To attract more money, stop being mean to it

To attract more money, stop being mean to it

Are you being mean to your money?

What do I mean by that?

Are you bitching about your money? Are you complaining about your money? Are you seeing money as the enemy? Something unreliable? Something that’s frustrating? Something that’s not wanting to play ball with you?

Do you think and feel and speak about money like that?

Just take a moment to think about that.

If the answer is, “Yeah. I do,” then I want to remind you that:-

Number one: it’s not money’s fault.

Money is just responding to your energy, to your vibration.

And that stuff we just talked about… that’s a huge part of it.

And number two: money is energy.

 

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Money is just energy, and that’s actually very important for you to remember.

Because remember that energy responds to vibration, and your feeling – how you feel about money – that’s a vibration.

So when you’re feeling angry about money towards your money, when you’re feeling resentful towards your money, that’s the vibration you’re putting out.

And the energy of money responds to that, and runs for the hills – runs the other way.

So, you need to stop being mean to your money.

You need to stop talking badly about your money – being resentful and angry towards your money – because your money can only mirror back to you the vibration that you’ve been putting out about it.

So, it is an inside job.

Money is just responding to you.

You need to switch that up. Start being really kind to your money.

Start being grateful for the money that is choosing to show up even though you’re being a little bit of a bitch at the moment. (Let’s be honest.)

And it is starting to show up, and it keeps showing up, and the bills are getting paid.
And you are being fed.
And you have a roof over your house.

Because that money is still sticking around.

It’s sticking by you, baby, even though you haven’t really been the best of friends to be with.

So imagine if you start shifting that and start appreciating your money. Start really, really giving your money some love and putting that energy out. And then money can correspond and respond to that, and mirror that vibration back to you and start coming into experience more and more because it will be drawn to you – just like anyone else, right?

If you’re being horrible, mean and condescending to a friend of yours, they’re not going to want to come around to visit; they’re going to stay the hell away. But if you start being loving and kind and appreciative towards them, they’ll want to be around you all the time because it feels great to be around you.

And money is no different.

So start thinking of your money as having feelings, and start caring about your money’s feelings because this is a relationship between you and your money, and that will help you attract a whole lot more.

And start having a really beautiful, loving, appreciative relationship with your money – which is an amazing, amazing place to be.

Now, to get you started, grab yourself today’s freebie. I’ve popped the link in the description. That’s going to make a huge difference in how you vibrationally line up with the amount of money you want so you can attract more of it more easily.

Until I see you next.

Make sure you keep embracing your unlimited potential.

Bye.

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The Spiritual Path to Manifesting Wealth & Abundance

The Spiritual Path to Manifesting Wealth & Abundance

How can you let more wealth & abundance flow into your experience?

On this call, I spoke to Mike Dooley about the spiritual path to wealth & abundance.

We also answered YOUR questions about how to manifest a life filled with spiritual AND material wealth & abundance.

Join us to discover:

  • Is money spiritual or not – and is it ok to want it?
  • How you can align yourself with more abundance – immediately!
  • The true reason you want money and material wealth.
  • What it really takes to attract financial freedom & material wealth.

And so much more!

 

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How to hypnotise yourself into abundance

How to hypnotise yourself into abundance

I’m wondering: have you hypnotised yourself to be poor?

So I’m a hypnotherapist and one of the first things I learned in my training is that we actually all hypnotise each other every single day.

Coca-Cola, KFC, McDonald’s know exactly how to hypnotise people into buying their “stuff.” Right?

They know the hypnotic effects of words, images, repetition and people just zoning out in front of the TV – which, by the way, is when your unconscious is completely open.

You’re actually in a trance when you’re watching TV, and that is why TV ads are so powerful.

But we all hypnotise ourselves – and each other – every single day.

 

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Your parents hypnotised you when you were just a little kid which, again, is when the unconscious is completely open. The personality hasn’t fully formed yet. And until about age seven, you’re just open; there’s no filter and everything goes in.

Which is why my 1:1 work with clients usually goes back to things at age 7 or earlier. If they take me to an event that they say is the first time that a limiting belief occured after age 7, I always dig deeper.

Because most often, it happened before age 7 when they were totally susceptible to taking on messages without a rational filter that says, “That’s not really what that means and I’m going to choose to see it from a different perspective.”

They just take things at face value. YOU just took things at face value.

So, we all hypnotise each other.

Our parents are really good at it when we’re young.

And now you also hypnotise yourself every single day.

You do it with your words. Words are extremely powerful. They’re extremely hypnotic and when you repeat the same word over and over again that means you start to believe it.

And as you start to believe it, you repeat it more and more which means you believe it at an even deeper level. And because you know that what you believe at a deeper level is the truth, it means that the words that you are now speaking are you complete and utter truth.

What I just said doesn’t make much sense but it felt like it did, didn’t it?

Because I used hypnotic words. That is how powerful they are.

So, be aware of that.

Be aware of your words and that they are hypnotising you every single day.

Be aware that when you speak to other people, you are actually hypnotising yourself. Words are powerful. 95-98% of everything we do every single day is completely unconscious. So when you hypnotise yourself, what you’re actually doing is you’re programming your unconscious – which runs your life.

It’s like you’re programming the computer that runs the show.

And you want to be careful with how you’re programming it, right?

One thing you can practice is a simple pattern interrupt.

Basically just be aware and when you find yourself saying things that are negative around money like “Oh god, not another parking fine.” and “Oh my god, electricity just keeps getting more expensive.” etc, train yourself to throw in a little pattern interrupt.

Train yourself to say something that interrupts that old pattern firing in your nervous system because that alone will weaken that old pattern… and weaken that old belief system.

It will help you wire in a new belief system… a new pattern that serves you a whole lot better.

What sort of pattern interrupt?

Well, you can train yourself to go “BLAH” everytime you say something that shouldn’t come out of your mouth. But people might think that you’re a little bit weird….

So, how about something as simple as, “Lucky I’ve always got more money coming.” or “Lucky I’m rich!” or “Yeah, that’s right – I can afford this because I always make twice as much as I spend.” Or just anything. Anything at all that’s a pattern interrupt that’s out of the ordinary to what you would normally say.

And that alone is powerful.

This is important stuff, people.

Now, if you’re not quite sure where to begin on this journey to creating life on purpose, to getting in the driver seat and really upgrading your life no matter how good it already is you know it can be better, then take my quiz.

The link is in the description above. Jump on there and we’ll find out what your next step from here is.

I’ll see you next time.

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When money manifesting doesn’t work

When money manifesting doesn’t work

Have you been trying to manifest some specific money goals but it just not happening… and you’re starting to feel frustrated and disappointed?

Well, this one’s for you..

Maybe you’ve been trying to take your business to 6 figures and beyond for a while and it’s just not happening.
Maybe you’ve set some income goals and you can’t seem to get there, or it’s taking way, way, way too long.
Or maybe you can’t seem to land that specific client or contract that you’re after.
Or set up that partnership.
Or finally get that book published.

Whatever it is, if it’s related to money and manifesting and there’s an element of disappointment, I want to give you some really important insights into what’s going on there for you so that you can turn things around.

And I’ll also give you some tips on how to ensure it doesn’t KEEP happening!

 

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The thing is that when you’re disappointed in these things that we’re talking about… and I want you to become aware as you’re thinking about what some of your disappointments have been or are at the moment… that what we’re talking about is really specific things.

A specific client.
A specific sum of money.
A specific income level.
A specific book deal or outcome.

Right?

And the thing is, those specifics… at the end of the day when you’re co-creating with the Universe… when you’re learning how the law of attraction works and how to tap into it to create an amazingly abundant life that includes lots of money and all good things…

When it comes to the specifics… they’re actually not your work.

They’re not your work.

And so what’s happening there – especially when you’re feeling disappointment – is that you’re banking on “this is the thing I need” for it to mean that “I am manifesting abundance. I am creating an amazing life.”

“And because this one specific thing hasn’t happened, it means that it’s not working.”

But that’s not true.

Because it is ALWAYS working.

The problem is, that you’ve decided to get yourself all caught up on something specific. And as I’ve already said: the specifics – the how – are NOT your work.

Because what you ultimately want is a much bigger picture scenario anyway.

You want an abundant life.
You want a business that’s thriving and profitable.
You want work that’s fulfilling and that makes a meaningful difference in the world.

And there are sooooo many ways that can happen.

And when you decide to get stuck on a specific thing – that YOU think is required in order for you to fulfill that bigger picture – you get yourself stuck.
And you close down the possibilities.
And you close down the energy.

Because you’re co-creating alongside a much bigger intelligence that you are a part of… that you are communicating with. 

And you have to find a way to allow for the flow that invariably happens as part of getting you to the bigger picture outcome… to that ultimate actual end result that you’re really after.

So you’re basically trying to do it the wrong way around.

You’re looking to the outside of you and letting it determine how you feel on the inside of you… letting it determine whether or not you think it’s working… whether or not you think you’re on the right track – letting it train and determine your VIBRATION.

But the way this works – this whole manifesting gig – is that the outside of you responds to the INSIDE of you.

And that bigger picture thing you want is at a really high, vibrational level.

And when you know how to stay in alignment with that, then all the things that are a part of that… all the things that make up that bigger picture… can come to pass. They can come in to your experience.

When you micromanage and try to get stuck on one particular thing, you’re actually relying on your external reality to help you get in the right vibrational alignment so you can have the specific things.

And it just doesn’t work like that.

So let me give you some tips on how to break out of that, so you can allow yourself to manifest lots of really cool things and not get caught up in the details. Not get all hung up on specific outcomes.

So what you want to focus on… what you want to get clear on is what I call your “North Star.” Your North Star is the big picture scenario – the thing you’re REALLY after.

And I already mentioned it earlier.

Maybe it’s a beautiful, high level of abundance in your life.
Or a profitable business.
Or work that makes a meaningful difference to the world.

Now, see how those are really big picture things?

They’re not specific like, “It’s going to be THIS client.”
“THIS contract.”
“THIS speaking gig.”

It’s not any of these specific things.

It’s a really big, beautiful umbrella statement that leaves so much room for the possibilities… that leaves so much room for the magic.

So get really clear on what your North Star is.

What is it you’re ultimately really after?

The thing that these smaller things you’ve decided need to happen are really just a part of? They’re just a means to an end and, really, you can substitute them for pretty much anything.

When you make your peace with that, then you let go of the resistance. And the Universe can do the substitution and go, “Actually, I’ve got something much better. So glad you’ve finally let go of the other thing. Try this because you just wait and see. This is going to work so much better for you overall. And you’re going to be so glad that this came into your experience instead.”

So that’s the place that you want to get to, and your north star helps you really do that.

So pick your North Star. Make your peace with the fact that there are infinite possibilities that sit underneath that. And hand that over to the greater intelligence… the divine… the quantum field… the matrix.

And celebrate that you are on your way, and all these little things along the way… they’re part of a much bigger picture you can’t always see.

But every time you get a little sniff of it, I want you to celebrate!

I want you to look at all the ways that you already have things in your life that make up that North Star picture. And remind yourself, “It’s always working. I am divinely guided. And I am the co-creator of my life.”

So then, when specific things don’t happen the way that YOU think they should, you’re not attached and you don’t have to worry about the disappointment.

Now… if you’ve been trying to manifest a specific goal…. or there’s something that you’re feeling rather attached to.

  • maybe it is reaching 6 figures in your business.
  • maybe it is taking your business to the next level – moving to that next level of abundance.

Then please grab my freebie that is attached to this video. You’ll find the link in the description.

It will really help you figure out exactly how to dance this dance, and how to co-create with the Universe so that you’re not getting in the way – which actually allows you to have all the things you’ve ever desired and so much more.

So grab that right now and until I see you next….

Make sure you keep embracing your unlimited potential!

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How to manifest your dream house… not.

How to manifest your dream house… not.

Today we’re going to talk about why leaving your shoes in the cupboard of the display home won’t help you manifest that home. 

Apparently, in display homes – especially those big lottery homes, they have to clear the cupboards of all the shoes people leave behind while they’re inspecting it.

That’s because people watched things like “The Secret” and decided that, “Okay. If I want to manifest this house and make it mine, I have to leave something of mine behind because I’m coming back. I need to leave my energy here, and I need to show the Universe that this is my house and I’m claiming it and I expect it to be mine.”

It’s kind of cute but it’s not going to get you the house.

 

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Simply leaving your shoes in the cupboard does not get you the house.

First of all, make sure you buy a ticket 😊

Here are some things you CAN do to help you manifest that house – or another house like it:

The very first and most important thing is that you get in vibrational alignment with the version of you who lives in that type of house.

Because just showing up in the house and going, “Oh my god! This is so amazing! I’d love to live here. This is how millionaires live.” And then hiding your daggy pair of old Converse that you were going to throw away in the cupboard and thinking that’s going to do the job…. 

That won’t do the job.

The house and YOU can only come together when there is a vibrational match – when you are the kind of person who lives in that kind of house… who expects to live in that kind of house… when you think, speak, act and feel like the kind of person who lives in that kind of house.

Incidentally, things go a bit weird sometimes for people who win lotteries and so on.

There’s a huge percentage of lottery winners – a massive percentage of lottery winners – who go broke and go back to where they were before and even further back within just a few short years.

The reason is they haven’t upleveled THEMSELVES.

They haven’t BECOME the person who has that level of money, who has that level of abundance, who lives in that kind of house.

So forget about leaving your shoes in the cupboard and doing stuff on the outside of you that are just cute token gestures.

If you don’t shift who you fundamentally are… if you don’t start acting, feeling, thinking and being that person who is a match, it’s never ever going to happen.

You’re just going to go through lots of pairs of shoes, and become a real pain in the bum to those poor real estate agents who have to clean out the cupboard every single week.

Instead, when you walk through that house (Great thing to do by the way! Absolutely do it.), visualise yourself living there.

FEEL what it feels like to be that kind of person and notice where there are some resistances in the mix.

Maybe there’s the voice in the back of your head that says, “But… I couldn’t even afford to pay the rates on this house.” 

Notice these things and then make it your work to bridge the gap.

Bridge the vibrational gap.
Bridge the mindset gap.
And bridge the practical gap.

Because certain things require a certain level of habit and confidence with managing your finances around that level of income.

You need the practical skills and the practical habits down pat so you’re ready to go.

You need to have your mindset polished up so that you don’t end up blowing all the lottery winnings and ending up broke or back where you were.

And you need to become a vibrational match so that you can bring it into your experience in the first place.

So it’s mindset, manifesting and the practical side of things. All of those need to become a match.

Remember that it’s all about you actually becoming a match to the thing you desire.

It’s not about leaving your shoes in the cupboard. That won’t make the difference.

Now, if you want to make sure you get all the tweaks done that need to be tweaked within yourself so that you can become a match to all those things you desire – whether it’s the dream house, the dream income, the dream business, the dream holiday (or whatever it is) – then grab today’s freebie because it’s the perfect thing to help you take the next step on your journey.

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