Why you spend too much on your business – but won’t spend any on yourself
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I’m Miriam Castilla and welcome to the Manifesting Playground for Soulful Women in Business – the place where we practice the art & science of Effectology to help you marry the magical with the practical so you can have more money and more time, the easy way – without all the extra hustle!
Today we’re going to talk about what’s going on, when you find yourself spending way too much money on your business, but can’t seem to bring yourself to spend any money on you. You feel guilty.. you just won’t do it… you avoid it.
But meanwhile, on your business you’re actually overspending – too many courses, too many different marketing materials. Money is just flowing out and leaking in all sorts of different ways.
What is going on there?
I’m going to sort of toggle backwards and forwards but they’re actually part of the same thing.
You not being willing to spend money on yourself comes from usually feeling too guilty or not worthy or deserving, right? Which is not a very nice thing and it comes down to some limiting beliefs and underlying old programs that are keeping you in a place where it’s ‘okay I need to make this business work and until it does, I just don’t deserve to have anything good’.
But meanwhile, you’re blowing all this unnecessary money on the business when you could’ve gone to have a massage, a facial or bought yourself a nice new pair of shoes because you know it’s wasted anyway but at least you would’ve had something useful out of it. But you’re just blowing it on thing, after thing, after thing and have that buyer’s remorse where you think, ‘I didn’t really need that and it hasn’t actually made any difference”.
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So while you’re trying to do all this, you’re trying to compensate for those limiting beliefs, for those blocks, those old stories by throwing money at your business. Hoping that it will pick up and prove those old stories wrong. Prove that you are worthy, you are deserving, you are good enough and you do have what it takes.
So it’s this constant seesaw of ‘you’re not good enough’ – but let’s give it a go and let something outside of me prove it to me because I actually don’t believe it.’ And so that’s what happens when these unconscious patterns are playing out.
Now what all of that actually creates is a terrible lack of alignment and so then what’s happening is you’re totally incongruent and you’re spending money on your business. Even though maybe some of those things are good ideas they still don’t really stick and work. Somehow it just goes wrong and it still just doesn’t have the benefit you wanted it to have and that’s because it’s all motivated by this underlying, unconscious, old story and the limiting beliefs that are just ‘never going to happen, not good enough, wasn’t meant to be anyway.’
So that creates this terrible lack of alignment which means that nothing is going to work properly. You’re not going to be able to get into that magical flow with what you desire and have all of the pieces of the puzzle fall into place for you. So you need to really start going there, going to the unconscious level and start unraveling some of those things.
Now, I’m a huge fan of hypnosis because I’m a hypnotherapist but also because I know it works and it’s simple and easy and extremely powerful and quick (because I’m all about quick and easy).
So I have a whole library of hypnotic meditations that help you get inside, get back in alignment, get guidance from your unconscious – anything you need pretty much is in there and it’s totally free so if you don’t have access to that yet, click on the link below and help yourself to free member access to that whole library. There’s 52 hypnotic meditations – one for each week of the year and you can work your way through or you can just pick and choose whatever you like – the whole thing is yours the minute that you join the library. Like I said it’s totally free.
So go and grab yourself that and until next time keep on embracing your beautiful, unlimited potential.
Bye for now!
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Why you spend too much on your business - but won't spend any on yourself
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