How to achieve financial goals WITHOUT being a Scrooge!

How to achieve financial goals WITHOUT being a Scrooge!

Did you know that being a Scrooge and becoming too frugal can actually be counterproductive?

We’re often told to tighten our belts, cut all unnecessary expenses & save, save, save if we want to achieve our financial goals. But that can actually stop more money from flowing!

So today we’ll talk about why and how being too frugal can be counterproductive – and what to focus on instead to help you achieve those financial goals and encourage MORE money to flow.

We’ll cover 4 ways over tightening your belt can choke the flow of money and abundance. Then we’ll discuss 3 things you should focus on instead so you can achieve those goals AND attract more money along the way.

 

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But let’s be clear. I’m not telling you NOT to save money and cut unnecessary spending. It’s great to stop wasting money. But it’s also way toop easy to go overboard and over tighten that belt so much that you’re also completely choking the flow of abundance!

What’s worse, you may also convince yourself that to get financially ahead, this is how life has to be. You may be reinforcing and creating a poverty mindset.

Plus, living too skint is usually not sustainable. And that can lead to budget blowouts and a sense of failure. And sometimes all that frustration will result in a full blown ‘budget rebellion’ where you go on a spending spree and undo all the great progress you just made.

Before we get into it, a little story for you:

When I was a broke, newly single mom, I would drive into my son’s very expensive private school in my Mazda. It wasn’t a bomb, but this school carpark was full of convertible Bentleys and other luxury vehicles, with nannies driving the kids to school. And I would feel so embarrassed and like I didn’t belong at all, and like I had ‘broke single mum struggling to pay her rent’ tattooed across my forehead.

But the really interesting thing is that even after my business took off and the money started flowing in, that feeling persisted. I still felt like I didn’t belong. I still felt uncomfortable and awkward. I still felt embarrassed and ashamed  – even though I was probably making more money than some of the other parents. And don’t get me wrong – everyone was quite lovely. It was nothing they did. It’s just what I perceived and how I felt.

Even though I was making great money and running a successful business, I still felt less than. And that is the danger here. If you overdo the frugality thing, if you turn this into a way of life, you may program yourself into thinking that you are a pauper. That you don’t belong and don’t deserve the nice things in life.

Having more money does not guarantee feeling abundant.

So let’s cover a few ways being too frugal can block the flow of money. What you’ll notice is that these points are all about marrying the magical with the practical, which is what I’m all about.

Because you have an energetic relationship with money. You either magnetically attract it – or repel it. You also have an unconscious relationship with money – your internal stories about your self-worth, your deservingness and whether money is hard or easy to make. And then you also have a practical relationship with money, which is all about having money confidence and knowing what to do with your money.

We need to bring all of that together and into harmony. This is what the Magnetic Money™️ program is all about. You can check it out here.

NUMBER 1:
The first thing to remember is that feeling abundant is what makes you magnetic to more. So if you overdo the cost cutting and start living too frugally, you leave no room for feeling abundant and enjoying the money you have. And that means you’re closing the gates that allow more abundance to flow.

You are the magnet.

When you feel abundant, you attract abundance. And when you feel like there’s not enough, you attract more ‘not enoughness’.

So you want the actions you take to make you feel abundant and celebrate the money you have in your life.

 

 

NUMBER 2:
Having dedicated fun money is a legitimate manifesting exercise that allows you to attract more money consistently.

It helps you naturally align with the vibration of abundance and become magnetic to more.

So it’s important to have SOME fun money that you can spend on whatever you like – no judgment, no repercussions, no apologies and no guilt.

But the problem is that when most people decide to ‘tighten their belt’, fun money is the first thing to go!

(Of course, you need to have your money system set up to ensure you know where to find your fun money and how much there is so you can spend it without adversely affecting your goals. You can check out the Magnetic Money™️ System Bootcamp here if you need help with setting up your money system)


NUMBER 3:
Over tightening your belt and living really skint will almost guarantee budget blowouts. Because life happens.

And if you keep blowing the budget, you’ll start feeling like you failed, like you can’t do this & like it doesn’t work. You might go into full blown ‘budget rebellion’ where you go on a spending spree and undo all your good work. 

So you don’t want to over tighten the belt to where it’s not sustainable. 

(There’s an episode linked below in which I take you through the basic principles of a money system that works, so be sure check that out next.)


Let me know in the comments:
Have you given up on budgeting because you kept blowing the budget?
And have you ever gone into a full budget rebellion and gone on a spending spree? (and what did you buy?)


NUMBER 4:
Now, the final reason you don’t want to over tighten your belt and become a total scrooge is that it can really fuel a poverty mindset.

Lots of people who join the Magnetic Money™️ program are already trying to overcome a poverty mindset. And as I showed you in my personal story, more money doesn’t change that pattern!

If your unconscious program says it’s never enough and you’re not safe, you still won’t be able to relax even when you make more money. You’ll still worry.

We call that an Accumulator Habit Archetype pattern. It’s usually fed by an old money story that says “I’m not safe. It’s never enough.”

And so when you get into a habit of drastically cutting costs, you’re reinforcing that pattern and story. And the problem with that is that even when you’ve completely changed your financial situation, you’ll still feel broke. And that is just no fun.

So, let’s talk about what you can do instead, that will allow you to reach your financial goals WITHOUT inadvertently turning off the tap of abundance.

FIRST:
Whenever you cut costs, do it from a place of empowerment. 

You want to feel excited, knowing this is helping you move forward financially. You don’t want to feel like you’re sacrificing your first born to pay off a credit card! You want to feel like you’re trimming some fat that was just weighing you down anyway.

And whatever you’re substituting that old thing with, make sure it’s something that nourishes you even more.



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Leave plenty of wiggle room!

You want to prevent budget blowouts and a full blown budget rebellion. You want to feel good about staying on track and you want to actually achieve those goals.

Leaving plenty of wiggle room and not making things too tight is a simple way to help you chieve that.


FINALLY:
We already talked about the importance of fun money.

Yes, cut spending on things you don’t need. Save money where money is being wasted. But amongst all of that, there has to be some dedicated fun money that allows you to feel abundant and celebrate the money you do have – even if it’s $10 a week. Even if it’s just that one coffee date you take yourself on.

The trick is to really celebrate and enjoy it. 

Feel good about the choices you made and appreciate spending that fun money even more.

There’s a world of difference between savouring your weekly coffee date even more because it’s more special now versus feeling like you’re not allowed to do anything fun anymore because you have to save money.

In an upcoming episode, I’ll be talking about the importance of focusing on what you have in order to attract more. I’ll be pointing out the ways people get it backwards, even though they think they’re doing it right. So keep an eye out for that!

Now, to succeed with all of this, you will need to have your banking sorted. Because that’s the basic infrastructure through which your money flows. So if you haven’t taken my free workshop to help you organize and tidy your banking yet, I suggest you hop on it now.

And if you’re ready for a full blown money transformation and want high-touch, live  support from myself, then check out Magnetic Money™️.

I hope you enjoyed this episode!

Let me know your biggest take-is in the comments below and I’ll see you in the next one.

xx Miriam 

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The Hidden Money Block Nobody Talks About

The Hidden Money Block Nobody Talks About

There’s a hidden money block nobody talks about… and it’s a lack of money confidence!

While people busily work on their mindset and try to align with more abundance, so more money can flow – they often miss one very important detail.

And that is that, once the money comes in, you actually have to deal with it!

Because you’ll need to distribute your income, pay your bills and taxes and make a whole bunch of financial decisions.

You’ll ALWAYS have to interface with your  money – no matter how much – or how little – comes in it. 

You simply cannot avoid dealing with your money.

 

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And if you lack confidence – if you’re not sure how to best manage your money – that right there is a MASSIVE mindset wobble AND a huge vibrational wobble!

Because if there’s uncertainty, intrepidation or even anxiety…. 

If you’re uncomfortable looking at your banking…
If you’re not quite sure what the best thing to do with your money is…

That creates an unconscious block to more of it flowing into your experience!

You will unconsciously BLOCK IT – because ultimately, it gets UNCOMFORTABLE

And no amount of alignment or mindset work can overcome that.

When I first started working with women in business on their money mindset, I noticed an attitude of “I’ll just manifest more money and that’ll fix everything.”

They thought by manifesting more, they’d be able to avoid having to deal with it

But that’s backwards!

Because the sooner that we gain those money skills, the sooner we grow in money confidence – which helps us dissolve those mindset and energetic wobbles, so more money can flow.

If you lack confidence in managing your finances, you’re definitely not alone!

Because most of us were never shown what to do. Nobody showed us how to organize and manage our money when we were young. And even if you took a business course, usually you learn how to manage the company’s money, but not your personal money. (I’ve worked with several Accountants who struggled to manage their personal finances, because nobody had ever taught them!)

Most people walk around with this silent money shame.
They’re just making it up as they go, hoping for the best. But they don’t feel like they know what they’re doing. They have no confidence in their ability to make the right decisions.

And if that’s you, please know it’s not your fault!
Because how are you meant to know what to do, if nobody ever showed you?

If you have ever tried to get help with managing your finances, you probably noticed how hard it is to find someone who’s able and willing to teach you what you need to do.

When I first started my business, my accountant would tell me how well I was doing..  but we never talked about my credit card debt and the enormous stress it was causing me! My business was going great, but I was personally super stressed about money! And my accountant only focused on the business and its finances. And it wasn’t their fault – that’s their job.

Then there are financial advisers & planners. But they’re usually looking to invest a few hundred thousand dollars of your money to help secure your financial future. And that’s great, but how do you get there in the first place?

Last – and definitely LEAST – are the “Done For You” budgeting and money management services!
I have a major issue with those and think they’re rife with danger.

Because when you give away your power, not only do you never learn how to manage your money…
You’re paying somebody else (often exorbitant sums of money) to do it for you and that keeps you stuck, waiting for them to give you weekly pocket money like a kid.

When I was running my finance business, I often saw these services go horribly wrong for my clients. It made me so angry. Clients were paying huge amounts of money but  not learning how to take responsibility for their finances or become financially independent.

And worst of all… unbeknownst to them, their bills – including their mortgages – were often being consistently paid late – and their credit score took a dive down the toilet!
It left many people in a very difficult predicament.

So I urge you: Get educated and learn how to manage your money YOURSELF!

The great news is that it’s so much easier than you think! It just takes a simple step by step process. And it all starts by asking yourself “How do I do this and where do I start?”

Above all, please give yourself a break and stop blaming yourself!
Because remember, nobody ever taught you how to do it! And the resultant lack of money confidence is a massive money block – which only makes things harder!

But as you set out to educate yourself and learn how to manage your money, you’ll transform your relationship with money. As you grow in money confidence, it will help dissolve those money blocks and old stories of “I’m not good with money. Money slips through my fingers” etc

And as these things start to shift, you’ll start to attract more money consistently. And that will help buoy your confidence… and then you’re up & away!

Learning how to take loving care of your money is a beautiful healing act that helps you transform your relationship with money – both inside and out.

It makes you magnetic to more and it transforms the way you feel about life. It’s a beautiful thing.

If you’re not sure where to begin, I recommend starting by organizing your banking, because having that set up properly is the foundation stone of a money system designed for growth.
I have a free workshop you can take to help you do that, Just click click here to get started.

I look forward to seeing you there so you can start transforming your relationship with money from the inside out. 

Remember, abundance is an inside job – but there are things you need to do on the ‘outside’ that allow it to flow. 

Before you go, I’d love to hear from you!
On a scale of 1-10, where’s your money confidence at right now?

Please let me know in the comments below.

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Removing limiting beliefs about money – common mistakes

Removing limiting beliefs about money – common mistakes

So I have good news and bad news when it comes to removing limiting beliefs about money

The bad news first:

The bad news is that you have limiting beliefs about money. Lots of them!

I do too. Actually we all do. Even Oprah has limiting beliefs about money – because she’s human.

Let’s talk about the good news, shall we?

The good news is that removing limiting beliefs about money can actually be super simple and easy.

So in this episode we’re going to talk about the three most common ways that people get it wrong when it comes to removing limiting beliefs about money.

And we’ll talk about why the simple and easy approach is actually also a lot more effective.

 

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Like everyone, I’ve had and still have my fair share of limiting beliefs about money. We all have them. The thing is, are they getting in the way of us having the life and the abundance and the amount of money that we want or not?

Like most people, when I first realized that it was my own negative thinking that was the biggest obstacle to me having all the abundance and joy and success that I wanted, I also got worried, like REALLY worried!

And so I started to dedicate myself to doing all I could to clearing those limiting beliefs and removing those money blocks and obstacles.  

To be honest, I became totally obsessed with doing my mindset work.

I was doing affirmations, making vision boards, I journaled and I visualized. I did everything. I was a total mindset junkie and I went to every seminar I could possibly go to and read every book I could read.

But I soon figured out that the harder I tried, the more difficult it seemed to get. I was stuck, spinning on a hamster wheel. And eventually I decided I really needed to take a different approach. And so I completely changed my approach to my money mindset work and to removing limiting beliefs about money.

And it really, really worked. It was like the floodgates opened and suddenly everything became easy.

That’s when I went from being a single mum on welfare to building my own business in finance. It took off, I won awards, I had a leveraged multiple six figure income, I bought the house of my dreams, a beachfront apartment and other investment properties, started traveling the world, got paid to speak and still get paid to speak on the stages of some of my heroes and mentors.

My life changed quite drastically.

And what’s more, I’ve sharing these practices and everything I learned with my students and also help them create really abundant and joyful lives and businesses so they can show up and fully be all that they were born to be. And we do it the simple and easy way.

So in this episode, I’m going to share with you the top 3 mindset traps people can fall into when it comes to removing limiting beliefs about money.

Number 1:

Having a giant daily checklist of mindset practices you feel you have to do before you’re even allowed to start your day.

What you’re doing there when you put that giant checklist between you and the abundance you want, you’re telling yourself that you have to work really hard to get what you want and that the more you do, the more you get in return.

And that’s kind of the opposite of what we’re looking to do.

Number 2:

The second way that people get in their own way is they get really addicted to mindset work.

I have a very unladylike saying around that and it basically goes “Don’t go digging in your crap just for the sake of it – you’ll just come up smelly.”

Because the more you look, the more you’ll find.

If you start consistently looking for limiting beliefs, then spend time working on clearing them, then look for more, you’re going to keep finding more and more and more. It’ll take up all your time and focus.

Worst of all, you will convince yourself that you are broken, that there is something wrong with you, and that you cannot have the abundance you want until you’ve sorted this stuff out.

So those are the first two ways most people put a block on allowing abundance to flow to them.

There is a third one I want to share with you which is actually the biggest mindset trap of all.

But first I want to know, of the couple I’ve just talked about, which resonates with you?

Please share it with me in the comments below.

Number 3:

Now… let’s talk about the number one way that people get themselves in trouble and keep themselves stuck with their actual mindset practices.

It’s simply that they do not allow themselves to graduate energetically to the next level.

Here’s how it shows up:

When you first start on this journey, you know, you start to look for the evidence of abundance that’s all around you and you celebrate all of it. And that’s great.

But eventually you need to graduate from going, “Oh my God, that’s so amazing! Somebody just paid me for my work“, to feeling quite comfortable and normal about it.

That’s when you graduate and start look toward the next level of abundance.

Think about it…. Millionaire You (as I like to call it), that next more abundant version of you, would THEY run around the house yelling, screaming, and high-fiving everyone for a $100 sale?

They probably wouldn’t.

They would acknowledge it. They would feel grateful, absolutely, because one of the keys to letting the money flow is to appreciate and acknowledge every cent.

But it’s the WAY you do it.

If you treat it like it’s some big unexpected windfall, then that’s energetically what you’re putting out there. But the abundant, ‘Millionaire You’ would go “I so appreciate every single cent. It all feels totally natural and normal, and I look forward to more”.

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Simple Money Mindset Hacks To Get Your Income Flowing.

Simple Money Mindset Hacks To Get Your Income Flowing.

​Has improving your money mindset been on your mind? (No pun intended.)

There’s a LOT of information out there on how to clear your money blocks and get more income flowing.
Some is really good, some is just awful & most of it is utterly confusing and way too complicated.

So today we’re going to focus on simple money mindset hacks to get your income flowing.

We’ll cover some easy strategies you can use any time, anywhere to improve your money mindset and get more money flowing.

And along the way I’m going to share with you 3 easy ways to clear your money blocks that are so simple, a ten-year-old can do them.

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I specialise in helping women entrepreneurs clear their money blocks and improve their money mindset so they can take confident control of their money and attract plenty more.

When we first start working together, most people are surprised by how simple some of the things are will really improve your money mindset.

That’s because we’re working with the unconscious mind.

And when you understand how it works, you can tap into that and make life easy for yourself because the unconscious is that part of you that does make life easy.

Its job is to take things off your plate and get them done without you needing to think about it. 

Basically it puts things on autopilot so you don’t have to think about them.

It makes sure that you keep breathing, and your heart keeps pumping. 

It also helps you make tying your shoelaces/driving a car/riding a pushbike so easy that you don’t have to think about that stuff anymore – once it’s been passed to your unconscious mind.

So simple mindset money hacks are also actually the ones that tend to be most effective… because they work WITH your unconscious rather than against it.

Today I’ve handpicked 3 really easy ways for you to clear your money blocks – that give you the biggest bang for your buck.

Because simple things are EASY TO REMEMBER, EASY TO PRACTICE and give you THE MOST PROGRESS – FAST!

Two things to understand before we go there:

NUMBER ONE: Have you heard the saying “cells that fire together wire together” or “cells out of sync fail to link”?

When you understand what those sayings really mean you can use them to your advantage, to really clear your money blocks, because those blocks are just recurring patterns of thought.

They’re beliefs that have become wired deeply into your unconscious; neural pathways firing automatically over and over and over again.

As you become aware of that, you can start to break those old patterns. And it’s simple to do.

Neural pathways strengthen if you keep using them. And when you stop using them, they weaken.

Here’s an analogy I like to use: Imagine there’s a path through the forest that connects two villages, and you’ve discovered this little path. It’s a handy shortcut so you keep using it. After a while some of your friends join you and the word gets out and more and more people use this shortcut. Eventually the Council gets wind of it and says, “Okay, we’re going to turn this into a proper foot path” and lays asphalt down. And eventually it actually becomes a road, perhaps even a four lane highway, because it keeps getting used.

Now imagine that something happens – for some reason that highway stops being used. The asphalt starts cracking. Plants and flowers start sprouting through, and over time everything breaks down and atrophies and reverts back to that beautiful forest it once was.

The same thing happens in your brain.

If you keep firing the same pathways they strengthen, they become the dominant thing that automatically fires without you thinking about it. And if you stop using those pathways, they start to atrophy – because the mind, the brain, the entire body is a really effective organism and it’s not going to keep nourishing and feeding and fueling and keeping something going that isn’t of any use to you.

So remembering that is really important in helping you understand why these three tips are so powerful.

The NUMBER TWO thing to understand is that you only have so much mental bandwidth on any given day.

There’s only so much your brain can focus on. You know this, because you get overwhelmed.

(This is why it’s important to turn off notifications on your phone and not look at it until you’ve done what you really need to do for yourself each morning).

We want to use that knowledge to create a “crowding-out effect”.

By crowding out the thing that’s NOT serving you with something that does serve you, you take advantage of the fact that there’s only so much of that resource to go around.

There’s only so much bandwidth.

And once you’ve taken it all up with something really positive and empowering there’s nothing left over for the negative unhelpful stuff.

So with these three tips, we’re going to take maximum advantage of both of these brain principles.

TIP NUMBER ONE: Crowd It Out.

All you need to do is notice the evidence of abundance of all the money you do have in your life and shift your focus more and more towards that – because what you focus on expands. 

Where attention goes energy flows. Cells that fire together wire together, right?

By constantly focusing on and looking for what is working, the money that is there, the abundance that is flowing, everything that is always working out for you, there’s no space and time to focus on the other stuff.

TIP NUMBER TWO: Amplify It!

In that moment where you’re noticing the evidence of abundance, the money’s rolled in, something wonderful happened, you want to punctuate it. Punctuate that abundance with what I call an “evidence mantra”.

Right in that moment where you’re noticing the evidence of abundance you’re going to punctuate it and amplify it by adding that evidence mantra, which can be something like “That’s right! And there’s plenty more where that came from!”

What this mantra does is it reinforces to yourself that money has arrived, that abundance is always there, that you expect more of it, and that this actually is a pattern you’re becoming aware of, a pattern that you’re starting to reinforce.

And this is how you hypnotize yourself into abundance rather than hypnotizing yourself into poverty.

Once you’ve put that evidence mantra out there, you might find that you want to keep going – and you totally can. You can say “…and this is only the beginning! This is just the tip of the iceberg. Money’s constantly flowing to me. I know that I always have money flowing to me. And yes, there are times when I worry about it, but then money just comes. Money is always continuing to flow to me.”

 And as you do that, you’re really getting into a kind of hypnotic rant where you’re reinforcing to yourself that abundance is a pattern that is actually dominant in your life.

These kinds of practices really help you move from a scarcity mindset to an abundance mindset.

So what will your evidence mantra be?

It can be anything from “That’s right, money’s always flowing to me,” or “Plenty more where that came from,” or “Money always magically shows up”. My students have many evidence mantras – and they all work, because they’re reinforcing what’s right in front of them, irrefutable proof, and it’s part of a pattern. 

TIP NUMBER THREE: Delay And Distract.

Clearing your money blocks is a process – and when you delay and distract it causes a pattern interrupt. 

It’s a way of starting to break down that old neural pathway by not going there just yet, and putting a little bit of a chink in that record.

So instead of directly going into an old pattern of thought, of action or activity, you catch yourself and notice that you’re about to do it. You just say “in a minute”. You basically delay, you say “not yet – in a minute”. And then you distract yourself for two minutes or more by doing something totally different. And this taps into the way your mind naturally works. It starts to break down those old neural pathways and really weaken that old pattern.

Have you noticed that none of these tips are about working directly on your money blocks?

That’s because if you go there, your tendency will be to reinforce them. And next thing, you will have inadvertently hypnotized yourself into believing that you have a really big problem that’s hard to overcome.

So going there and dealing with the money blocks themselves – you’re better off doing with the guidance of a professional.

But, in the meantime, a simple, easy and powerful way to really start making some progress and break down old patterns is to use those principles of crowding them out, of starting to atrophy the old pathways by using delay and distract, and reinforcing new patterns by giving them your focus, your energy, and amplifying them.

The reason your money mindset is such a big deal is ultimately it creates all these unconscious habits – it determines what you actually do with your money, what your money habits are.

Are you somebody who’s in the habit of always managing to save a little bit?

Or are you somebody who’s in the habit of always spending all their money, no matter how much comes in?

Or maybe you’re somebody who’s in the habit of always overextending themselves just a little bit (or a lot).

This is your Money Habit Archetype. It is your predominant habit pattern around money and it’s driven by an unconscious program.

So to help you discover what your money habit archetype is, and then to dive deeper and discover what’s driving your relationship with money and what that unconscious program actually is, I’ve created this really simple, handy quiz.

Find out what your money habit archetype is, then make sure you provide me with your email address because I will send you some really powerful questions specific to your money habit archetype that help you dive deeper and find out what those limiting beliefs are and the patterns that are driving it at the unconscious level.

The link is in today’s freebie section below, so go take that next & discover your Money Habit Archetype.

It’s time to embrace your unlimited potential, and it starts by taking the next step – discovering what those unconscious patterns are that are driving you.

And now you know exactly how to do that. 

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Would you love a list of limiting beliefs about money that might be lurking in your unconscious?

Today I’m going to share with you a list of limiting beliefs about money that covers the top 6 nasties which could be stopping more money from flowing to you.

And I bet they’re not what you’d expect!

As a hypnotherapist and a money mentor for women in business, I’ve helped to clear a lot of limiting beliefs around money, and there is a definite pattern as to the most common ones.

Today I’m going to cover for you the top six limiting beliefs that I’ve helped hundreds of students and clients clear, which has helped them put an end to self-sabotage patterns and finally grow their income and their business.

 

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But what’s more, I’m also going to give you an idea of how these tend to show up, because the thing is that the limiting belief is hiding in the unconscious and it does take a bit of work to uncover. 

But there are certain patterns that will show up as a result of this list of limiting beliefs about money. You can kind of think of them as what the logical outcome would be if that belief were actually true – because even though these limiting beliefs are actually NOT true, at the unconscious level, you believe they are, which makes them true for YOU.

You literally keep attracting and creating situations over and over and over again, that proves them to be true for you.

Let’s dive in and see which of these resonate with you so that we can help you clear the obstacles to your abundance:

Limiting belief number 1: “I’m not good enough”

This is the one that leads to patterns of undercharging, which means that you end up working way too hard for too little money. And it’s also the one that’s responsible for signing up for way too many courses and thinking that you need yet another qualification before you can finally be ‘good enough’.

Limiting belief number 2: “I’m not worthy”. 

This one sounds similar, but it’s very different. This is the one that leads to patterns of giving way too much away for free because you at the unconscious level, don’t feel like you’re worthy of keeping the money and having the good things.

So the patterns that show up as a result of a belief of “I’m not worthy” are things like giving everything away for free & having short discovery calls turn into hour and a half long full-blown sessions that you don’t even charge for. And it’s also the one that’s often responsible for a pattern of where money comes in – even good sums of money – and you finding really creative ways to get rid of it fast.

Limiting belief number 3: “I don’t deserve it”.

Again, sounds similar, but quite different. Each of these limiting beliefs is literally a separate daisy chain in your nervous system. And so it is really important to identify the one that is yours and not to knock out the neighbor by accident.

So “I don’t deserve it,” is the one that leads to patterns of blocking the abundance, of hitting upper limits, of working really, really hard. It’s when the same thing is working for everybody else and you’re using the same strategies, but the money just doesn’t seem to be coming to you, no matter how hard you work for it.

Limiting belief number 4: “It’s not good enough”

This is where whatever you do is not good enough.

This one leads to patterns of overworking, of over perfecting everything, of reworking everything, of giving those extra sessions, because you feel like you haven’t quite done a good enough job for your client. It’s the over-giving and the overworking pattern. That’s usually a sign that there’s a limiting belief that “It’s not good enough”.

Limiting belief number 5: “It’s not safe to shine / be successful”

This is a particular nasty and is the one that keeps you playing small. It’s when you refuse to put yourself out in the spotlight because you have this limiting belief that it’s not safe to shine.

This is the one that will have you avoiding doing Facebook lives, or showing up to do your marketing or following up leads. It’s also the one that creates sabotage when opportunities come up. For example, when you don’t meet the deadline, or you lose the person’s email address that offered to do this amazing joint venture with you.

It’s also the one that leads to patterns of you not closing the sale, and not following through to then step up and be the person who can do that amazing job for your client.

Now, you might be noticing a pattern here that these aren’t really that much about money. 

I’m going to talk about this in a minute and why that’s so critical to recognize, but first let’s talk about the sixth and final one of these top six nasties now.

Limiting belief number 6: “I’m not important.”

This one is the one that will lead to patterns of you putting everyone else first – of you over-giving and not asking for what you want. It basically says that ‘Everybody else’s needs are more important than mine,’ which means that you don’t get your needs met as you’re putting everybody else first.

Let me know in the comments below, which of these limiting beliefs and patterns can you relate to?

You’ll notice that most of the nasties in this list of limiting beliefs about money have pretty much nothing to do with money and everything to do with your self-belief and your self-worth. 

And that’s because it’s not really about the money. 

Money is just a symbol. It’s literally a demonstration of your self-worth,. Your pattern sabotage and blocking of abundance is simply playing out in response to that underlying belief system.

This is your money story. 

It’s the story you bought into at the unconscious level and it’s made up of the sum of all your limiting beliefs. 

If you want to transform that money story, so you can stop blocking abundance and stop making life more difficult than it needs to be, then you really have to start by uncovering your dominant money pattern.

That’s your Money Habit Archetype, and to help you uncover that, I’ve created a really simple quiz – the Money Habit Archetype Quiz, which you can take that right now at www.miriamcastilla.com/quiz

Just answer five simple questions and you’ll find out what your Money Habit Archetype is and how to use it to release your biggest money block.

Because it’s time for you to embrace your unlimited potential!

xx Miriam

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