You can manifest anything you want – if you DO THIS!

You can manifest anything you want – if you DO THIS!

by | Feb 8, 2023 | Law Of Attraction

You can manifest anything you want – provided you can create momentum & reach critical mass based on the consistent choices you make.

 

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Manifesting your desires and dreams into reality is not just about setting goals and visualizing them.

It involves doing the inner work necessary to reach a critical mass where that new reality becomes your normal, everyday INTERNAL STATE.

Achieving critical mass takes a consistent effort of aligning with the person you want to become and tapping into the power of momentum to help you tip over so that new reality becomes the NEW YOU.

It means constantly and consistently making choices that serve you – focusing on positive thoughts and emotions, while letting go of negative self-doubt and limiting beliefs – so that momentum can build, which helps you get to critical mass faster.

So if you’re not getting the results you want in your business or personal life, it might be because you’re waiting for permission from external sources.

And this stops you from achieving the 3 key factors to achieving any new goal:

  1. Critical mass
  2. Inner transformation
  3. Momentum

Let’s break it down:

1.Critical mass 

To become a new version of yourself who can achieve new things, you need to reach a certain level of consistent behavior and mindset.

It takes more than just writing down goals, creating a vision board and reciting a few affirmations.

You need to do the work internally and continually shift your state of being to align with that more abundant version of yourself.

This requires you to be brutally honest with yourself and make the effort to feel a little bit better – a little more abundant – a little more aligned – each & every day until this ‘new you’ becomes your natural state.

Until you BECOME her.

2. Inner work

There is a process required of shifting your state of being and aligning with the version of yourself you want to become.

This involves choosing to go to a better feeling place where you can imagine and FEEL  yourself enjoying your desired outcome.

This is a choice you need to make over and over and over again –  regardless of external circumstances. Inner work is a lifelong commitment, and as you continually do it, you will reach critical mass and start to grow & evolve, faster & faster.

3. Momentum


This is the third factor in achieving that tipping point.

Momentum comes as a result of consistently making the right choices and building positive energy.

If you make positive choices, you build positive momentum, and you reach critical mass faster.

However, if you keep making negative choices, you build negative momentum, and it becomes increasingly difficult to pull yourself out of that and make positive choices.

To reach critical mass so you can tip over & become that NEW YOU, it’s essential to make positive choices as often as possible. To feel good – and then a little better and a little better – over & over & over again so you can build positive momentum.

That’s how this process becomes easier.

But it starts with a decision & the willingness to shift your internal state – the way you FEEL – to a better, higher vibing place – again & again.

It’s about choosing to feel good – and always looking for ways to feel even better – regardless of external circumstances.

Once positive momentum builds, it will get so much easier.

And eventually that positive momentum, assisted by those continual choices to shift your vibration to a higher state, will help you achieve critical mass and reach that tipping point.

And that is when that manifestation can finally pop – seemingly out of nowhere!

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by | Feb 1, 2023 | Law Of Attraction

I chatted with EFT Practitioner Claire Kerslake about how to release attachment so you can manifest your goal business income.

We also talked about why releasing attachment can seem so hard to do on some things – but not on others.

Along the way, we also came up with a perfect description of what attachment REALLY is.

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Beware These 5 ‘Good’ Money Habits That Will Keep You POOR!!!

Beware These 5 ‘Good’ Money Habits That Will Keep You POOR!!!

by | Jan 20, 2023 | Money Mindset

What if everything you were told to do with money – is actually wrong?

We’re told to save, budget and tighten our belts…

But today I’m going to tell you why these things may actually be keeping you poor!

 

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See, you already know what your bad money habits are – overspending, using credit, and whatever your personal vices might be.

So we’re not going to talk about that obvious stuff. We’re going to go a level deeper and talk about the attitudinal habits that make it so difficult to change those surface level ‘bad habits’

Here we go:


5 (unexpected) money habits that will keep you poor:


And the underlying factor that permeates & drives ALL of them…

If you’ve been trying to change your bad money habits, you’ve probably been doing it backwards.

Most people try to use their willpower – but that doesn’t work!

(Anyone who’s ever tried to give up smoking will tell you that)

See, with willpower, you’re trying to use your conscious mind to override an unconscious program. And since up to 98% of everything you do think, say & feel is unconscious, that’s REALLY hard work!

It means you need to stay constantly vigilant – which gets tiring. And the moment you turn your back, those old unconscious patterns kick in again and you’re back to where you started.

That’s why using willpower is a losing battle.

Unconscious patterns are great because they make our life so much easier. They allow us to do things without having to think about them too much.

But when habits that aren’t serving us become unconscious, things can get difficult.

And so we really need to go deeper and override the program that’s driving those habits.

And the beautiful thing is that as you change the program, the habits miraculously change themselves!

Because your habits need to match your underlying, unconscious program – ALWAYS.

So let’s talk about these 5 habits that are reinforcing a program that’s not serving you – and how to shift them:

NUMBER 1: SAVING

Surprised? I did say ‘unexpected’, right? 🙂

Thinking of yourself as a SAVER – rather than an INVESTOR – will keep you poor.

Saving is about being safe by squirreling your nuts away for winter.
Whole INVESTING is about achieving financial independence and growth.

When you save your money and put it in the bank, it’s actually shrinking, because standard interest rates won’t even keep up with inflation.

When you’re trying to save, coming from a mindset of ‘I have to hold onto this because I don’t want to end up poor’, it can become a self-fulfilling prophecy.

Whereas with the mindset of an INVESTOR, you’re always looking to make your money grow and multiply.

You’re sending your money off to make MONEY BABIES.

Which is how you create financial independence and freedom.


NUMBER 2: BUDGETING

Budgeting reinforces the message that ‘there’s not enough so I need to make every dollar count’.

When you’re budgeting, you’re looking to account for and stretch every dollar. It’s about ‘tighten your belt to save money’.

You’re trying to squirrel away the nuts for the winter.

But that mindset is based on lack and limitation. 

It comes from a place of restriction and constriction.

So we want to switch that up. We want to go from a mindset of budgeting to a mindset of having your money go to work for you by implementing a MONEY SYSTEM.

You want to give every dollar a job to do.

It’s the difference between safely tucking your money away in a drawer in case you need it one day, versus sending your money to work in a factory.

You want your money to be productive and make money babies – growing, multiplying and helping you reach all your financial goals. No idly sitting around doing nothing.


NUMBER 3: LACK OF FOCUS

Most people don’t have a clear financial focus.

So when a sum of money comes in – especially a large or unexpected sum – they tend to put a little bit towards savings, a little bit towards debt and maybe some towards a holiday or something like that.

It comes from the belief that there may not be more coming in consistently so you can’t afford to just focus on 1 thing.

The problem is that a little further down the track, it feels like that money never even came. The money didn’t really make an impact, because it was spread out way too thin, trying to do everything at once – but achieving pretty much nothing.

A lack of focus leaves you going nowhere fast.

Let me know in the comments if that’s ever happened to you!?



NUMBER 4: BEING STINGY WITH YOURSELF

When you don’t allow yourself enough spending money for fun stuff, it reinforces a lack mentality.

You feel like ‘there’s not enough, so I can’t afford to splurge on me.’  And in that process, you’re creating a deep sense of deprivation.

You’re reinforcing the belief that ‘there’s not enough’, and it becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy.

It causes you to resonate with an energy of lack – which will repel rather than attract money and abundance. That energy can translate into a ‘smell of desperation’ driving clients away, rather than attracting them.

By being too stingy with yourself, you’re creating a state that CONFIRMS you don’t have enough, which attracts more of ‘not enough’.

This creates situations like unexpected bills showing up and income that just doesn’t seem to want to land.

Being too stingy with yourself will also cause you to blow the budget, making you feel like you’re failing with money. And that will perpetuate the whole negative cycle even further.


NUMBER 5: INSTANT GRATIFICATION

Instant gratification usually hand in hand with using spending to mask deeper needs.

I ask Magnetic Money®️ members to check in whether a purchase is a NEED or a WANT.

Ask yourself, “Do I really need this? Or do I just want this and I’ve convinced myself that I need it?”

And if you do just want it, ask yourself, “WHY do I want it?”

Will it fulfill you, add joy to your life and help you feel consistently more abundant?

Or are you trying to mask something else?  Are you trying to mask a deeper pain – to fit in – feel loved – achieve some sort of status or acknowledgement?

What are you REALLY trying to buy?

A great indicator that a purchase was about something else entirely is when you experience buyer’s remorse.

That’s when you need to figure out what was going on at the deeper level.


THE ONE UNDERLYING FACTOR

We’ve covered 5 money habits that are keeping money at bay because they’re literally convincing you that there’s not enough, making you feel poor and creating more lack.

But there is an underlying factor that permeates all of them which needs to shift before these habits and attitudes can shift.

And this underlying factor is a very powerful limiting belief that there’s not enough money.

Wanting to save –  rather than thinking of yourself as an investor comes from a belief that ‘there’s not enough’.

“We have squirrel our nuts away for the winter”

The tendency to budget & carefully dividing up your money – rather than creating a SYSTEM that helps you grow your wealth – is based on a belief that ‘there’s not enough’.

“We have to budget and make it last”

A lack of focus comes from a belief that you cannot move forward financially by focusing on 1 thing at a time because ‘there’s not enough’. You don’t trust that more is coming, so:

“I have to make this stretch as far as possible.”

Seeking instant gratification and trying to fill deeper needs through spending comes from a belief that ‘there’s not enough’.

“I better grab it while I can!” 

Being stingy with yourself comes from a belief of ‘there’s not enough’

“It’s not okay to splurge on myself because there won’t be enough for more important things”

This underlying limiting belief acts like a systemic autopilot that reinforces these habits, keeping you poor and stuck in this mindset and belief that ‘there’s not enough’

The way to override an autopilot is to reprogram it, not fight it!

You want to be taken to a whole new destination where ‘there’s MORE than enough.’

The best way to program that new destination called ‘ABUNDANCE” is by focusing on and reinforcing the abundance that’s all around you.

You need to reprogram yourself with the belief that there’s plenty, by constantly proving it to yourself.

You don’t want to just stop being poor. You want to actually FEEL and BE rich.
You want to start developing & reinforcing habits that will make you richer.

That’s what the episode linked below is all about. So jump on that next.

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SAVE $72k per year – 32 Things I Don’t Buy Anymore

SAVE $72k per year – 32 Things I Don’t Buy Anymore

by | Dec 22, 2022 | Money Management

​Want to save $72,000 A YEAR – and get healthier, happier & WEALTHIER in the process?

Here is a list of 32 things I don’t buy anymore that most people think are necessary.

But I never miss any of them – and they basically add up to an entire salary!

 

It’s the things I don’t buy anymore that have allowed us to create financial stability & independence – giving us freedom of choice and even improving our health & wellbeing.

 

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Note these are OUR figures based on what we used to spend – or would spend – versus what we ACTUALLY spend. And these are also our choices based on our values & lifestyle preferences.

Your choices & savings will differ, but I know that within this list you’ll find loads of inspiration to help you make some significant savings in your life.

Because all those small daily choices really add up!


And we’ve been conditioned by society & the media into thinking that MORE stuff will help us feel richer – that we need it to make us happy.

But less is more! More freedom, more choices, less stress & responsibility.

And be sure to use your savings wisely so that money can go to work for you!
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Ok, it’s a big list, so let’s get into it!

In order of money saved:

 

1. Roaming Data

Instead of paying for roaming data while traveling, get a local data only SIM card while overseas and tell family and friends you’ll stay in touch via Viber, Whatsapp or Messenger.

Annual saving: $440

 

2. Household Cleaning Products

 

We run a chemical free home which is not only better for our health and the environment, but also saves us loads of money!

 

Annual saving: $480

 

3. High Heels

They look pretty, so for years I was still buying them, even though I rarely wore them. So I stopped.

 

Annual saving: $600

 

4. Perfume & Cologne

We used to be fairly heavy users, but once I realised how toxic they actually are, we traded our designer smells for simple deodorant & essential oils.

Annual saving: $940

 

5. Private Hospital Cover

In Australia, we are blessed with a fabulous public hospital system (to which my ample tax bill contributes each year).

And since even with private cover, there is usually still a significant gap to pay, we opt to only have private extras cover (for dental, optical, chiropractic, massage etc) and invest in preventative health care instead.

Annual saving: $960 (plus the saved gap payments)

 

6. Orthotic Shoes

Yes, we’re at that stage of life where supportive shoes are important.

But attractive orthotic shoes are incredibly pricey.

So I now choose to continue to buy more affordable shoes as I always have – usually at end of season sales – and simply buy up a size to fit my orthotic inner soles.

Annual saving: $1,000

 

7. Designer Handbags

My handbags are purely utilitarian & very well used, so spending thousands (or even several hundred dollars) on a single bag is just wasteful to me.

Yes, a Chanel bag can be an investment – but not when you trash it!

 

I like to hunt for quality 2nd handbags in Thrift & Second Hand Stores or buy them on sale.

Annual saving: $1,000

 

 

8. Books

I read about 1 book per week (where are my fellow crime fiction addicts?) but I spend ZERO money on them!

Instead, I use those neighbourhood book exchange boxes and help save trees as well.

 

Annual saving: $1,000

 

 

9. Christmas presents for family & friends

We all used to all buy each other Christmas gifts – then have to try and find time to exchange them!

One year, we just stopped – and nobody has ever complained!

Annual saving: $1,000

 

 

10. Smart TVs & electronic gadgets

We only own 1 ‘dumb’ TV and use an inexpensive ChromeCast dongle with it. 

 

Annual saving: $1,000

 

 

11. Weekly Lottery Tickets

Although Martin still likes to buy these, I don’t (although if he does win, he’s still promised to share). I prefer to use the savings to invest in my business, health or well-being & invest in an equities fund to grow my wealth.

 

Annual saving: $1,000

 

 

12. Alcohol

I stopped drinking several years ago after a Shaman in Bali confirmed what I’d suspected (& ignored) for years. Alcohol did not agree with my constitution & dimmed my energy.

I recently started drinking a little again & quickly stopped again when I noticed how tired it makes me.

 

Annual saving: $1,040 


13. Brand New Cars

New cars depreciate by approx 15% the moment you drive them home. So even if you only spend $40,000 on a new car, that’s an instant loss of $6,000! Most people upgrade cars every 5 years, so:

 

Annual saving: $1,200

 

14. Streaming Services

There are so many of these, it’s hard to keep up!

Most people have several of these – but we choose to have only Netflix, which is quite

inexpensive (and we’ll still never get time to watch everything we’d like to!)

 

Annual saving: $1,260

 

15. Mobile Phone Plan

 

By switching to an alternative phone plan provider (Boost mobile rather than Telstra) we still enjoy exactly the same network coverage at a tiny fraction of the cost!

Annual saving: $1,560

 

16. New Mobile Phones

 

There’s always a lot of hype about the latest & greatest mobile phone… and they’re being released faster than the latest Hollywood gossip.

I choose to take great care of my phone & keep it for years. At the moment, I still have my Samsung Galaxy S9, which is now almost 5 years old. And it does everything I need!

And when it’s time to upgrade, I will buy a refurbished phone that comes with a 3 year warranty for a fraction of its original cost.

Annual saving: $1,780

 

17. Hair Salons

 

Leaving behind the trendy inner suburbs & city salons for a local neighbourhood one as well as choosing to go just a little less often has made a massive impact on the cost!

Annual saving: $1,792

 

18. Partner Gifts 

 

Martin & I generally do not give each other gifts for anniversaries, Valentine’s Day, Birthdays & Christmas.

We’ll usually celebrate by going out to dinner (which is part of our usual spending plan anyway) and we buy things as we need and want them, rather than buying an extra gift ‘just because’


Annual saving: $1,800

 

19. Soft Drinks & Beer

 

We do crave those thirst-quenching drinks, but I now substitute with home-made Kombucha, which costs next to nothing and is way better for our health.


Annual saving: $1,896

 

20. Magazines & Subscriptions

 

With everything being available in digital form, it was pretty easy to give up the magazine habit. We also look to limit other subscriptions (Audible etc) to only what we actually use)


Annual saving: $1,920

 

21. Kitchenware

 

Tableware, pots & crockery can be extremely tempting to spend loads of money on. The trick is to avoid all those beautifully styled shops and their temptations & to buy simple white plates and plain glasses from places like K-Mart, Target & Ikead instead.

The bonus is that even if you break a few, the old will still match the new!


Annual saving: $2,000

 

22. High End Skincare & Make-up

Again, my tip to you is to avoid those shops.

I buy all my make-up at the chemist (drugstore) & choose to buy non toxic skincare which is also way more affordable than the glamour brands with all their heavy marketing (which is mostly what you end up paying for)

 

Annual saving: $2,100

 

23. Second Family Car

 

Several years ago we made one of the BEST decisions ever & replaced the second car with a $1,600 Piaggio scooter.

It is so much fun to ride and it only costs $10 to fill the tank!
It’s also much more cost effective on registration and insurance and kinder to the environment.


Annual saving: $2,495

 

24. Sound System

 

Although we talked about it for years, we never found the need to get an expensive sound system for our home. We use portable bluetooth speakers that we can carry with us & take on holiday. Simple, easy & cheap!


Annual saving: $2,500

 

25. Small Kitchen Appliances

Thermomixes. slow cookers, breadmakers, dehydraters, blenders, choppers, beaters, mixers – we have NONE of them. (actually, I do have an old hand mixer, that’s it!)

I prefer to keep things simple, not clutter up my cupboards & be kinder to my bank account.


Annual saving: $2,500

 

26. Coffee Pods

This was actually largely an environmental choice, so I’m quite surprised at the savings!
Rather than buying coffee pods, we buy beans & grind them at home.


Annual saving: $2,860

 

27. Holiday Resorts

I enjoy staying in a resort about as much as I enjoy spending time in a shopping centre. Negative 1,000!

To me it feels like you could be anywhere. So instead, I prefer to rent a BnB from a local & immerse myself in the local culture.


Annual saving: $3,000

 

28. Home Decor

This is another one of those ‘out of sight, out of mind’ things. I used to LOVE browsing through homeware stores, but inadvertently came home with yet another knick knack, decor item, wall hanging or vase.

I include lighting in this category. Rather than going to lighting stores, I now visit Ikea or Freedom Furniture when we need new lights. And the savings are significant!


Annual saving: $3,000

 

29. Furniture

Again, if you take me to a beautiful designer furniture store, I will end up wanting to buy the latest funky modular couch or a new sideboard for the hallway.

So I choose to avoid them & have embraced the joy of buying furniture second hand or at auction. I still have my coffee table made of pallet wood (that I bought when I was flat broke) and my Oak Dining table I got for $100 at the local auction house.

I love the personality of these pieces and the fact they are part of my story. They have  a beautiful soul and energy and I couldn’t bear to part with them for something that

s only just come out of a factory.


Annual saving: $5,000

 

30. Fine Dining

We love eating out a couple of times a month, but rather than frequenting the latest trendy restaurants, we seek ‘Tasty AF’ super authentic & simple super little eateries.

This also replaces take-out and actually saves us money and is a whole lot more fun.

We still enjoy fine dining at our favorite places but save it for special occasions.

 

 

Annual saving: $5,000

 

31. Clothes

The clothing industry & fast fashion are wrought with so many issues – from cheating massive amounts of landfill to the environmental impact from use of materials to the exploitation of labour forces.

I’m a big believer in circular fashion and love to hunt for treasure at my favorite Thrift and Second Hand stores.

But even here, overconsumption can be an issue and I currently have way too many pieces in my wardrobe. So for 2023, I’ve set myself a ‘no buy’ challenge. Wish me luck!

Annual saving: $5,400

 

32. Personal Trainers

This one shocked me as I expected it to appear somewhere in the middle of the pack.

We choose to attend group PT sessions rather than having private ones – and we ‘pay as we go’ (ie, we don’t have gym memberships)

The savings, based on just 2 sessions per week for the 2 of us, is astounding!

Annual saving: $12.320

 

 

So there you have it!

Which of these has inspired you?

Let me know below – where will you save more money & spend more mindfully?

Remember that the next step is using those savings WISELY.
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When the money is never enough

When the money is never enough

by | Dec 14, 2022 | Money Mindset

“I never seem to have enough money”

This is what Linda wrote when she asked for my help.

So let’s talk about 2 simple tweaks she can make – that may seem counterintuitive – to help her:

  1. stop blowing the budget
  2. start feeling like there’s PLENTY of money!

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Because what I’m actually going to show you is that she DOES have enough money already!

And that what’s mostly going on here is a MINDSET ISSUE, rather than a money issue.

But first, here’s what she actually wrote:

“I allocate and save my money and invest, and I don’t want to spend too much because I think if I spend more, there’ll be less to save. But somehow the money I allocate is just not enough. So I allocate a little more the next month, but it’s still not enough! Something always comes up and I have to spend more. It’s like I never have enough.”

So Linda, you’re obviously very careful with your money, which is a good thing. 

But it seems to me that it’s coming from a place of fear – which is not such a good thing.

Because our fears can become self-fulfilling prophecies.

Our fears are thoughts that have a lot of emotional power and our thoughts become things.

 

That’s why our deepest fears will often become our worst living nightmares.

 

And when we try really hard because we desperately want something, we inadvertently put an energy of desperation into it that kills the whole thing, creating the outcome we wanted to avoid – rather than the one we wanted.

 

And so the harder you try, the worse it gets.

 

Let’s use DATING as an analogy:

If you go on a date and you’re way too worried what the other person will think of you, desperately wanting them to like you, you’ll likely be trying way too hard.

You might even dress differently, tell jokes that make you cringe and generally have a smell of desperation about you. And that is going to be off-putting for the other person.

Afterwards, you might feel disappointed and think, “See, they didn’t like me!” But it’s not that they didn’t like you. It’s just that they didn’t like the energy you brought.

And if you’d just relaxed and been yourself, they might have REALLY liked you!

So let’s take a step back & ask, “WHY are you wanting the savings? What are you trying to accomplish?”

I know you want the money in the bank, financial freedom, independence and all that. But if you dig a little deeper, you’ll probably find that what you’re truly seeking is to FEEL SAFE.

But the problem is that when you’re driven by a fear of not being safe, chances are you’ll never feel safe & it’ll never be enough.

You’ll have more money and savings, but it STILL will feel like not enough.

 

Because the thing is, you ARE saving!

 

You said, “I put money aside to save and invest, but then what I leave for myself is never enough.”

 

And so I want you to notice that you’re not acknowledging the fact that you ARE saving and you ARE moving forward financially. 

 

You’re simply being a bit too stingy with yourself, not leaving enough spending money and that leads to budget blowouts. And this makes you FEEL like you’re failing and not saving.

 

It becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy!

 

You even wrote it to me! You wrote, “It’s like I never have enough.” You clearly stated your limiting belief. You’re so connected to it that you’re constantly creating it.

 

But if you’re honest with yourself, it’s not actually true!

 

Because you are saving, you are investing, you are moving forward financially.

 

So the thing to recognize here is that this is not so much a money issue, but more of a MINDSET issue.

 

So that’s Linda. But what about YOU?

What limiting beliefs and fears have become self-fulfilling prophecies for you? 

Let me know in the comments below!

 

So Linda, you are saving, you are investing, you do actually have enough.

But your fear of not having enough makes you FEEL like it’s never enough AND is making you be way too stingy with yourself so that you keep blowing the budget.

 

You’re literally creating situations that prove that limiting belief to you where unexpected bills and expenses gobble up your extra money.

 

So if we start with the premise that you DO have enough, we can make some tweaks to change both your perception and your experience.

 

So you can avoid the budget blowouts and change the way you feel about your money.

 

I’m recommending a two-pronged approach:

 

NUMBER 1: Stop being stingy with yourself!

The very first thing I want you to do is to give yourself MORE spending money.

 

Because the problem is you’re being too stingy with yourself and not basing your budget on reality. And so you keep blowing the budget, making you feel like you’re failing.

 

But that only lowers your vibration and reinforces that limiting belief. And it definitely doesn’t help make you magnetic to more. In fact, it will turn you into a magnet for MORE bills and unexpected emergencies that gobble up your money.


(You described this in your letter. “…even though I give myself more money the next month, it still all disappears!”)

 

This tells me two things:

  1. You’re not basing the amount of money you’re giving yourself on reality.
  2. You keep creating more bills, more emergencies to gobble up that spare money to prove yur limiting belief back to you (self-fulfilling prophecy).

 

NUMBER 2: Change your language

The second thing I want you to do is to change your language.

 

Start showing yourself – and reinforcing to yourself – that you do have enough.

When you pay bills, when you put money into your savings and your investments, reinforce that to yourself and use hypnotic language! Tell yourself “That’s right! See.. I do have enough. There is plenty. Look at me go. I’m doing so well.”

 

And as you do that, you prove to yourself in that very moment that the thing you want so much is actually happening!

 

To succeed financially in the long term, you’ll need to take a more realistic and strategic approach based on reality rather than on emotion.

 

This will help accelerate your savings and allow you to realise that there is plenty.

Most importantly – it will allow you to feel SAFE (Because remember, that’s where all the trouble started?)

 

I hope these tips have been helpful to you (& to Linda)!

And if you’re thinking. “Yes, but I still have debt. So where do I start? Save or pay off debt?”, then the episode linked below is where you want to go next.

 

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