You can manifest anything you want – if you DO THIS!

You can manifest anything you want – if you DO THIS!

by | Feb 8, 2023 | Law Of Attraction

You can manifest anything you want – provided you can create momentum & reach critical mass based on the consistent choices you make.

 

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Manifesting your desires and dreams into reality is not just about setting goals and visualizing them.

It involves doing the inner work necessary to reach a critical mass where that new reality becomes your normal, everyday INTERNAL STATE.

Achieving critical mass takes a consistent effort of aligning with the person you want to become and tapping into the power of momentum to help you tip over so that new reality becomes the NEW YOU.

It means constantly and consistently making choices that serve you – focusing on positive thoughts and emotions, while letting go of negative self-doubt and limiting beliefs – so that momentum can build, which helps you get to critical mass faster.

So if you’re not getting the results you want in your business or personal life, it might be because you’re waiting for permission from external sources.

And this stops you from achieving the 3 key factors to achieving any new goal:

  1. Critical mass
  2. Inner transformation
  3. Momentum

Let’s break it down:

1.Critical mass 

To become a new version of yourself who can achieve new things, you need to reach a certain level of consistent behavior and mindset.

It takes more than just writing down goals, creating a vision board and reciting a few affirmations.

You need to do the work internally and continually shift your state of being to align with that more abundant version of yourself.

This requires you to be brutally honest with yourself and make the effort to feel a little bit better – a little more abundant – a little more aligned – each & every day until this ‘new you’ becomes your natural state.

Until you BECOME her.

2. Inner work

There is a process required of shifting your state of being and aligning with the version of yourself you want to become.

This involves choosing to go to a better feeling place where you can imagine and FEEL  yourself enjoying your desired outcome.

This is a choice you need to make over and over and over again –  regardless of external circumstances. Inner work is a lifelong commitment, and as you continually do it, you will reach critical mass and start to grow & evolve, faster & faster.

3. Momentum


This is the third factor in achieving that tipping point.

Momentum comes as a result of consistently making the right choices and building positive energy.

If you make positive choices, you build positive momentum, and you reach critical mass faster.

However, if you keep making negative choices, you build negative momentum, and it becomes increasingly difficult to pull yourself out of that and make positive choices.

To reach critical mass so you can tip over & become that NEW YOU, it’s essential to make positive choices as often as possible. To feel good – and then a little better and a little better – over & over & over again so you can build positive momentum.

That’s how this process becomes easier.

But it starts with a decision & the willingness to shift your internal state – the way you FEEL – to a better, higher vibing place – again & again.

It’s about choosing to feel good – and always looking for ways to feel even better – regardless of external circumstances.

Once positive momentum builds, it will get so much easier.

And eventually that positive momentum, assisted by those continual choices to shift your vibration to a higher state, will help you achieve critical mass and reach that tipping point.

And that is when that manifestation can finally pop – seemingly out of nowhere!

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Beware These 5 ‘Good’ Money Habits That Will Keep You POOR!!!

Beware These 5 ‘Good’ Money Habits That Will Keep You POOR!!!

by | Jan 20, 2023 | Money Mindset

What if everything you were told to do with money – is actually wrong?

We’re told to save, budget and tighten our belts…

But today I’m going to tell you why these things may actually be keeping you poor!

 

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See, you already know what your bad money habits are – overspending, using credit, and whatever your personal vices might be.

So we’re not going to talk about that obvious stuff. We’re going to go a level deeper and talk about the attitudinal habits that make it so difficult to change those surface level ‘bad habits’

Here we go:


5 (unexpected) money habits that will keep you poor:


And the underlying factor that permeates & drives ALL of them…

If you’ve been trying to change your bad money habits, you’ve probably been doing it backwards.

Most people try to use their willpower – but that doesn’t work!

(Anyone who’s ever tried to give up smoking will tell you that)

See, with willpower, you’re trying to use your conscious mind to override an unconscious program. And since up to 98% of everything you do think, say & feel is unconscious, that’s REALLY hard work!

It means you need to stay constantly vigilant – which gets tiring. And the moment you turn your back, those old unconscious patterns kick in again and you’re back to where you started.

That’s why using willpower is a losing battle.

Unconscious patterns are great because they make our life so much easier. They allow us to do things without having to think about them too much.

But when habits that aren’t serving us become unconscious, things can get difficult.

And so we really need to go deeper and override the program that’s driving those habits.

And the beautiful thing is that as you change the program, the habits miraculously change themselves!

Because your habits need to match your underlying, unconscious program – ALWAYS.

So let’s talk about these 5 habits that are reinforcing a program that’s not serving you – and how to shift them:

NUMBER 1: SAVING

Surprised? I did say ‘unexpected’, right? 🙂

Thinking of yourself as a SAVER – rather than an INVESTOR – will keep you poor.

Saving is about being safe by squirreling your nuts away for winter.
Whole INVESTING is about achieving financial independence and growth.

When you save your money and put it in the bank, it’s actually shrinking, because standard interest rates won’t even keep up with inflation.

When you’re trying to save, coming from a mindset of ‘I have to hold onto this because I don’t want to end up poor’, it can become a self-fulfilling prophecy.

Whereas with the mindset of an INVESTOR, you’re always looking to make your money grow and multiply.

You’re sending your money off to make MONEY BABIES.

Which is how you create financial independence and freedom.


NUMBER 2: BUDGETING

Budgeting reinforces the message that ‘there’s not enough so I need to make every dollar count’.

When you’re budgeting, you’re looking to account for and stretch every dollar. It’s about ‘tighten your belt to save money’.

You’re trying to squirrel away the nuts for the winter.

But that mindset is based on lack and limitation. 

It comes from a place of restriction and constriction.

So we want to switch that up. We want to go from a mindset of budgeting to a mindset of having your money go to work for you by implementing a MONEY SYSTEM.

You want to give every dollar a job to do.

It’s the difference between safely tucking your money away in a drawer in case you need it one day, versus sending your money to work in a factory.

You want your money to be productive and make money babies – growing, multiplying and helping you reach all your financial goals. No idly sitting around doing nothing.


NUMBER 3: LACK OF FOCUS

Most people don’t have a clear financial focus.

So when a sum of money comes in – especially a large or unexpected sum – they tend to put a little bit towards savings, a little bit towards debt and maybe some towards a holiday or something like that.

It comes from the belief that there may not be more coming in consistently so you can’t afford to just focus on 1 thing.

The problem is that a little further down the track, it feels like that money never even came. The money didn’t really make an impact, because it was spread out way too thin, trying to do everything at once – but achieving pretty much nothing.

A lack of focus leaves you going nowhere fast.

Let me know in the comments if that’s ever happened to you!?



NUMBER 4: BEING STINGY WITH YOURSELF

When you don’t allow yourself enough spending money for fun stuff, it reinforces a lack mentality.

You feel like ‘there’s not enough, so I can’t afford to splurge on me.’  And in that process, you’re creating a deep sense of deprivation.

You’re reinforcing the belief that ‘there’s not enough’, and it becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy.

It causes you to resonate with an energy of lack – which will repel rather than attract money and abundance. That energy can translate into a ‘smell of desperation’ driving clients away, rather than attracting them.

By being too stingy with yourself, you’re creating a state that CONFIRMS you don’t have enough, which attracts more of ‘not enough’.

This creates situations like unexpected bills showing up and income that just doesn’t seem to want to land.

Being too stingy with yourself will also cause you to blow the budget, making you feel like you’re failing with money. And that will perpetuate the whole negative cycle even further.


NUMBER 5: INSTANT GRATIFICATION

Instant gratification usually hand in hand with using spending to mask deeper needs.

I ask Magnetic Money®️ members to check in whether a purchase is a NEED or a WANT.

Ask yourself, “Do I really need this? Or do I just want this and I’ve convinced myself that I need it?”

And if you do just want it, ask yourself, “WHY do I want it?”

Will it fulfill you, add joy to your life and help you feel consistently more abundant?

Or are you trying to mask something else?  Are you trying to mask a deeper pain – to fit in – feel loved – achieve some sort of status or acknowledgement?

What are you REALLY trying to buy?

A great indicator that a purchase was about something else entirely is when you experience buyer’s remorse.

That’s when you need to figure out what was going on at the deeper level.


THE ONE UNDERLYING FACTOR

We’ve covered 5 money habits that are keeping money at bay because they’re literally convincing you that there’s not enough, making you feel poor and creating more lack.

But there is an underlying factor that permeates all of them which needs to shift before these habits and attitudes can shift.

And this underlying factor is a very powerful limiting belief that there’s not enough money.

Wanting to save –  rather than thinking of yourself as an investor comes from a belief that ‘there’s not enough’.

“We have squirrel our nuts away for the winter”

The tendency to budget & carefully dividing up your money – rather than creating a SYSTEM that helps you grow your wealth – is based on a belief that ‘there’s not enough’.

“We have to budget and make it last”

A lack of focus comes from a belief that you cannot move forward financially by focusing on 1 thing at a time because ‘there’s not enough’. You don’t trust that more is coming, so:

“I have to make this stretch as far as possible.”

Seeking instant gratification and trying to fill deeper needs through spending comes from a belief that ‘there’s not enough’.

“I better grab it while I can!” 

Being stingy with yourself comes from a belief of ‘there’s not enough’

“It’s not okay to splurge on myself because there won’t be enough for more important things”

This underlying limiting belief acts like a systemic autopilot that reinforces these habits, keeping you poor and stuck in this mindset and belief that ‘there’s not enough’

The way to override an autopilot is to reprogram it, not fight it!

You want to be taken to a whole new destination where ‘there’s MORE than enough.’

The best way to program that new destination called ‘ABUNDANCE” is by focusing on and reinforcing the abundance that’s all around you.

You need to reprogram yourself with the belief that there’s plenty, by constantly proving it to yourself.

You don’t want to just stop being poor. You want to actually FEEL and BE rich.
You want to start developing & reinforcing habits that will make you richer.

That’s what the episode linked below is all about. So jump on that next.

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xx Miriam

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by | Nov 9, 2022 | Money Mindset

Do you find yourself at dinner with friends and feel like you’re the only one worrying about the bill?

Do you enviously see other women booking into spa days … while you’re squeezing the last bit of face cream out of a tube you bought 2 years ago?

Or maybe you LOVE to spend money – as long as it’s on OTHERS & not on you..?

No matter how it shows up, a money guilt complex is no fun.

But although it can feel really isolating, I want you to know:

You are NOT alone!

Here’s how others have described it:

I feel bad just for wanting to spend money on makeup and look after myself.

I happily invest in the stock market, but I’m too afraid to spend any cash on myself. 

I’ve been frugal for years and just realized what an unhealthy relationship I have with money.

I had a bad experience with money in the past. And even though I’m financially okay now, I’m still afraid to spend.

I’m afraid to buy a designer handbag I’ve been saving for – but meanwhile, I bought six other bags and spent more money in the process!

These are common stories. …  Always saving for the next thing. Afraid to spend money… not knowing why.

In this episode, we’ll give you some insight into what causes this – so you can change it.
And I’ll share my favorite HACK to liberate you from money guilt FAST.

But first – let’s talk about where this guilt complex & fear of spending comes from.

 

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​Let’s talk about the power of stories:

Stories are powerful. Humans have shared information through stories since the dawn of time.
And stories are HYPNOTIC! We hypnotise each other (& ourselves) with the stories we tell.

But do you remember some of the stupid stories your parents told you as a kid?
I noticed a lot of them were about our eyes:

  • Reading in the dark is bad for your eyes.
  • Sitting too close to the TV is bad for your eyes. 
  • If you don’t eat your carrots, it’s bad for your eyes
  • If you cross your eyes, they might get stuck like that. 
  • And if you keep your eyes open while sneezing, your eyeballs might pop out. 

A rather disproportionate level of concern for the welfare of our eyes, I think…..

And there’s more:

  • Cracking your knuckles will give you arthritis. 
  • Swallowed gum takes seven years to digest. 
  • Swim after eating & you’ll drown. (I would’ve drowned so many times by now!)
  • Swallow watermelon seeds and one will grow in your stomach. 

And of course everybody’s favorite:  Santa knows if you’ve been naughty or nice!

You’ll notice these stories are about trying to control our behaviour through fear.

As children, we believed them and fell in line. As we grew up, we realized they were just stories and not true.

But ask yourself:
“If I still believed those stories I was told as a kid, what would my life be like?”

Stories are powerful and hypnotic. And what’s even more powerful is the UNCONSCIOUS STORIES we pick up through what we hear, see & experience.

If we see our parents stressed and worried about money, constantly tired from working too hard, we tell ourselves a story and we start to believe it.

You take on unconscious stories about your parents’ experiences… or YOUR PERCEPTION of their experience.

So your job is to make sense of what’s true and what’s not true – what’s resourceful and what’s not resourceful – what’s going to help you in life – and what’s going to hinder and hold you back.

If your parents told you there’s monsters under the bed, will you let it ruin your sleep for the rest of your life?

As we start to recognize the stories that our parents told us, it’s important to bring a sense of compassion.

Because they were mostly trying to keep us safe. They passed on stories they believed or that were based on their experience. They meant well and they were trapped in their own stories.

When you recognize that it was just THEIR story, you can liberate yourself and decide to tell a new story.

Take a minute and think about some of the money stories your parents told you – or that you took on based on what you saw or heard.

  • What did you OBSERVE your parents do? 
  • How did you HEAR your parents say about money?
  • And what did TELL YOU about money?

Here are some MONEY STORIES I was told:

Do you think we’re rich?
Money doesn’t grow on trees.
You’ve gotta have money to make money.
Must be nice for rich people.
I wonder what they did to get THAT?? <insert suspicious look>

As you look at the  things your parents told you about money, you’ll recognize THEIR fear, THEIR guilt.

Maybe they told you not to be too greedy because when you asked for something, it triggered their fear and lack mentality. Maybe they felt bad for not being able to provide it and just wanted to make you stop asking, so they told you “Don’t be greedy!”

So none of it is REALLY about the money… it’s mostly about feeling safe!

This is why compassion and forgiveness will heal your old money stories – yours and theirs. 

But there’s more to it than just ditching money guilt & feeling ok about spending money on yourself.

Because not only do these old money stories make you feel bad and stop you from spending money that you’d really like to spend…

They also BLOCK your flow of abundance!

Because if you believe that money’s bad and that it’s not okay to want more, you will unconsciously block money from flowing to you.

But it gets worse, because:
If you stop money from flowing OUT, you’re also blocking more money from flowing IN!

Just like blocking the OUTLET of a hose stops more from flowing through the INLET, by being unwilling to spend money, you’re blocking more from flowing to you.

Which means you need to expand your comfort zone around spending money.

An easy way is to use token gestures:

Next time you go shopping, don’t compare which toilet paper is cheaper – just buy the one you want.
Go to the deli counter and buy the cheese you like – not the one on sale.

Little token gestures like this make a HUGE difference because they disrupt neural pathways.
Token gestures help you start to create a new story and expand your comfort zone around abundance.
They challenge old stories, which starts to break them down.

This is a muscle you need to exercise.

A great place to start is to decide what you want your new story to be.

If you were telling a story about money & abundance to your child, what would you want to say?

What story would you want them to take forward through life?

Gift yourself that saME story!

Tell yourself a story that’ll EMPOWER YOU, that opens you up to possibilities and makes you feel more abundant – right here, right now. 

Because YOU get to choose your story!

Here’s a hack that will help you wire that new story in faster:

Look for EVIDENCE of the new story being true!

The more you look, the more you’ll find. And that will help reinforce the new story and wire it in faster & deeper. It will help your conscious & unconscious minds to get on board with the new story faster.

Now of course you still want to save money, right? But WITHOUT feeling guilty…

So it’s important to find a happy balance between being smart with money – and having an abundance mindset. You want to be thrifty, but you want it to feel empowering.
And you want to feel GOOD about spending money on yourself – when you choose to.

That’s what the episodes linked below are all about. So be sure to check those out next.

And in the meantime, find out what your Money Habit Archetype is! You can TAKE THE QUIZ HERE. 

That will help you uncover more of those old money stories.

Enjoy!


xx Miriam

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A simple exercise to identify limiting beliefs

A simple exercise to identify limiting beliefs

by | Oct 5, 2022 | Money Blocks

Contrary to popular belief, limiting beliefs are NOT difficult to identify!

In fact – that in itself is a limiting belief!

Limiting beliefs can cause you to procrastinate, self-sabotage, freeze up in fear and miss out on golden opportunities. They generally make life difficult.

But to IDENTIFY limiting beliefs is incredibly quick & easy!

In this episode, I’m going to show you exactly how easy and simple identifying your limiting beliefs is.
I’ll share the ONE simple question that helps you do it – and show you how to use it!

 

 

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​Why is this process so simple? Because we deal with the issue at its source – your unconscious mind!

It’s your unconscious mind that CHOOSES which beliefs you take on. And it’s tapping into your unconscious mind by asking ONE simple question that helps you identify those beliefs.

And when it comes to later transforming and CHANGING those beliefs, it’s again quickest & most effective to work with your unconscious mind. But let’s worry about IDENTIFYING your limiting beliefs first!

This is actually the most important – and empowering – part of the process.

Because when you shine that light of consciousness, you are bringing that belief out of the unconscious and into your conscious awareness. And THAT is when you’re back in the driver’s seat and in a position of power.

To do that is really not that difficult. In fact, I’ve created an entire DIY system called the Limiting Belief Busting Process to help you identify and transform your limiting beliefs.

In a moment, I’ll take you through the first part of that process – to IDENTIFY YOUR LIMITING BELIEF.

We do this based on one simple principle: “Your Reasons Demonstrate Your Beliefs.”

Here’s how to apply this: Any time I ask you, “Why do you do that, say that or think that?” The REASON you give me basically tells me what you believe. It’s the beliefs you hold that inform your actions, words & thoughts.

I’m sure you’ve noticed this in your own life. Sometimes you will say something to another person and they make it mean something entirely different. That’s because they hold a belief that is coloring their perception. We all filter our experiences through this lens of our perception. And this lens is colored based on our belief system.

We don’t really experience the world as it is. We experience the world as we believe it to be.

Any time you experience negative emotions, it’s a sign that you have a limiting belief. So if you’re wondering where to begin, just look at your negative emotions. Because they indicate that you’re being triggered by a negative limiting belief. So your emotions are very helpful because they provide a signal and a clue that points you in the right direction.

So let’s demonstrate how easy it is to identify limiting beliefs. I’ll give you an example and you can play along at home with your own limiting belief.

We start with a negative emotion – identifying both the emotion and the situation it relates to.
(incidentally, if you watch the video for this episode, you’ll see me demonstrate this process using the Limiting Belief Busting Toolkit)

Let’s pretend it’s, “I feel really stressed out and scared about launching my new group program”

So we’ve identified the feeling and what it’s related to.

Now let’s use the principle I shared that our reasons demonstrate our beliefs.
We want to find out the reason for this emotion. How do we do that…? SIMPLE! We just ask!!

We literally ask, ”Why do I feel that way about this situation?”


Why do you feel really stressed out and scared? 

You could feel any other way. You could feel excited and inspired, yet you choose to feel stressed out and scared. Why do you feel that way?

And your answer will show you the underlying belief.

Let’s pretend the answer is, “Because I still feel like I don’t know enough and people won’t buy it anyway.”

So what we actually have in this example, is something that happens a lot in real life. And that is that we’ve identified TWO limiting beliefs!

First we have, ‘I still don’t know enough’.

And that’s definitely a big limiting belief..  and also very common in the women business owners I work with. This is why they tend to keep enrolling in more courses, doing more marketing programs and hiring yet another new coach.… (ring any bells..?)

So ‘I still don’t know enough‘ is definitely a limiting belief that’s going to cause all sorts of trouble and hold you back.

But we’ve also identified a second limiting belief, ‘People won’t buy it anyway’.

This is a limiting belief that people won’t buy what you have to offer – that they don’t want it.

So by getting clear on the negative emotion and asking what the reason for that feeling is, we’ve identified not one, but TWO limiting beliefs!

If we were continuing to work through the Limiting Belief Busting Process, we would now release and replace these beliefs. And we would do that by focusing on one at a time. My recommendation is to start with the one that holds the most energy – the secondary one will usually fall away in the process.

So there you have it! It’s that quick and easy to identify your limiting beliefs. 

 

All we’ve basically done is ask one question, ‘Why do you feel this negative emotion?’

By identifying the belief, you’ve taken away its power and done the lion share of the work.

Remember, this was an unconscious limiting belief until now. By identifying it, you’ve brought it into your conscious awareness. You’re literally shining a light of consciousness on it and put yourself in a position of power.

So now you can ask yourself, “Do I really want this limiting belief to inform the way I show up, the way I run my business, the way I do life? Do I want to start looking at things differently? And in what ways can I start to do that?”

Everything changes once you’ve identified that limiting belief.

Tell me in the comments below: What’s your biggest takeaway from this episode?

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Manifesting Abundance – 7 Deadly Sins That Get In The Way

Manifesting Abundance – 7 Deadly Sins That Get In The Way

by | Sep 28, 2022 | Law Of Attraction

Sometimes you’re doing all the things on the ‘manifesting abundance checklist’ – yet Law of Attraction just doesn’t seem to be working. Why is that?

Well, it’s not that it’s NOT working. It’s just that it’s working against you.

You are literally manifesting the ABSENCE of the thing you want.

In this episode, we cover ‘7 Deadly Sins’ that appear to block Law of Attraction & stop you from manifesting abundance.

So that you’ll know what to stop doing that blocks the flow – and how to turn things around so that abundance tap opens up wide.

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When I first learnt about Law of Attraction, I wasn’t even sure it was a real thing. But I have a science background and by the time I finished researching, I realized that not only was it a real thing – it’s a science!

And one of the things about science is that it doesn’t discriminate. This is one of the biggest mistakes people make. They think Law of Attraction only works ‘some of the time’ or for ‘some people’ (you know.. the lucky ones..)

But it’s ALWAYS working.

The question is – do we know how to make it work for us – or are we unknowingly making it work against us?

So let’s cover these 7 common ‘Law of Attraction mistakes’ so that manifesting abundance becomes easy & natural for you:

 


NUMBER 1: Focusing on what’s missing

Most people fall into this trap.
And that’s because they want to manifest something they don’t have! That’s why they want it, after all. Because it’s missing.. they don’t yet have it.

This is a tricky one and can take lots of practice. The key here is self-awareness because the natural tendency is to focus on what we want … because we don’t have it.

But ‘Like Attracts Like’, and YOU are the magnet!

Whatever you are energetically aligned with – whatever you’re focusing on – that’s what you’re going to draw more to you of. And if you’re focusing on what’s missing and that it’s not here yet, you’re manifesting more of it NOT being here.

So how do you flip that?

Well, it’s actually very easy. Look around you and try to find the closest thing that you do already have.

Let’s use the example of money. If you focus on the money you do have, and the income you are generating and feeling great about that, then you’re switching your focus from “I want extra money that I don’t yet have.” to “Oh my goodness. I love having money!”

And THAT is what makes you magnetic to more! Because where your attention goes, your energy flows and what you focus on expands.

So check in with yourself:
Are you focusing on what’s missing? Or are you focusing on what you already have that you’re excited about getting more of?

This is why one of the first keys to Magnetic Money™️ we practice in the program, is focusing on the evidence of the abundance and money we already have.

 

NUMBER 2: Constantly changing your mind

I see this a lot. People set a goal, declare a dream and get all excited – for about 5 minutes.

And then they start second-guessing themselves. They start doubting that it’s achievable, reasonable and doable.

They start thinking, “Oh, maybe I’m asking too much. Maybe if I just lower my expectations, the Universe will deliver more easily.”

But that actually means your energy is not consistently focused on the end result you want. It’s all over the place. And no momentum can build.

I like to call this ‘confusing the waiter’, because it’s like sitting in your favorite restaurant and ordering your favorite meal. But after you place your order, you call the waiter back & change it again. And then you do that again .. and again. And when they finally deliver your order to the kitchen, you call them back and decide you want the first thing you ordered after all.

How far do you think that will get you?

Can you see how that’s effectively what you’re doing to the Universe when you keep changing your mind? You’re not actually sticking with one thing long enough for it to be prepared and delivered so that you can enjoy it.

So the key is to stop changing your mind & just get excited about what you’ve ordered while you enjoy the conversation and wine at your table.

 


NUMBER 3: Not taking action

The actions you take demonstrate what you truly EXPECT.

People often sit back, waiting for the Universe to deliver before they do anything. That’s because they’re hedging their bets – they’re not really sure and they don’t want to get their hopes up.

But your action demonstrates your expectation.

And so if you don’t take action that demonstrates that you EXPECT that good thing to happen, then you’re sending out mixed messages.

Your job is to show up and be ready to receive.

So please don’t sit back on the couch, waiting for the delivery guy to knock on the door before you do something. Get up and take action!

What’s the most natural first step you can take?

What is the first step that demonstrates that you’re expecting that ultimate outcome? How can you demonstrate that positive expectation with your baby steps?

If you want to go on a big overseas trip, you start deciding where you want to go and how you’ll get there. You wouldn’t just wait until you suddenly wake up in Rome one day. You’d take action IN ADVANCE, in expectation of waking up in Rome one day.

 

NUMBER 4: Being incongruent

We already talked about the importance of taking action and how that adds to your congruence. But it’s about more than that.

It’s also about listening to the words you speak and the thoughts you think. Because sometimes we say we want one ething, but our words, our thoughts and our actions say something totally different.

And that lack of congruence means your signal to the Universe is pretty messy. And so your results will match that.



Okay, let’s press pause and check in:

So far, we’ve covered 4 of the deadly sins that appear to block Law of Attraction.  (Although, be sure to read to the end, because I’m going to explain why they’re not actually blocking Law of Attraction. They’re just making it SEEM that way)

But let’s check in.
Type me a comment below and let me know which of those 4 things you really need to address. Where have you been getting in your own way & blocking yourself from manifesting abundance?

 

 

NUMBER 5: Complaining

Complaining that it’s not here yet – complaining that it’s not working – complaining about the old situation that you want to move away from.

When you’re complaining, you are adding a LOT of energy to the fact that it’s not here yet. So what you’re basically doing is hitting the emergency brake on that manifesting train and slowing it right down.

You are literally emitting a powerful energy that says, “It’s STILL not here. Is it EVER going to come? It’s taking WAY too long!”

And you are a powerful force!

When you complain, you’re blocking it from coming, putting energetic obstacles in the path of the very thing you want.



NUMBER 6: Being too attached

When you’re overly attached to how you decide it needs to be, you’re closing down to all the other opportunities and ways it could work out.

And I’m including being too attached to all the steps along the way. To how you THINK you should get there.

Most people tend to decide where they want to go, then try to figure out how they’ll get there. They plan it all out and they get really attached.

And if the Universe / Life / God delivers something that doesn’t look like the plan that you had in your head, you decide it’s not working and that you must be off track.

But what if there’s a better way than you could ever imagine? What if you’re perfectly on track? What if this little detour is going to give you amazing things that make the end result even more magical?

Being too attached means you don’t allow yourself to go with the flow and make the most of all the opportunities and golden nuggets being offered along the way.

 

 

 

NUMBER 7: Micro-managing the Universe

This is where you really pin the Universe down and try to give specific instructions of how it should all be. And this is a BIG problem!

Because it demonstrates a lack of trust.

Going back to our previous analogy, it’s like calling the waiter over again and again to make sure that the kitchen hasn’t forgotten your order, that they got it right, have all the correct ingredients and know how to make your dish.

Your energy’s really getting in the way of the inner workings.
It’s loudly screaming “I don’t trust this process!!”

And if you do that in a restaurant, you definitely won’t get your order because you’ll likely be asked to leave.

Okay. Last, but by no means least:

Here’s the most important takeaway from this entire episode for you

Law of Attraction is ALWAYS working. There is no off switch!

It doesn’t just work when you think of it or when you decide to ‘manifest something’.

You are always manifesting. It is always on. It is always working.

Your job is to ensure that your energy is in alignment with the outcome you desire. Your job is to be as congruent as possible. That you avoid getting in the way by second-guessing the Universe.

Remember: There’s no time out!

You can’t complain that it’s not working one minute, then go back to ‘manifesting it’.

It is always working. It is always on.

And so what’s actually happening is not that you’re BLOCKING Law of Attraction from working. It’s that you’re focusing Law of Attraction on the thing you DON’T want and manifesting the ABSENCE of the thing you want.

And usually you do it without realizing, because you are not self-aware enough. That’s why in the Magnetic Money™️ program, we start by improving your self-awareness.

Because as you start to recognize what you’re actually doing and understand your role in the process, you start to manifest more abundance.

And if you would love lots of high-touch personal support from me to facilitate your money transformation, just click here to find out more about Magnetic Money™️.

Did you enjoy this episode?

What’s your biggest take-away? Let me know below & I’ll see you in the next one!

 

xx Miriam

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