Stop fighting about money

Stop fighting about money

Let’s talk about what’s going on when you’re constantly fighting about money with your partner. 

It’s not fun, right?  So we want to deal with it, solve it and resolve it and get you back to a peaceful place where money isn’t causing such a rift in your relationship.

Now, the first thing to understand is that when there are arguments about money, it comes from an underlying fear. 

So the first thing you want to do is start to look into is, is it his fear, or your fear? 

And, at the end of the day, it actually doesn’t even matter. But it is important to recognize your own fear within that because if you weren’t also fearful (even if he was) you wouldn’t feel the need to be defensive, right? 

So, it comes back to:

“Everything on the outside of you is a reflection of what’s going on on the inside of you”.

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So, particularly with our life partner, we’re constantly reflecting and mirroring and shadowing off each other. 

So sometimes, we will project all our unresolved things that we’re not really ready to deal with onto them. So we go, “You’re doing this, you’re doing that, you’re doing that,” but what it really is, there’s a part of us that doesn’t like the fact that we sometimes do that or maybe we are currently doing it and we’re just not owning up to it, not even to ourselves.

So, the bottom line is that you need to heal the fear within you, because it’s just causing a vicious spiral.

And when you get to a place where you no longer hold the fear around finances then, first of all, they won’t be mirroring it back to you. And even if they have their own fear going on, your energy, your calmness, your “Hey babe, it’s okay, we’re all sorted,” will actually start to rub off on them. 

They will start to resonate more and more with where you’re at once you are stable enough in your own state of being chilled about money and knowing it’s all under control, there’s plenty more coming and we’re okay, babe.

So, like everything else, really, that I teach you, it’s all about you, because you are the creator of your life and you are this beautiful energy with consciousness so you get to cause that effect on the energy field around you and your partner will just pick up on what’s going on with you. 

So, start fixing what’s going on within you and your world will shift.

Now, if you want to get stuck into it straight away, then make sure you grab my Manifesting Money Training. This 25-minute video training takes you through the 5 reasons you’re not manifesting more money – and what to do about it!

It’ll go a long way towards healing those underlying fears that I’ve just talked about and help you have a much more harmonious relationship about money with your partner. So grab that from the link in the description.

I will see you next time. Keep on embracing your beautiful and unlimited potential.

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Who’s getting in the way of your 6-figure business?

Who’s getting in the way of your 6-figure business?

Do you feel like other people are getting in the way of your 6-figure business? 

Maybe your partner’s not very supportive, or maybe you’ve got family who keep doubting everything you do and keep telling you all the bad news of all the people that have gone bust before you – who dared to venture into business, or maybe you’re not feeling supported by your assistant and the other people you’re paying to help you reach that 6-figure income.

It’s frustrating, it’s demoralizing, and it’s just argh! 

Now, as much as it is all of that, I invite you to go a level higher, because that’s what we’re all about here. You are the creator of your world. You are the creator of your life. Everything that is happening on the outside of you – you know, even though you may momentarily choose to forget so you can get grumpy about it – those things on the outside of you are actually a reflection of what’s going on inside of you. 

You bring your filter, your beliefs, your perceptions, and your interpretation of everything that’s happening to every situation.

So, the way you perceive or see a situation will be different to the way I see it and perceive it and to the way somebody else sees it and perceives it. 

What’s showing up for you in your experience is also a direct and perfect match to your active vibration. So if you’ve got doubts, fears, worries, concerns, or feelings of not being supported going on within you and those are active vibrations, guess what you’ll be attracting? Guess what will keep showing up for you? That’s right, all the people who so kindly play that role and show you what is going on within you… so that you can transform it. 

It’s not so much a frustration as it is an INVITATION.

 

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So when you feel yourself being frustrated by those things and thinking, “Ah! All this on the outside of me is getting in my way,” remember it’s actually just a reflection of what’s going on internally for you, and so it is actually an invitation for you to shift what’s going on within you. For you to look at, “Okay, where do I have fears, doubts, worries, concerns? Where do I not feel supported and so I keep attracting people who confirm that for me, and how can I shift those things?”

That is the work for you. 

It’s really quite miraculous how when you shift your point of view, your attitude, your vibration internally, and bring a different perception to a situation, people on the outside of you seem to miraculously change. 

I’ve seen this in my own life. In my personal relationships with even my own mother, where once I shifted my perception she literally changed, and it’s not that she LITERALLY changed, so much as that I literally started seeing her differently. I started seeing her from the angle of, “Hey she actually is a lot of fun, and she has lots of cool things to offer and she’s kind of quirky” and all of this, rather than, “Oh my God, she just shits all over everything I do,” which is how it used to be. I changed my perception and started seeing a different side of her. When I was no longer triggered by the offhanded remarks she would make and so on, it no longer bothered me.

I’ve seen this with my students as well, where they might have a partner who’s really pushing their buttons when it comes to their business, but what it’s actually doing is it’s just showing them there’s a wound there and they’re pressing on it, and the moment you heal the wound… it’s nothing, it’s totally different and it transforms and heals entire relationships.

So, who’s getting in the way of your 6-figure business? 

No one but you, babycakes, and when it seems like other people are getting in the way, that’s an invitation for you to create some really beautiful and transformative shifts.

So, look within. Where is it a match? Where am I feeling that way? What belief of mine is this confirming, and work on changing that. You have 100% power.

And remember that if you’re looking to crack 6-figures in your business, I’ve got a really cool training to help you with that. The link is in the description. 

Until I see you next, keep embracing your beautiful and totally unlimited potential.

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