Why you spend too much on your business – but won’t spend any on yourself

Why you spend too much on your business – but won’t spend any on yourself

Why you spend too much on your business – but won’t spend any on yourself

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Hi beautiful,

I’m Miriam Castilla and welcome to the Manifesting Playground for Soulful Women in Business – the place where we practice the art & science of Effectology to help you marry the magical with the practical so you can have more money and more time, the easy way – without all the extra hustle!

Today we’re going to talk about what’s going on, when you find yourself spending way too much money on your business, but can’t seem to bring yourself to spend any money on you.  You feel guilty.. you just won’t do it… you avoid it.

But meanwhile, on your business you’re actually overspending – too many courses, too many different marketing materials. Money is just flowing out and leaking in all sorts of different ways.

What is going on there?

I’m going to sort of toggle backwards and forwards but they’re actually part of the same thing.

You not being willing to spend money on yourself comes from usually feeling too guilty or not worthy or deserving, right? Which is not a very nice thing and it comes down to some limiting beliefs and underlying old programs that are keeping you in a place where it’s ‘okay I need to make this business work and until it does, I just don’t deserve to have anything good’.

But meanwhile, you’re blowing all this unnecessary money on the business when you could’ve gone to have a massage, a facial or bought yourself a nice new pair of shoes because you know it’s wasted anyway but at least you would’ve had something useful out of it. But you’re just blowing it on thing, after thing, after thing and have that buyer’s remorse where you think, ‘I didn’t really need that and it hasn’t actually made any difference”.

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So while you’re trying to do all this, you’re trying to compensate for those limiting beliefs, for those blocks, those old stories by throwing money at your business. Hoping that it will pick up and prove those old stories wrong. Prove that you are worthy, you are deserving, you are good enough and you do have what it takes.

So it’s this constant seesaw of ‘you’re not good enough’ –  but let’s give it a go and let something outside of me prove it to me because I actually don’t believe it.’ And so that’s what happens when these  unconscious patterns are playing out.

Now what all of that actually creates is a terrible lack of alignment and so then what’s happening is you’re totally incongruent and you’re spending money on your business. Even though maybe some of those things are good ideas they still don’t really stick and work. Somehow it just goes wrong and it still just doesn’t have the benefit you wanted it to have and that’s because it’s all motivated by this underlying, unconscious, old story and the limiting beliefs that are just ‘never going to happen, not good enough, wasn’t meant to be anyway.’

So that creates this terrible lack of alignment which means that nothing is going to work properly. You’re not going to be able to get into that magical flow with what you desire and have all of the pieces of the puzzle fall into place for you. So you need to really start going there, going to the unconscious level and start unraveling some of those things.

Now, I’m a huge fan of hypnosis because I’m a hypnotherapist but also because I know it works and it’s simple and easy and extremely powerful and quick (because I’m all about quick and easy).

So I have a whole library of hypnotic meditations that help you get inside, get back in alignment, get guidance from your unconscious – anything you need pretty much is in there and it’s totally free so if you don’t have access to that yet, click on the link below and help yourself to free member access to that whole library. There’s 52 hypnotic meditations  – one for each week of the year and you can work your way through or you can just pick and choose whatever you like – the whole thing is yours the minute that you join the library. Like I said it’s totally free.

So go and grab yourself that and until next time keep on embracing your beautiful, unlimited potential.

Bye for now!

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Why you spend too much on your business - but won't spend any on yourself

by Miriam Castilla

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Are you suffering Entrepreneurial ADD?

Are you suffering Entrepreneurial ADD?

Are you suffering Entrepreneurial ADD?

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I’m Miriam Castilla and welcome to the Manifesting Playground for Soulful Women in Business – the place where we practice the art & science of Effectology to help you marry the magical with the practical so you can have more money and more time, the easy way – without all the extra hustle!

Today we’re going to talk about entrepreneurial ADD or what I call ‘entrepreneurial ballet dancing.’.. Where you’re just spinning on the spot over and over and over again and not really moving forward.

Sometimes it looks like, ‘hmm I’m not sure what I want to be when I grow up ‘, ‘maybe I want to be a business coach for single mums’ or ‘maybe I want to be a business coach for women leaving the workforce’ or ‘maybe I don’t want to be a business coach at all‘maybe I want to be a yoga teacher.

Other times it’s a bit subtle more subtle than that and it’s more about, ‘oh maybe I just need another qualification in this and a qualification in that..  my website’s not setup or ‘I think I’ll tweak it a little bit because my target market has changed.’

So it can be more subtle than that but it’s entrepreneurial ADD – it is a lack of focus.

And the thing to realise if that’s what’s going on is that the key thing happening there is a fear and a lack of certainty.

You’re spinning on the spot because you have no real drive, no real motivation and no certainty as to which way you’re heading and the reason for that is because you don’t want to go with something and find that you’re so far down the track and it’s not really your thing. So you spend all your time distracting yourself and staying where you are rather than risking moving forward.

However, if you don’t stick to one thing for a certain period of time and start to fine-tune it and craft your art and get better and better at it, start to experiment and play with things and fine-tune and then move to another level, your business will NEVER move forward.

You will just stay stuck on the spot – not really having started.

So what you need to do is actually get in touch with that part of you that is going to pull you forward, that is going to drive you and make you want to go for it and make you want to stick to one thing so that you can be successful. And in order to do that, you need to rid of that fear, that lack of certainty and the most powerful way to do that is to really get in touch with, at the unconscious level, in touch with your core values.

Which are the things that tap directly into your ancient lizard brain, your cerebellum, that part of you that doesn’t even have capacity for language but is  fuelled by pure emotion and passion. And it’s that thing that drives you so it doesn’t feel like work and you’re happy to work on the weekend if you need to or do late hours at night. And it actually lights you up and you love it.

But unless you connect at that unconscious level in a really powerful way, you won’t be able to reach that place. And you do need to reach that place if you’re going to build a business that you love and adore. And that you’re willing to do what it takes for, because to build a business it does take effort and consistency. It does take a certain amount of commitment and motivation and also work. But it doesn’t feel like work when you’re so connected to what you truly love.

So if you’re not too sure what your core values are or if you can sort of vaguely remember doing them some time ago but it’s all a bit hazy or they’re really just a list of words that you reel off because they sound good, then I encourage you to go through them again.

Take my totally free Uncover Your Core Values Mini-Course.

Grab yourself that and go through the mini-course. I’m actually there to guide you through it and we’ll do it by going to the unconscious mind by using a beautiful hypnotic process that I’ve developed and that will powerfully connect you, so that you can stop spinning on the spot, put an end to this entrepreneurial ADD and go for it to build that business of your dreams.

Until next time, keep on embracing your amazing unlimited potential. Bye for now!

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Help! Why is there never enough money?

Help! Why is there never enough money?

Help! Why is there never enough money?

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Hi beautiful,

I’m Miriam Castilla and welcome to the Manifesting Playground for Soulful Women in Business – the place where we practice the Art & Science of Effectology to help you marry the magical with the practical so you can have more money, more time, the easy way without all the extra hustle.

Today let’s talk about what’s going on when you seem to have never enough money.

No matter what’s going on, you just don’t have enough. Either you kind of run out of money before you’ve even paid the bills or there’s just never really anything left over.

So the first thing I want you to be really aware of is that it really doesn’t matter so much what your income level is if that is a pattern, because there’s always more things to spend money on.

In my own life I know that when I was a broke, single mum, I manage to make do with so little income. But then as life went on and I started learning the art of attracting more money, the thing that I noticed was that the bottom line didn’t really change and I was still feeling that there wasn’t enough money… because as my income grew, my expenses grew!

So it’s important for you to realize that more money doesn’t fix it.  If that’s the pattern, then more money will not change the pattern.

There’s a little bit more going on and that’s the last thing I want you to take away from this little video that’s very, very important and that is that the bottom line is:

You can’t outperform your own self-image.

So if your internal dialogue, the picture you have of yourself, the story that you have bought into that you believe to be true at the unconscious level is one of: there’s just never enough… or: I always run out, or: I’m not deserving or worthy of having more than enough or any of those sorts of things that can be very insidious and hiding away.

Nobody wants to believe that stuff but when we’re really honest with ourselves and in my 1:1 sessions with my clients it often gets down to exactly those things: “I don’t deserve it” , “I’m not worthy,” and all those sorts of limiting beliefs that are really not serving you and you can’t outperform that self-image so just bringing in more money will not fix the pattern.

What will change the pattern is changing the self-image so it’s really important to start to become aware of these little tweaks that you can make that actually make all the difference, because most people just try to bring in more money, but it doesn’t actually change or fix the underlying problem.

So a little tweak in awareness is very powerful.

If you’d like some other really important and little tweaks in awareness, make sure you grab yourself my Money Manifesting Training Pack. The link is in the description or show notes, depending on where you’re watching or listening to this. Grab yourself that and you’ll get a quick checklist and you’ll also get access to a 30 minute training where I take you through each of those very important points that are the 5 reasons you’re not manifesting more money and very importantly, what to do about it.

Okay that’s me done.

Until next time, keep on embracing your unlimited potential.

Bye for now!  

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How to not let what’s urgent get in the way of what’s important

How to not let what’s urgent get in the way of what’s important

How to not let what’s urgent get in the way of what’s important

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Hi, I’m Miriam Castilla and welcome to the Manifesting Playground for Soulful Women in Business –  where we practice the art and science of Effectology to help you have more money, more time, the easy way… without all the extra hustle!

Today we’re going to talk about urgent versus important, because as you know, each day there’s a bunch of stuff that’s really urgent for you to get done and then there’s also those things that you know are really important – important for your business, important for your well-being, important for your overall happiness levels in life.

The first thing to realize is that the urgent stuff will always be there.

It never really goes away and it also screams the loudest for your attention so it’s really easy to go through the day and just be caught up in all this urgent, urgent, urgent, urgent stuff – stuff that at the end of the day is not actually all that important.. And then you feel like you didn’t really get anything done and you didn’t really move forward.

Now, the second thing to remember is that you will never get everything done.

Your to-do list will always keep on growing and basically, you’ll just never catch up and you need to make your peace with that.  So what that means is you need to be even more deliberate with what you spend your precious time on, because you only have 24 hours in every day and I’d like for you to spend some of that sleeping, having fun, chilling out and all that good stuff.

The third thing to really keep in mind is that it’s actually the important stuff, not the urgent stuff that makes the biggest difference overall.

That’s the stuff that changes your life. That’s the stuff that takes you and your business up to the next level… next level of income, next level of clients, next level of people you can reach, next level of joy and happiness and freedom in your life.

It’s the important stuff which isn’t usually screaming urgent at you, THAT’S what will actually make the difference.

So, the bottom line as with pretty much everything I teach is that it is all up to you.

It is up to you to manage your time, manage your attention and really be discerning about what is just urgent – but not really important – and what is actually really important and does need to get done. And then you choose and decide from there.

Now if you’d like some help with sorting all of that stuff out, make sure you grab yourself a copy of my Effectiveness book. It’s 7 Proven Strategies for Juggling Business and Family while staying sane in the process and you can grab it at the link below.

Help yourself to my Effectiveness book and get started on really making those discerning decisions as to what’s just urgent and what’s actually important and allow yourself to take life to another level.

Keep on embracing your unlimited potential and I will see you next time.

Bye for now!

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How to not let what's urgent get in the way of what's important

by Miriam Castilla

You are the magic you seek

You are the magic you seek

You are the magic you seek

Have you ever wondered what your ‘thing’ is?

We all have our own special thing, a way of seeing relating to or showing up the world that is completely unique, entirely our own.

Problem is, we’re often the last to be able to see or recognise it.

Even when we think we’re starting to ‘get it’, there’s always another layer of self awareness and connection to reach.

Last weekend I was lucky enough to move through another layer of my own personal onion and reah a state of even deeper self-awareness, self-appreciation, self-connection and self-love.

I spent an entire day with my friend Sue-Ellen Cordon doing an ‘InnerView’, where she helped me unpack my innate natural process.

At the start of the day, she gave me a little ‘Bliss Pack’ and I spent an hour on my own meditating, journaling and just being.. complete with great snack, might I add!

As I sat to do some automatic writing after a meditation as instructed, I was completely blank.

I had nothing..  No insights, no deep A-ha moments, I felt good as I usually do, but there was no movement to a new place inside of me.

Have you ever felt like that? You’re meant to be having all these deep, insightful spiritually powerful moments, but you get pretty much nothing..?

So I decided to start writing about it and here’s what came out:

So what if nothing comes?

If nothing comes, you get to enjoy the silence, the stillness.. enjoy being with you.. enjoy being you.

This is what you’re seeking anyway, is it not?

It’s already there.. actually, it’s here.. right NOW.

There’s nowhere to go, nothing to do, no lesson to learn.

Sitting in quiet union with yourself is the ultimate bliss.

Give yourself permission to have what you are seeking, and embrace it with all of your being.

What you are seeking is YOU.

You are the divine, the God within, the magic around, the love that abounds.

You are the magic you seek.

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