My partner keeps asking if my business is making money – and it’s stressing me out!

My partner keeps asking if my business is making money – and it’s stressing me out!

Hi, this is Miriam Castilla and welcome to the Manifesting Playground where we apply Law of Attraction in practical and magical ways to get you in alignment both in business and in life – so you can have more money in the bank and get a whole lot more done with ease!

Do you get all anxious when your partner asks how much money you’re making in your business? Maybe defensive? Maybe even angry?

Let’s talk about that, and let’s talk about what’s really going on, because it’s not their fault and it’s not them being difficult or trying to make you feel bad.

It is YOU making yourself feel bad, because you know what babycakes?… the truth of the story is that YOU are the creator of your life and YOU are responsible for how you feel, and YOU get to choose. Sometimes you get to choose consciously and sometimes you get choose unconsciously.

So, when something like that happens, where someone asks you a question and you take it to mean that they don’t believe in your business, that they’re doubting that you’re successful, or they’re checking up on you, and it triggers you – when it triggers an unwarranted or slightly more extreme than normal reaction, then it shows that it’s pushed a button of yours, it’s pushed a sore point.

There’s a great saying that my hypnotherapy teacher told us in our training and it’s: “If you didn’t have a problem with it, you wouldn’t have a problem with it!”

The analogy I like to give people is, imagine that you’ve got a big open sore wound on your arm and I came along and I poked you right in the middle of that oozing sore wound. You would have a problem with that, right? You would scream, you would jump back, you might accuse me of being horrible and mean and trying to hurt you. You would have a pretty strong reaction. Whereas, if there was nothing there at all and your arm was 100% perfect and I just poked you, you’d go… “You just poked me in the arm,” and that would kind of be the end of it – other than you maybe thinking I’m weird -, but you wouldn’t have this extreme reaction.

 

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The reason is, because in that second scenario, you don’t have a wound, so me poking you is just me poking you and it doesn’t hurt you because you don’t have something there that is tender, that is exposed, that is a trigger just waiting to be found by some unsuspecting person who likes to go around poking people in the arm.

So, if you’re being triggered by something like your partner asking you how your business is going, how much money you made, or what happened with that thing, then that shows you and gives you an invitation to heal something. It shows you there’s a wound there and it’s an invitation to heal your wound.

You can actually sit back and go, “Right, this is actually not about them. It is not about them trying to make me feel anything.” In fact, maybe they’re just interested. Maybe they actually genuinely care. Maybe they want to show you that they are wanting you to succeed and they’re just making conversation but you’re making it mean something different. It shows you that there is a wound there and that is an invitation to do something about it and to heal it.

Now you can do lots of different things. I’m a huge fan of journaling because journaling helps you really talk to your unconscious mind, and it’s your unconscious mind that knows exactly what’s going on in that wound and exactly what created it and exactly how to heal it. So I do highly recommend that, but I’m going to give you another thing as well, and that is to access my free Money Manifesting Training. The reason for that is that training really focuses on helping you start to take your energy and your awareness onto what IS working and the money that IS coming in, and the beauty of doing that is that you don’t have to go digging in your old wounds to try and clean them up. In fact, if you just leave them alone for a while, they’ll start to heal over while you get busy on something else that is a much more positive and resourceful thing for you.

With the Money Manifesting Training I show you how to actually start putting your focus on the things that move you forward, on the things that build abundance momentum and that help you start to think about the abundance that IS there and start to see more and more and more of it – which, of course, helps you attract more!! What that does is that it automatically heals the old wound that says, “Maybe I’m not doing well enough. Maybe there’s not enough,” because suddenly you’re noticing that there IS plenty and OH LOOK, there’s even more!

So your whole focus shifts and changes and that’s kind of like you’re putting some magic balm on the wound, and just moving on to focusing on something else. You’re not digging around in it all the time, trying to figure out how to heal it. You’re just leaving it alone for a while, letting it rest and getting busy on something much more productive.

If you haven’t done that Money Manifesting Training yet, or you haven’t done it for a while, then I invite you to click the link in the description and get into it now.

It’s only 25 minutes long because it’s short and punchy and focuses on the 5 key reasons you haven’t been manifesting enough money, which is probably why your partner’s questions triggering you, and how to turn that around.

Along with the video training, you get a nice little checklist which will remind you of what I teach you in the training so that you can keep it front of mind. Pin that checklist up in your office or somewhere you see it often and really get to work and focus on taking your awareness on the things that are working and building those. The beauty of that is Law of Attraction will kick in, come to your aid, and really grab a hold of that and start to accelerate that momentum. Before you know it, that old wound won’t even be there, and you won’t have needed to do anything about it other than to get busy building the new powerful, helpful, and abundant things that are going to move you forward and create a beautiful, abundant business for you.

So grab that from the link in the description if you haven’t got it yet, and until next time, keep on embracing your beautiful and unlimited potential.

Bye!

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The secret formula for manifesting an abundant business and life

The secret formula for manifesting an abundant business and life

Hi, this is Miriam Castilla and welcome to the Manifesting Playground where we apply Law of Attraction in practical and magical ways to get you in alignment both in business and in life – so you can have more money in the bank and get a whole lot more done with ease!

Let’s talk about why alignment is the key to a super successful business and life.

… But before we talk about that, let’s talk about what alignment actually is, because maybe you’re not 100% sure or maybe you just need a little bit of tweaking, or maybe you have no idea and you hear everybody talk about it and you wonder secretly, “What is it actually?”

So, alignment is when you, as the physical you, are connected with and in tune with the higher parts of you, your higher consciousness – the part of you that is part of the One Mind, the Universal Mind and all the intelligence that resides there.

Some people talk about it as their higher self, their soul, the collective unconscious, their unconscious mind, their inner being, there’s a whole number of words. What alignment is is when you’re no longer separate to that, when you haven’t cut yourself off from it and you’re not operating just from the paradigm of, “This Universe and this world I live in is a machine and I have to force my way through it through sheer hard work,”

It’s when you’re actually connected to all the intelligence, all the support that’s available to you at all times and you are tuned in so that you can receive the guidance that is there for you, which means that you act on impulse, you act on guidance. You act in guided ways and you enter a state of “flow,” where you’re not really thinking, but you’re “feeling” your way through life. You just know that now is the time to rest, and now is the time to go. That now is the time to call that friend you suddenly thought of, and now is the time to maybe not go to that function you were planning to go to that you’ve already paid for because it just doesn’t feel right. It comes from a place of higher guidance rather than from a place of overthinking it and fear.

 

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Alignment is when the things you are seeking are actually there to guide you. It’s when you get to live in a state of flow and balance because everything is perfectly aligned and happening at the right time in the right way with the right people. It’s when you’ve kind of let go of the oars a little bit, in terms of you the physical finite part of you that you sometimes think is all there is to you. It’s when you’ve let go of the control of the oars and you’ve handed over and you’re putting your trust and faith into that higher part of you, your higher consciousness and the intelligence that is always sending you signals and guidance. You’ve learned how to tune in, and you’ve learned how to trust it, and you’ve learned how to compliment it with your own activity, because we still live in this material, practical world and part of us is this spiritual self that is connected to this amazing intelligence, this Universal Mind, this God consciousness.

It’s about learning how to dance the dance and live in both worlds and marry the two. It’s really your divine feminine that’s receiving the information and the guidance married to your sacred masculine, the part of you that knows how to act and do things and show up in the world. Both are important, and both are really beautiful and powerful. When you bring the two together, that is when everything flows.

This is why this state of alignment really is the key to a successful and fulfilling business and life.

All the practical strategies are very important, however, when you’re doing it from a place of, “I am on my own and this is all there is to me,” you’re doing it through simply your physical effort and that can only take you so far, whereas when you enter a state of alignment you actually tap into the leverage of the entire Universe and intelligence beyond what you could ever imagine, and coincidences and synchronicities that you never could have predicted will come to your aid and help everything unfold in perfecting timing and in magical ways.

That is why alignment comes first and truly is the key to that successful and fulfilling, joyous and magical business and life.

So, if you’d like to get yourself a little bit more alignment so that you can live in that beautiful state of flow, then ensure that you subscribe to my meditation library if you haven’t yet. It is a library of about 50+ Effectology meditations, which means that they’re all about helping you get into a state of alignment so that you can marry the magical with the practical and live in a state of flow.

Grab that from the link in the description. You’ll get an email with your member access, and you’ll instantly be able to access the whole lot. They range across a really wide range of topics which means that you can get yourself some alignment no matter what is going on for you.

So have lots of fun with that, and until I see you next, keep on embracing your beautiful and unlimited potential.

Bye, for now!

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The secret to fast forwarding your business

The secret to fast forwarding your business

Hi, this is Miriam Castilla and welcome to the Manifesting Playground where we apply Law of Attraction in practical and magical ways to get you in alignment both in business and in life – so you can have more money in the bank and get a whole lot more done with ease!

Let’s talk about the secret to truly moving forward in your business with ease.

I want to take you back to the Trifecta of Life which is what the Effectology Method is all about. The Trifecta of Business/Life (which, let’s face it, for women in business is pretty much one and the same) is about balancing alignment with practical approaches to both MONEY and TIME , because they are our key resources – in business and in life.

You’ll notice that there are two really practical things, money and time, paired with alignment on that trifecta. Alignment really is the key.

So let’s just look at the side that involves money, which is all about getting things done, and moving forward in your business and how that relates to alignment. You see, you can practice lots of different productivity tools, and productivity strategies, and there are loads and loads of them available. Maybe you’ve found that sometimes you can stick to something for a little while but after some time the wheels fall off. That’s because we all have different productivity styles, different personality styles, but it actually goes beyond that.

For the productivity tools that do work for you, the reason they work is that they naturally align with your higher self, with the way you naturally get into flow. So when you find the productivity tools that truly work for you, it’s because they are the ones that naturally help you get into and stay in alignment, and what then happens is that you move beyond even productivity and being efficient and you move into being truly “effective,” which is when you’re working on the right things, at the right time, in the right way, in just the right kind of pattern of knowing when to let it go and allow things to kind of just drop into place as they’re ready and when to get in there and start creating motion forward.

That is then a state of working, being, and living in aligned effectiveness.

 

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It means you’re in alignment so you’re naturally tapped into your unconscious flow which also means that you then get the inspiration and the impulses to act when you need to act and not act when all you’re going to be doing is spinning your wheels and wearing yourself out. That is why certain productivity tools work for you and not others, because they’re the ones that naturally tap into the way you get into alignment.

But the key to it all is… that you’ve got to get into alignment and then you actually draw in the right productivity tools anyway. And it doesn’t even matter if you’re not using “a tool” per se, because your alignment will naturally help you to work in that perfect state of flow.

So, alignment comes first, and the tools come second.

Now, having said that, you do still need to practice the tools and make sure that you’ve got them at your disposal so that you can play with them and work out which ones do help you achieve that state of flow and feel really good, and which ones don’t.

That is why I’ve created a really special freebie.. it’s the Effectiveness Book.

It gives you the top 7 effectiveness strategies that really do make a difference. Some of them are super simple, some of them involve a little bit more thought process on your behalf, but they are the top strategies that help you get a whole lot more done in a whole lot less time, and sometimes that’s where you need to start.

Sometimes you’re so stressed out and behind that you can’t possibly get in alignment, you just have to kind of get on top of things a little bit. So by using these effectiveness strategies you can clear the air a little bit, help you naturally get into alignment, then dive back into the effectiveness strategies and click into that state of aligned effectiveness so that you can move forward in life and get more done with ease.

That is what the Effectology Method is all about. It’s about being in a state of alignment and having the practical strategies to manage both your money and your time so both of those can flow in a really beautiful aligned and congruent way.

So, if you’d like to grab that and you don’t have it yet, just follow the link in the description and knock yourself out! You’re going to find that if you apply these properly, you can shave a whole working day off your week and actually get more done in less time with, most importantly, a whole lot less stress.

So go ahead, grab that now!

In the meantime, keep on embracing your beautiful and unlimited potential.

 

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Why manifesting more money won’t make you rich

Why manifesting more money won’t make you rich

Hi, this is Miriam Castilla and welcome to the Manifesting Playground where we apply Law of Attraction in practical and magical ways to transform your business and life – so you can have more money, more time, and more alignment.

Let’s talk about why manifesting more money won’t make you rich.

So, when you’re manifesting money and you’re relying on that for your abundance, it means that you’re constantly focused on attracting more, right? Attracting money, manifesting money. That is your focus, bringing the money in, bringing the money in, bringing the money in.

That’s all very well, but if you have a look at the Magnetic Money Trifecta, there is attracting the money (which is number one) and then there are TWO more parts to that trifecta: There is also keeping the money AND helping the money grow and multiply!

This Magnetic Money Trifecta is what allows you to truly get into a place of living in abundance.

When the money flows into your experience but just bounces off so you’re back to where you started you then have to manifest more. There are a lot of people stuck in that cycle. I call them a “Spender Money Habit Archetype”. Their habit pattern around money is that: money comes, money goes – money comes, money goes. Sometimes it accumulates a little bit for a little while, but then it all goes again. They always end up back where they started, because they haven’t gotten the second part of the trifecta happening. They’ve got the “attracting” money part, but they haven’t got the “keeping” money part down pat yet.

 

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Now, there is a third part to the trifecta which is helping the money grow and multiply.

What happens when you can get past the first two points and start incorporating that third bit, is something really magical. When your money grows and multiplies, not only are you keeping more of it in your experience, but it’s starting to gather its own momentum. It’s starting to have “money babies” as I call it. So your money’s have money babies, it’s growing and multiplying, which then takes a lot of the pressure off f you needing to manifest more money all the time.

Contrary to how that may sound, what it actually does is help you attract and manifest a whole lot more money into your experience because you’re not so focused on having to bring in more – on the need for more money.

Your money that’s with you is starting to grow and multiply and take care of you. That’s actually a way you’re manifesting more income. That helps even more money to flow to you from other external sources.

So this is the secret to actually getting rich, to feeling rich and abundant. It’s not just the manifesting. It’s being magnetic to money and truly perfecting and living in that magnetic money trifecta.

You attracted the money, that’s awesome – but that’s only step one.

Then it’s about keeping the money by clearing all those old stories that have been making it bounce off or flow out again as quickly as it came in.

Then you start to focus on helping your money grow and multiply.

And, I tell you what, that is when the absolute magic kicks in, because what we’re all about here, if you’re working with me or following me, is we are about applying Law of Attraction in practical and magical ways.

It’s about marrying the magical with the practical so that you can truly have it all and you can totally benefit from being the conscious creator of life, and being a physical human being. You can do cool stuff in your 3D reality. It’s having one foot in each world and bringing the two together in a really incredibly powerful way. It’s embracing the masculine and feminine, your divine masculine and divine feminine and bringing the two together to make lots of money babies. That’s what it’s all about!

So if you want to get started on really figuring out what’s been getting in the way of you starting to complete this money trifecta – rather than just working on the attracting part and being stuck in that loop – then look at your money habit archetype. It is your number one starting point.

If you don’t know what your money habit archetype is, then grab the link in the description, do my quiz, and I will let you know what it is. I will also let you know how to then start diving deeper into the stories that are feeding it and creating it, so that you can shift all of that and start to really complete your Magnetic Money Trifecta so that you can attract more money, keep more money, and let your money grow and multiply.

Until I see you next, keep on embracing your gorgeous and unlimited potential.

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Why you DO have to spend money to make money

Why you DO have to spend money to make money

Hi, this is Miriam Castilla and welcome to the Manifesting Playground where we apply Law of Attraction in practical and magical ways to transform your business and life – so you can have more money, more time, and more alignment.

Let’s talk about why you have to spend money to make money.

I know… can you believe I just said that?

When you talk about manifesting and that the universe is unlimited, you would generally say, “That’s not true. You don’t HAVE to spend money to make money. You can just be in alignment with the vibration of abundance and attract money to you.”

Totally true. Not saying that’s not true, but what I’m also saying is that if you are unwilling to spend or refuse to spend money or you’re scared of spending money or you just don’t like spending money, then what you’re actually doing is you’re blocking the flow of money.

Money is a flow of energy.

It flows TO you and THROUGH you.

 

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When I teach what it takes to attract more money, keep more money, and help that money grow and multiply, the practical steps around running your business and spending money in really smart and wise ways that are a great investment for your business -they’re an important part of the process.

Spending money to make money and knowing that this is an investment that comes back to me multiplied and generally in life having that attitude – that I can spend money on this and that and the other (within reason by being not totally flippant about it and just blowing everything… because that’s a really bad habit and we’ll talk about that in a moment) – but knowing that you can spend money on things that are in alignment with what you’re all about, in alignment with where you’re going, and you can feel really comfortable knowing that – that’s part of the flow.

If you think about it, if you are a pipe of abundance, money flows to you and through you.

If you block the end and you don’t let anything flow out, you’re going to end up with some congestion and no more money can flow in.

You do need to get comfortable with allowing the money to flow out of your experience so that it can continue to flow INTO your experience.

Flow means being in the flow of life… not hoping to manifest some money and then hoarding it, holding onto it out of fear that no more will come. That’s not what we’re about, is it?

So I talked about healthy patterns of spending around money, and there are also some unhealthy spending patterns around money. BUT.. some of the spending patterns around money that you would think are actually good, like accumulating lots of money, are not necessarily healthy. If they’re coming from that point of view of “lack” and fear and “What if there’s not enough? What if no more comes tomorrow?” then that’s part of a really unhelpful story that’s keeping you trapped in a vibration that does not match abundance.
Life is fearful, and even though you might have some money coming to you, you’re certainly not feeling abundant.

Trust me, abundance is a feeling and not a dollar amount.

So that is the starting point. See what your patterns are around money. Ask, “What are my habit patterns when it comes to spending money and relating to money?” because they’re your first indicator of some of those old stories that are lurking beneath the surface that are stopping you from really getting in alignment and allowing yourself to be in the flow.

I call this your Money Habit Archetype.

If you don’t yet know what your Money Habit Archetype is, then do the quiz from the link in the description, because once you find out what your Money Habit Archetype is, that is your first step to uncovering those patterns that are lurking beneath the surface and that is what will allow you to take the next step and really step into the flow abundance.

It’s a beautiful, beautiful place to be!

So let me know in the comments below what your Money Habit Archetype is, and until I see you next, keep on embracing your beautiful and unlimited potential.

Bye!

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