’s an easy way to get started:

Simply name your bank accounts to indicate what the actual purpose of the money in them is.!

Examples: ‘Business Operating’, ‘Fun Money’, ‘Household Bills’ etc ‘

Nickname them on your banking app so you know what the money in each account is for – and so you never have to worry about using the wrong account.

And be clear as to whether each account is business or personal.

How simple is that?

If you’d like me to take you by the hand and lead you through a step by step process to properly organize and tidy your banking, just jump on my free workshop here.


Tell me: What’s your biggest takeaway?

Are you going to stop decluttering your office and declutter your money first instead?

I’d love to see a ‘Hell yes – I’m decluttering my money!!‘ in the comments. It’ll make me so happy.


xx Miriam 

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Sometimes you’re doing all the things on the ‘manifesting abundance checklist’ – yet Law of Attraction just doesn’t seem to be working. Why is that?

Well, it’s not that it’s NOT working. It’s just that it’s working against you.

You are literally manifesting the ABSENCE of the thing you want.

In this episode, we cover ‘7 Deadly Sins’ that appear to block Law of Attraction & stop you from manifesting abundance.

So that you’ll know what to stop doing that blocks the flow – and how to turn things around so that abundance tap opens up wide.

 

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When I first learnt about Law of Attraction, I wasn’t even sure it was a real thing. But I have a science background and by the time I finished researching, I realized that not only was it a real thing – it’s a science!

And one of the things about science is that it doesn’t discriminate. This is one of the biggest mistakes people make. They think Law of Attraction only works ‘some of the time’ or for ‘some people’ (you know.. the lucky ones..)

But it’s ALWAYS working.

The question is – do we know how to make it work for us – or are we unknowingly making it work against us?

So let’s cover these 7 common ‘Law of Attraction mistakes’ so that manifesting abundance becomes easy & natural for you:

 


NUMBER 1: Focusing on what’s missing

Most people fall into this trap.
And that’s because they want to manifest something they don’t have! That’s why they want it, after all. Because it’s missing.. they don’t yet have it.

This is a tricky one and can take lots of practice. The key here is self-awareness because the natural tendency is to focus on what we want … because we don’t have it.

But ‘Like Attracts Like’, and YOU are the magnet!

Whatever you are energetically aligned with – whatever you’re focusing on – that’s what you’re going to draw more to you of. And if you’re focusing on what’s missing and that it’s not here yet, you’re manifesting more of it NOT being here.

So how do you flip that?

Well, it’s actually very easy. Look around you and try to find the closest thing that you do already have.

Let’s use the example of money. If you focus on the money you do have, and the income you are generating and feeling great about that, then you’re switching your focus from “I want extra money that I don’t yet have.” to “Oh my goodness. I love having money!”

And THAT is what makes you magnetic to more! Because where your attention goes, your energy flows and what you focus on expands.

So check in with yourself:
Are you focusing on what’s missing? Or are you focusing on what you already have that you’re excited about getting more of?

This is why one of the first keys to Magnetic Money™️ we practice in the program, is focusing on the evidence of the abundance and money we already have.

 

NUMBER 2: Constantly changing your mind

I see this a lot. People set a goal, declare a dream and get all excited – for about 5 minutes.

And then they start second-guessing themselves. They start doubting that it’s achievable, reasonable and doable.

They start thinking, “Oh, maybe I’m asking too much. Maybe if I just lower my expectations, the Universe will deliver more easily.”

But that actually means your energy is not consistently focused on the end result you want. It’s all over the place. And no momentum can build.

I like to call this ‘confusing the waiter’, because it’s like sitting in your favorite restaurant and ordering your favorite meal. But after you place your order, you call the waiter back & change it again. And then you do that again .. and again. And when they finally deliver your order to the kitchen, you call them back and decide you want the first thing you ordered after all.

How far do you think that will get you?

Can you see how that’s effectively what you’re doing to the Universe when you keep changing your mind? You’re not actually sticking with one thing long enough for it to be prepared and delivered so that you can enjoy it.

So the key is to stop changing your mind & just get excited about what you’ve ordered while you enjoy the conversation and wine at your table.

 


NUMBER 3: Not taking action

The actions you take demonstrate what you truly EXPECT.

People often sit back, waiting for the Universe to deliver before they do anything. That’s because they’re hedging their bets – they’re not really sure and they don’t want to get their hopes up.

But your action demonstrates your expectation.

And so if you don’t take action that demonstrates that you EXPECT that good thing to happen, then you’re sending out mixed messages.

Your job is to show up and be ready to receive.

So please don’t sit back on the couch, waiting for the delivery guy to knock on the door before you do something. Get up and take action!

What’s the most natural first step you can take?

What is the first step that demonstrates that you’re expecting that ultimate outcome? How can you demonstrate that positive expectation with your baby steps?

If you want to go on a big overseas trip, you start deciding where you want to go and how you’ll get there. You wouldn’t just wait until you suddenly wake up in Rome one day. You’d take action IN ADVANCE, in expectation of waking up in Rome one day.

 

NUMBER 4: Being incongruent

We already talked about the importance of taking action and how that adds to your congruence. But it’s about more than that.

It’s also about listening to the words you speak and the thoughts you think. Because sometimes we say we want one ething, but our words, our thoughts and our actions say something totally different.

And that lack of congruence means your signal to the Universe is pretty messy. And so your results will match that.



Okay, let’s press pause and check in:

So far, we’ve covered 4 of the deadly sins that appear to block Law of Attraction.  (Although, be sure to read to the end, because I’m going to explain why they’re not actually blocking Law of Attraction. They’re just making it SEEM that way)

But let’s check in.
Type me a comment below and let me know which of those 4 things you really need to address. Where have you been getting in your own way & blocking yourself from manifesting abundance?

 

 

NUMBER 5: Complaining

Complaining that it’s not here yet – complaining that it’s not working – complaining about the old situation that you want to move away from.

When you’re complaining, you are adding a LOT of energy to the fact that it’s not here yet. So what you’re basically doing is hitting the emergency brake on that manifesting train and slowing it right down.

You are literally emitting a powerful energy that says, “It’s STILL not here. Is it EVER going to come? It’s taking WAY too long!”

And you are a powerful force!

When you complain, you’re blocking it from coming, putting energetic obstacles in the path of the very thing you want.



NUMBER 6: Being too attached

When you’re overly attached to how you decide it needs to be, you’re closing down to all the other opportunities and ways it could work out.

And I’m including being too attached to all the steps along the way. To how you THINK you should get there.

Most people tend to decide where they want to go, then try to figure out how they’ll get there. They plan it all out and they get really attached.

And if the Universe / Life / God delivers something that doesn’t look like the plan that you had in your head, you decide it’s not working and that you must be off track.

But what if there’s a better way than you could ever imagine? What if you’re perfectly on track? What if this little detour is going to give you amazing things that make the end result even more magical?

Being too attached means you don’t allow yourself to go with the flow and make the most of all the opportunities and golden nuggets being offered along the way.

 

 

 

NUMBER 7: Micro-managing the Universe

This is where you really pin the Universe down and try to give specific instructions of how it should all be. And this is a BIG problem!

Because it demonstrates a lack of trust.

Going back to our previous analogy, it’s like calling the waiter over again and again to make sure that the kitchen hasn’t forgotten your order, that they got it right, have all the correct ingredients and know how to make your dish.

Your energy’s really getting in the way of the inner workings.
It’s loudly screaming “I don’t trust this process!!”

And if you do that in a restaurant, you definitely won’t get your order because you’ll likely be asked to leave.

Okay. Last, but by no means least:

Here’s the most important takeaway from this entire episode for you

Law of Attraction is ALWAYS working. There is no off switch!

It doesn’t just work when you think of it or when you decide to ‘manifest something’.

You are always manifesting. It is always on. It is always working.

Your job is to ensure that your energy is in alignment with the outcome you desire. Your job is to be as congruent as possible. That you avoid getting in the way by second-guessing the Universe.

Remember: There’s no time out!

You can’t complain that it’s not working one minute, then go back to ‘manifesting it’.

It is always working. It is always on.

And so what’s actually happening is not that you’re BLOCKING Law of Attraction from working. It’s that you’re focusing Law of Attraction on the thing you DON’T want and manifesting the ABSENCE of the thing you want.

And usually you do it without realizing, because you are not self-aware enough. That’s why in the Magnetic Money™️ program, we start by improving your self-awareness.

Because as you start to recognize what you’re actually doing and understand your role in the process, you start to manifest more abundance.

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Did you enjoy this episode?

What’s your biggest take-away? Let me know below & I’ll see you in the next one!

 

xx Miriam

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