Why your Money Habit Archetype is KEY to changing your money story

Why your Money Habit Archetype is KEY to changing your money story

If you’ve ever felt frustrated about the things that you do when it comes to you and money, then stick around, because we are going to talk about why your Money Habit Archetype is the key to changing your old money story!

So, in the Magnetic Money program, we spend quite a bit of time delving into understanding what your money habit archetype is, and then using it to transform that old money story and creating a beautiful new story that can then become your new reality.

Let’s talk about that just a little bit here so that I can give you some insight into what you can do to start to create those sorts of shifts for yourself as well.

Now, what is your money story?

Your money story is that old unconscious pattern of thought, that old “story” that is running in your unconscious mind. 

It is the story that informs what you really believe to be true about money at a deep unconscious level. 

Remember that 98% of what’s going on at that level, you’re not even aware of – it’s unconscious, right? So you’re busy doing all the things, working on your business, trying to shift your mindset, etc..  but meanwhile 98% of what’s truly going on in the background that’s actually running the show, you’re not even aware of. 

That’s a really hard battle to fight, so let’s talk about what we can do about it.

But first, I want you to understand a little bit more about that money story and why it’s so powerful and why it has this hold over you and has you unconsciously running patterns that you’d rather not keep recreating.

“Stories” are really, really powerful. Stories are the way that mankind has passed on information since the dawn of the ages. Sitting around the campfire, telling stories, that’s how information would get relayed. Stories are extremely hypnotic. They’re a great way to let things sink deep into the unconscious and really take root.

 

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So, when you’re really young and your unconscious mind is wide open – before the age of 7 – you don’t have any filters in place to go, “No, I choose not to take that on. That’s not really true. That’s YOUR issue, not mine.” You don’t have any of that so at that young age, when you hear the stories from your parents, your peers, your teachers, and society in general, you take it on, your unconscious is wide open and you’re being programmed.

That is the script that keeps running in the background.

Now because your mind, and your unconscious mind in particular, is a very efficient organism that is always striving towards coherence, it means that you must then experience a reality that matches your “story,” your version of what you perceive to be true in the world. That is why you’ll do stupid things where you’ll go, “Why am I sabotaging myself? Why do I keep leaving things to the last minute? Why am I not returning phone calls or chasing up leads? Why do I do these things and why do these things keep happening to me?” You’re doing it without really being aware, because everything on the outside of you must match your underlying unconscious story so that it’s all coherent and congruent.

It’s really interesting because there was a study done at MIT not very long ago which kind of concluded that the version of reality you experience is a little bit of an edit of the last 15 minutes of your life – because of this need to constantly have stability. That explains why different people experience the same event, but have really different stories about it. They’ll tell the story of what happened really differently based on the perceptions that they bring into that event, which is informed by what’s going on unconsciously, what they believe to be true about life.

These external patterns, the way you think, the way you speak, the way you act, what they actually are, are clues. They’re clues and little symptoms and little peaks of the iceberg poking through the surface of what is going on at the deeper level. It’s really important to look at these clues and use them to allow you to dive deeper, because they are the result of that story. They’re the story being played out.

It’s kind of like the story is the script, and then your life is the play where it all comes to life. When you step back and look at it from a higher perspective, you’ll find it’s actually the same script being played out over and over again, just different places and different faces, but kind of the same storyline. There’s that pattern that keeps happening over and over again. Maybe you’re aware of it already, or maybe once you start noticing it and zooming out a little bit, you will notice that, “Wow, that is actually kind of the same thing again just with different people and in a different setting.” It’s because the story is what feeds and informs the pattern. The story doesn’t really change, it just kind of plays itself out in all these different ways.

So, by noticing the pattern (which is your money habit archetype, the way you show up around money) – whether you have this tendency to always want to accumulate money, or you have this tendency that all the money that comes in magically manages to go out again, or maybe you have a tendency where no matter how much money comes in more than that disappears, you manage to actually go backwards even though your income might be increasing – these are money habit archetypes, and what they are, are a clue to what’s going on beneath the surface, which is the old money story. 

It’s the easiest way to uncover those money stories that are running the show at the unconscious level. You look at the money habit archetype, which is kind of the tip of the iceberg poking out, and then you use that to drill your way down and go deeper and deeper and find what lies beneath.

That is how you then get to change it.

First you’ve got to find it, find your way down, and then you know what you’re dealing with, and you can change it.

If you’re ready to get started on that, then I highly recommend that you take my Money Habit Archetype Quiz. 

Not only will it tell you what your money habit archetype is, which is nice to know, but it is that tip of the iceberg… and what you will then have the opportunity to do is dive deeper.

So what you do is you do the quiz, and then I’ll send you a series of emails that help you uncover the story that’s driving it, that’s informing that money habit archetype at the unconscious level and then you’ll have the opportunity to disconnect it, to start to weaken and shift and change that old story and start to install a new one.

So, you’ve got some work to do! I’ve popped the link to the quiz in the description of this video, so jump on that right away!

And until I see you next, make sure you keep on embracing your beautiful and unlimited potential.

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Why manifesting more money won’t make you rich

Why manifesting more money won’t make you rich

Hi, this is Miriam Castilla and welcome to the Manifesting Playground where we apply Law of Attraction in practical and magical ways to transform your business and life – so you can have more money, more time, and more alignment.

Let’s talk about why manifesting more money won’t make you rich.

So, when you’re manifesting money and you’re relying on that for your abundance, it means that you’re constantly focused on attracting more, right? Attracting money, manifesting money. That is your focus, bringing the money in, bringing the money in, bringing the money in.

That’s all very well, but if you have a look at the Magnetic Money Trifecta, there is attracting the money (which is number one) and then there are TWO more parts to that trifecta: There is also keeping the money AND helping the money grow and multiply!

This Magnetic Money Trifecta is what allows you to truly get into a place of living in abundance.

When the money flows into your experience but just bounces off so you’re back to where you started you then have to manifest more. There are a lot of people stuck in that cycle. I call them a “Spender Money Habit Archetype”. Their habit pattern around money is that: money comes, money goes – money comes, money goes. Sometimes it accumulates a little bit for a little while, but then it all goes again. They always end up back where they started, because they haven’t gotten the second part of the trifecta happening. They’ve got the “attracting” money part, but they haven’t got the “keeping” money part down pat yet.

 

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Now, there is a third part to the trifecta which is helping the money grow and multiply.

What happens when you can get past the first two points and start incorporating that third bit, is something really magical. When your money grows and multiplies, not only are you keeping more of it in your experience, but it’s starting to gather its own momentum. It’s starting to have “money babies” as I call it. So your money’s have money babies, it’s growing and multiplying, which then takes a lot of the pressure off f you needing to manifest more money all the time.

Contrary to how that may sound, what it actually does is help you attract and manifest a whole lot more money into your experience because you’re not so focused on having to bring in more – on the need for more money.

Your money that’s with you is starting to grow and multiply and take care of you. That’s actually a way you’re manifesting more income. That helps even more money to flow to you from other external sources.

So this is the secret to actually getting rich, to feeling rich and abundant. It’s not just the manifesting. It’s being magnetic to money and truly perfecting and living in that magnetic money trifecta.

You attracted the money, that’s awesome – but that’s only step one.

Then it’s about keeping the money by clearing all those old stories that have been making it bounce off or flow out again as quickly as it came in.

Then you start to focus on helping your money grow and multiply.

And, I tell you what, that is when the absolute magic kicks in, because what we’re all about here, if you’re working with me or following me, is we are about applying Law of Attraction in practical and magical ways.

It’s about marrying the magical with the practical so that you can truly have it all and you can totally benefit from being the conscious creator of life, and being a physical human being. You can do cool stuff in your 3D reality. It’s having one foot in each world and bringing the two together in a really incredibly powerful way. It’s embracing the masculine and feminine, your divine masculine and divine feminine and bringing the two together to make lots of money babies. That’s what it’s all about!

So if you want to get started on really figuring out what’s been getting in the way of you starting to complete this money trifecta – rather than just working on the attracting part and being stuck in that loop – then look at your money habit archetype. It is your number one starting point.

If you don’t know what your money habit archetype is, then grab the link in the description, do my quiz, and I will let you know what it is. I will also let you know how to then start diving deeper into the stories that are feeding it and creating it, so that you can shift all of that and start to really complete your Magnetic Money Trifecta so that you can attract more money, keep more money, and let your money grow and multiply.

Until I see you next, keep on embracing your gorgeous and unlimited potential.

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Are you a Spender, an Accumulator or an Overextender?

Why you DO have to spend money to make money

Why you DO have to spend money to make money

Hi, this is Miriam Castilla and welcome to the Manifesting Playground where we apply Law of Attraction in practical and magical ways to transform your business and life – so you can have more money, more time, and more alignment.

Let’s talk about why you have to spend money to make money.

I know… can you believe I just said that?

When you talk about manifesting and that the universe is unlimited, you would generally say, “That’s not true. You don’t HAVE to spend money to make money. You can just be in alignment with the vibration of abundance and attract money to you.”

Totally true. Not saying that’s not true, but what I’m also saying is that if you are unwilling to spend or refuse to spend money or you’re scared of spending money or you just don’t like spending money, then what you’re actually doing is you’re blocking the flow of money.

Money is a flow of energy.

It flows TO you and THROUGH you.

 

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When I teach what it takes to attract more money, keep more money, and help that money grow and multiply, the practical steps around running your business and spending money in really smart and wise ways that are a great investment for your business -they’re an important part of the process.

Spending money to make money and knowing that this is an investment that comes back to me multiplied and generally in life having that attitude – that I can spend money on this and that and the other (within reason by being not totally flippant about it and just blowing everything… because that’s a really bad habit and we’ll talk about that in a moment) – but knowing that you can spend money on things that are in alignment with what you’re all about, in alignment with where you’re going, and you can feel really comfortable knowing that – that’s part of the flow.

If you think about it, if you are a pipe of abundance, money flows to you and through you.

If you block the end and you don’t let anything flow out, you’re going to end up with some congestion and no more money can flow in.

You do need to get comfortable with allowing the money to flow out of your experience so that it can continue to flow INTO your experience.

Flow means being in the flow of life… not hoping to manifest some money and then hoarding it, holding onto it out of fear that no more will come. That’s not what we’re about, is it?

So I talked about healthy patterns of spending around money, and there are also some unhealthy spending patterns around money. BUT.. some of the spending patterns around money that you would think are actually good, like accumulating lots of money, are not necessarily healthy. If they’re coming from that point of view of “lack” and fear and “What if there’s not enough? What if no more comes tomorrow?” then that’s part of a really unhelpful story that’s keeping you trapped in a vibration that does not match abundance.
Life is fearful, and even though you might have some money coming to you, you’re certainly not feeling abundant.

Trust me, abundance is a feeling and not a dollar amount.

So that is the starting point. See what your patterns are around money. Ask, “What are my habit patterns when it comes to spending money and relating to money?” because they’re your first indicator of some of those old stories that are lurking beneath the surface that are stopping you from really getting in alignment and allowing yourself to be in the flow.

I call this your Money Habit Archetype.

If you don’t yet know what your Money Habit Archetype is, then do the quiz from the link in the description, because once you find out what your Money Habit Archetype is, that is your first step to uncovering those patterns that are lurking beneath the surface and that is what will allow you to take the next step and really step into the flow abundance.

It’s a beautiful, beautiful place to be!

So let me know in the comments below what your Money Habit Archetype is, and until I see you next, keep on embracing your beautiful and unlimited potential.

Bye!

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Do you feel guilty spending money?

Do you feel guilty spending money?

Hi, this is Miriam Castilla and welcome to the Manifesting Playground where we apply Law of Attraction in practical and magical ways to transform your business and life – so you can enjoy more money, more time, and more alignment.

Do you feel guilty spending money on yourself? Let’s talk about that and let’s talk about why it stops more money from coming into your experience.

Maybe you’re in this habit of saying, “Ah, not yet. I won’t spend that money on myself just yet. First I need to hit a six-figure income,” or “When I have my first big month,” or “When my launch does this,” or “When I have this many clients,” or “When I put my price up to X number.”

The thing is that what you will notice if you’re really honest with yourself is that you keep moving the goalposts. You keep finding excuses and you keep skimping and putting yourself last, feeling too guilty to ever really spend that money on yourself.

So my question is: When will you feel ready?

When will you actually get to a place where you step into and claim your abundance?

On this journey, if you want to create an abundant business and life, it’s all about you actually getting to enjoy it, right? So if you’re constantly dangling the carrot on the stick and you keep moving forward and forward but the carrot never gets any closer, then it’ll never be enough, you’ll never get there, and you’ll never get to enjoy the beautiful rewards of your heart-centred business.

So what’s causing that?

 

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Well, at the unconscious level, there is something within you that says, “You don’t deserve it. You haven’t done enough yet. You’re not good enough. You’re not qualified enough. You’re not worthy. You’re not deserving,”

But you ARE all those things, you were born deserving and worthy!

A part of you isn’t allowing you to have it, because it believes that you’re not ready because you haven’t done enough, not qualified enough, all those things.

It’s these old stories that are keeping you stuck.

What that means is that it’ll never be enough because the story doesn’t change with the dollar amount of income you’re making.

The story stays the same.

The story is what’s putting your abundance, your enjoyment of what you’re creating, on that stick. It’s keeping your carrot dangling in front of you and it’s keeping you working hard and just pushing yourself more and more and punishing yourself for still not having made it and gotten there, and it just never ends… unless you untangle and release that old story. When you notice a pattern like this, it’s really time to break free.

So… where the hell do you start?

Okay, the first thing that you need to do is to start to look into these old stories.

What’s creating them and how are they showing up? In my training with my students, I talk about these stories and I talk about how they’re just archetypal stories. They’re kind of the same theme, but just with different nuances and iterations. Now, those stories actually show up quite pronounced in your life through your habits and your behaviour. Your habits are really just an indication of what your beliefs are. And those stories? They create your beliefs. The stories that you were told growing up, the stories that you absorb by watching the world around you and listening to the people around you created your beliefs about life and how life works and what you deserve within it.

It all shows up in your habits. Your Money Habit Archetype is your predominant pattern around money. It kind of defines your relationship with money. That is your starting point because it’s that little sign at the surface, it’s the tip of the iceberg of what’s lying underneath. Once you find the tip of the iceberg, then you can start drilling your way down and getting to what’s actually created that to rise up and show up in this way for you.

If you don’t know what your Money Habit Archetype is so you can start uncovering and releasing these old stories that are keeping you stuck, then take my quiz!

It’s the Money Habit Archetype quiz. It will let you know what your money habit archetype is, and then you can start doing the work to release it – and I will support you with that as well.

So go on, jump on the quiz right now, the link is below!

Until I see you next, keep on embracing your beautiful and absolutely unlimited potential.

Bye!

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HELP! When I start tracking my money, my income dries up!

HELP! When I start tracking my money, my income dries up!

Hello beautiful, this is Miriam Castilla and welcome to the Manifesting Playground for Soulful Women in Business. The place where we practice the art and science of Effectology, which is all about marrying the magical with the practical, so you can have more money and more time, the easy way, without all the hustle.

Today we’re going to talk about what’s going on when you start to track your income and then suddenly find that it’s drying up completely.

You start tracking it, there’s some money coming in, and suddenly…zip, zero, zilch, nada. You think “What the hell? This income tracking thing is supposed to help me attract more money because what you focus on expands, right? And where attention goes, energy flows, so what is going on?”

I’ll tell you.

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So what you’ve got to recognize, if that’s what’s happening to you, is to become a little more aware of what thought processes are actually going on for you. If your income is drying up, that means that what you’re focusing on isn’t the money coming in, but it’s the gap between the money coming in and the money you’d actually LIKE to have coming in!

Maybe you have a zero income dollar day and it really knocks you energetically, and you start feeling really low and really flat. So, the more that you focus on that gap, on the “not enough money,” the more you’re actually on the vibration of “not enough money.” And so, that is becoming your predominant vibration, your predominant thought process, your predominant state of being, your predominant emotional state. All the hormones and emotions that are flooding through your body are all matching that state. So that’s what’s becoming your predominant vibration; your predominant state of being. That then gathers momentum and you get more and more of the same: more and more of “not enough” and “Oh my God, another zero dollar day!”

You need to hack that. Tracking your income is really helpful, but the key is to actually track and notice, become aware of and celebrate the INCOME.

The number one thing you can do is just really celebrate the money that does come in and do your very best to just disconnect from the zero income dollar days or the low income earning days. Make sure that your focus is on noticing, tracking, and celebrating the money that IS coming in.

Now, if that’s still too big of a stretch, then you need to go wider.

What I like to track is just evidence of abundance. Don’t just track the money coming in. Track the number of people that have said nice things about you in Facebook groups or have replied to your emails or track all the other little signs of abundance in your life: Someone buys you a free coffee, you get a discount on something, you find $20 in an old pair of jeans. Notice and track all of that. That way you’re getting off the topic of money a little bit and you’re managing to really build momentum on that vibration of abundance.

You’re training yourself into noticing all the good stuff that is going on for you, which then helps gather and build momentum there.

Now, to get started right away, grab yourself a copy of my Magnetic Money Tracker. There’s a link in the description. Grab that now and get started. And you will notice that it tells you to track ALL your abundance, not just the money coming in!

Have an awesome time with that, and keeping on embracing your beautiful, unlimited potential.

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Help! Why is there never enough money?

Help! Why is there never enough money?

Hi beautiful,

I’m Miriam Castilla and welcome to the Manifesting Playground for Soulful Women in Business – the place where we practice the Art & Science of Effectology to help you marry the magical with the practical so you can have more money, more time, the easy way without all the extra hustle.

Today let’s talk about what’s going on when you seem to have never enough money. 

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No matter what’s going on, you just don’t have enough. Either you kind of run out of money before you’ve even paid the bills or there’s just never really anything left over.

So the first thing I want you to be really aware of is that it really doesn’t matter so much what your income level is if that is a pattern, because there’s always more things to spend money on.

In my own life I know that when I was a broke, single mum, I manage to make do with so little income. But then as life went on and I started learning the art of attracting more money, the thing that I noticed was that the bottom line didn’t really change and I was still feeling that there wasn’t enough money… because as my income grew, my expenses grew!

So it’s important for you to realize that more money doesn’t fix it.  If that’s the pattern, then more money will not change the pattern.

There’s a little bit more going on and that’s the last thing I want you to take away from this little video that’s very, very important and that is that the bottom line is:

You can’t outperform your own self-image.

So if your internal dialogue, the picture you have of yourself, the story that you have bought into that you believe to be true at the unconscious level is one of: there’s just never enough… or: I always run out, or: I’m not deserving or worthy of having more than enough or any of those sorts of things that can be very insidious and hiding away.

Nobody wants to believe that stuff but when we’re really honest with ourselves and in my 1:1 sessions with my clients it often gets down to exactly those things: “I don’t deserve it” , “I’m not worthy,” and all those sorts of limiting beliefs that are really not serving you and you can’t outperform that self-image so just bringing in more money will not fix the pattern.

What will change the pattern is changing the self-image so it’s really important to start to become aware of these little tweaks that you can make that actually make all the difference, because most people just try to bring in more money, but it doesn’t actually change or fix the underlying problem.

So a little tweak in awareness is very powerful.

If you’d like some other really important and little tweaks in awareness, make sure you grab yourself my Money Manifesting Training Pack. The link is in the description or show notes, depending on where you’re watching or listening to this. Grab yourself that and you’ll get a quick checklist and you’ll also get access to a 30 minute training where I take you through each of those very important points that are the 5 reasons you’re not manifesting more money and very importantly, what to do about it.

Okay that’s me done.

Until next time, keep on embracing your unlimited potential.

Bye for now!  

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