The real secret to attracting money EASILY

The real secret to attracting money EASILY

Hi, this is Miriam Castilla and welcome to the Manifesting Playground where we apply Law of Attraction in practical and magical ways to transform your business and life – so you can have more, more time, and more alignment.

Let’s talk about the real secret to attracting more money EASILY.

If you’ve been focusing on attracting more abundance and more money into your business and your life for a while, you might have found that, at times… or maybe a lot of the time, it starts to feel really hard and frustrating… and the more you try, the worse it gets!

That’s actually completely what happens. As you try harder, you’re reinforcing to the universe and your subconscious mind – which are kind of the same thing but we’ll talk about that another time – you are reinforcing that it’s hard work and that it’s not happening. Just the word “try” alone, actually implies NOT succeeding – which is why Yoda was so right (if you know what I’m talking about with the Star Wars reference)

There is no try. There is only “do” and “do not.”

In fact, in hypnotherapy, we use the word “try” to suggest to people that they cannot succeed. So, I don’t know if you’ve ever worked with a hypnotherapist (maybe you’ve worked with me?) We can do things like stick your hand to your leg or glue your eyes shut. We use the word “try” over and over again, “Go on try. Try to do it,” and the more you try the more you find you can’t do it!

The word “try” is hypnotic and it implies not succeeding. When you’re “trying” you are not succeeding and you’re reinforcing to your unconscious mind that you’re having to try because it’s not working, and that is the message you’re sending out to the universe with your energy of frustration and how hard it all is and how you just keep trying and you can’t crack it.

So, the real secret to attracting more money more easily, is to dance the dance of what I call the Manifesting Paradox.

 

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Yes, you need to connect with what you want. You need to have the idea. You need to dream the dream. You need to connect with that possibility of the outcome you want that already exists out in the quantum field. Now once that’s done, whether you visualise, or you daydream, or you make a vision board, or you just spend some time talking and thinking about it – that’s done. The connection has happened. It’s kind of like you’ve branded that event. You’ve branded that outcome with your electromagnetic signature.

So the universe heard your order, no need to keep repeating it.

The work from here on is simple: It’s allowing yourself to be in a state where you can attract it. And “trying” to bring it in is not the state you want to be in!

So what you actually need to work on is getting into a state of “allowing.” Allowing it to flow to you, which means that you kind of need to be unattached enough to “how” and “when” and still be excited and looking forward to the outcome. So being really thrilled because you know that you create your reality, but at the same time knowing that the details of that are not your work. The “how” is not your work and when you try to get in the way and micromanage the process, you just slow it down.

So that is the real secret to attracting more money, more easily:
Come up with all the great ideas, dream the dream, and then get into a space of “allowing,” which means you just have to stay in that beautiful state of unattached expectation.

Tune in and notice, “is that how I’m feeling?” If it’s not, make a little tweak and check it again. If it’s not, make another little tweak. Lots of baby steps add up beautifully over time.

Now, if you’d like some more tips like that to practice and you haven’t yet accessed my free money manifesting training, then please follow the link I’ve given you in the description because you get access to a free 25 minute training video that I’ve recorded for you with the 5 reasons you’re not manifesting more money and what to do about it so.

Along with the video, you also get a little cheat sheet, a checklist to remind you of what I cover for you in the training so that you can keep on refining and applying those beautiful baby steps and continue to grow in abundance.

Until I see you next, keep on embracing your beautiful and unlimited potential.

Bye!

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The difference between personal responsibility and self-blame when it comes to manifesting what you want

The difference between personal responsibility and self-blame when it comes to manifesting what you want

Hi, this is Miriam Castilla and welcome to the Manifesting Playground for Soulful Women in Business – the place where you get to marry the magical with the practical so you can have more money and more time, the easy way – without all the extra hustle!

Let’s talk about the difference between personal responsibility and self-blame.

You see, I teach that you are the creator of your life. When most people start to get that they go, “Yaaay, that is so awesome! It means that I have 100% responsibility for the world I’m creating!” Which means that not long after that they go, “Ooh, shit… I’ve created this, and that, and that, and that… if I’m 100% responsible, it means I get the blame. I’m to blame for all of the things that are wrong in my life,” and they don’t like that. That usually then leads to a state of guilt, self-judgment, and even self-punishment, and that’s not a good thing.

So the thing to recognize is that when you go into a pattern of self-blame and self-judgment and guilt, you’re actually acting from a place of ego. The ego that is very clever at keeping you stuck in an old pattern. When you’re so busy putting all your energy into blaming yourself, into going over what went wrong, how you’re the cause of it all and how you really just need to get your act together and stop screwing everything up – it takes a lot of energy to do that. When your energy is tied up in that self-blame, and that guilt, and that rehashing everything that went wrong, it means that you don’t have energy available to create the new. It keeps you from moving forward. That’s how clever the ego is.

It wants to keep you in the same old pattern where it feels you’ll be safe.

 

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Remember that where your attention goes, your energy flows.

Everything that happens is neither good nor bad, it’s just feedback. It’s an opportunity for you to learn and decide to make some adjustments. Redirect your focus. Done! That is ALL you need to worry about when it comes to the past.

Whether things went right or wrong is almost irrelevant. It is all just feedback and an opportunity to learn so that you can move forward in an even better, even more beautiful way.

The thing is that money is usually the place where people feel the biggest urgency around this stuff, and where they beat themselves up the most. In my Magnetic Money Program, I see it all the time. People really blaming themselves and feeling so bad for all the things they did wrong, both on the practical physical level with their money, and on an energetic level when it comes to their money.

So that’s why I’ve created a special little video training that really helps you address the five reason you’re not manifesting more money and what to do about them. You can grab it from the link in the description, it’s totally free. It’s a 25-minute short, sharp, and shiny video training that even comes with a little handy cheat sheet to remind you of everything you learned in the training so that you can totally stay on track and take 100% personal responsibility and power to move you forward rather than being stuck in self-blame, guilt, and all that crap. We don’t want that. We want to move forward into abundance.

Grab yourself that from the link in the description and until I see you next time, remember to keep on embracing your amazing and unlimited potential.

Bye!

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How rich can you get?

How rich can you get?

Hi, this is Miriam Castilla and welcome to the Manifesting Playground for Soulful Women in Business – the place where you get to marry the magical with the practical so you can have more money and more time, the easy way – without all the extra hustle!

How rich do you think you can get?

And another question: When I say “get rich,” does that trigger you? Does that make you feel a bit squirmy and uncomfortable?

Interesting, right?

So I want to talk about the paradox of conscious evolution. Sounds pretty cool, right?

The thing is that most people who start working with me in particular and who I see out there wanting to really look at Law of Attraction, the power of the universe, the power of their unconscious mind… are mainly interesting in how to get rich – how to get some more money in the bank. And that’s totally cool because money is important, but because they’re looking at spirituality as a means to achieve that, it actually means they’re also interested in their inner riches, in the richness of their inner life.

What happens is that when they first start, their focus is very much on their outer world. They’re focusing on the lack of enough money, how much they want more, the things that are going wrong, the things that are still not quite as they want them to be, and all their focus is outside of them. But as they start working on their inner world, they start to discover and unearth and connect to their inner riches. They start to realize how rich the world within them is and how many riches already lay inside of them that they can dive into and thoroughly enjoy and kind of bathe in. It’s a beautiful feeling to know that your inner world is so incredibly rich and there is so much beauty and abundance in there.

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As you continue doing this work and taking your focus within and really diving deep and plugging into the power that exists right there within you and discover how awesome that feels, the scales start to tip. You’re actually focusing on your inner world, on your inner abundance, on your inner riches, and you stop caring so much about the outside world and, paradoxically, what happens is that the outer world starts to shift and mirror the inner world. Your outer world also starts to become more rich, and more abundant.

Remember, “As within, so without.”

There’s a reason for all of these beautiful old sayings!

As you start to discover your inner world, that is when your outer world can shift.

While your focus is on the outer world where you don’t have any power and where everything is happening TO you, you have no control and you’re not going to be able to get what you want. But as you start to dive within and really plug into that incredible unlimited power that exists within you and just revel in how beautiful and abundant that is, you’re going to stop caring so much about the outer world, which means all that resistance you had falls away, and the outer world shifts and becomes magically abundant also. You’re going to be in a totally different place, because THAT will be the cherry on top – as you’ve discovered something much more important.

The reason why people want all the outer riches is that they want to feel rich, fulfilled, and abundant within.

So, the way to maintain your connection to your inner riches, my darling, is of course through meditation. There are many other ways, but the easiest way that you can do it without me there to guide you through some other stuff, is through daily meditation. If you keep up that beautiful practice, that means that every time you sit down and close your eyes you’re giving yourself an opportunity to really connect to and experience the riches within.

In my meditation library I actually have a very specific meditation that I’m going to suggest for you – it is called The Vibration of Abundance. It helps you connect to that vibration of abundance inside of you, so that the scales can tip, and your outer world can start to match your beautiful and abundant inner world.

So, if you are not yet a member of my totally free meditation library, then click the link in the description and sign up now. If you already are a member, just jump on it and look for The Vibration of Abundance and spend some time enjoying that meditation because it’s absolutely beautiful and it will help you continue to embrace your beautiful and unlimited potential.

See what I did there?

Bye, for now!

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3 reasons you can’t manifest when the stakes get higher

3 reasons you can’t manifest when the stakes get higher

Hi, this is Miriam Castilla. Welcome to the Manifesting Playground for Soulful Women in Business – the place where you get to marry the magical with the practical so you can have more money and more time, the easy way – without all the extra hustle!

Why is it that when the stakes start getting higher, it becomes so much harder to manifest what you want?

Do you experience that?

I’ve been there myself. I had the car parking fairy giving me rockstar carparks – no matter where I was going. Fringe Festival in Adelaide, city overflowing with locals and tourists from all over the world… not a carpark to be found in the whole city, but mine was always there waiting, right outside the ticket box or the venue I was going to. Tickets to concerts, invitations to really cool parties and events, or even free holidays. I could manifest all sorts of things like that, but when it came to clients, income, or a more effortless flow to my business I was hitting a brick wall.

So, why is it so easy with the little stuff but when the stakes get higher, we hit that brick wall?

Let me tell you three reasons why:

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Number one, we have this belief that we’re raised with in hard work. That if you really want that tangible, serious outcome that gives you respect and acknowledgement from the people around you, you have to deserve it and have earnt it through your hard work. That is why in the Effectology Method Program we clear that old bullshit story with hypnosis, because that’s just not true… unless you choose to believe it and then it becomes very, very true for you!

The second thing is that you don’t have stability in your vibration. You’re not energetically and vibrationally stable enough and that means that as soon as something means more to you, as soon as you’re a little bit more attached to it, you start worrying and doubting and anytime something appears to not be going right you worry even more which throws your vibration off even more.

You don’t have that stability, which means means your vibration is very susceptible to every little thing that’s going on in your outside world.

You’re not controlling life, life is controlling you.

The only way that you’re going to get past that is with consistency.

Consistency of practice of stability in your alignment. That means you have to do those things that bring you into alignment and help you stay in alignment, CONSISTENTLY. Not just for a week, or month, or here and there, or when you remember, or when you really want something, but ALL THE TIME. In the beginning it’ll be harder work because you’re not used to it, and then once you get to a place where you actually have that beautiful flow and that becomes your new normal, it actually becomes very easy and there’s no way you’d ever go back to not practicing and doing the things that keep you in alignment.

It’s a little bit like brushing your teeth. You know, when you were little your mum probably had to force you to do it a few times, but now you wouldn’t really want to leave the house without doing it. it would just feel weird and your whole day would feel off.

And the third one is a lack of faith. You don’t really believe it. You don’t really trust it. You kind of hope it does happen, but deep in your heart you didn’t believe it. Let’s be honest. That faith can only come from proving yourself right.

You really do need to get over that hurdle and prove yourself right so that you believe it. That means that you’ve gotta stick with it and the only way you can stick with it often enough and for long enough that you can prove yourself right so that that faith becomes innate, is through deep immersion.

That means that you dive into an environment where you practise this and you see the results consistently enough that you can then shift your doubt to faith. You do that for long enough that it sticks… that the scales tip.

This is why my Effectology Method Program is a 6-month program.

There are no silver bullets!

It’s only through immersion and consistency and the strength of your desire, which is what’s going to make you take that dive into the immersion and keep up the consistency, and if you have a support network around you like we do in the Effectology Method Program that helps you stay on track, that’s fabulous, but it’s only through the depth of your immersion, the level of your consistency, and the level of your desire that you can break through.

That is how you get to that place where you DO have faith, you ARE consistently stable enough in your vibration, and you no longer have all those old BS beliefs that keep holding you back.

The best consistent habit that I can recommend to you to help you stay in alignment and reach alignment every single day is meditation. There is a reason why every spiritual teacher on earth will suggest meditation, and will highly, highly recommend you meditate. it allows you to dive deeper within. It’s a little moment of self immersion and it’s the consistency of that practice that then helps you get those results that produce the faith.

So, if you haven’t got access to my meditation library yet, please grab it now. It’s totally free! There are 52 meditations, one for each week of the year, and they’re hypnotic which means they really help you generate a certain state and achieve a certain outcome and connect you very deeply with your unconscious mind. grab that from the link in the description and get practicing!

Until I see you next time, keep on embracing your beautiful and utterly unlimited potential!

Bye!

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How to manifest more clients and money

How to manifest more clients and money

Hi, this is Miriam Castilla and welcome to the Manifesting Playground for Soulful Women in Business – where we practice the art & science of Effectology – marrying the magical with the practical so you can have more money and more time, the easy way – without all the hustle!

Let’s talk about how to manifest more clients and money.

When you’re in business it’s really easy to get into the mindset and pattern of focusing on that you NEED the clients, you NEED the money (because you NEED to pay the bills), and how much you want them. What usually happens is you find that it’s not very long before the flow of clients and money starts to dry up even more. This is because your focus is then on the “lack” of what you want, on the fear of it not coming. That is then what this intelligent universe that we live in starts responding to.

You’re focusing on not enough, the fear of not enough, and that’s what you create more of. The key is to actually start becoming magnetic – magnetic to the clients, the money, and all the things it takes to have them in your business and your life.

The way you do that is by becoming this powerful, stable, source of attraction – becoming the magnet. A lot of people think that manifesting is about going out and trying to grab at things and reel them in. But manifesting – truly effortless, easy, and graceful manifesting, is actually about BEING the magnet. Magnetizing yourself and having the things come to you.

So, how do you become magnetic?

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Well, you need to be strong, focused, centered, and powerful.

You need to become this powerful, attracting force that then magnetically draws the things you desire to you. It starts by being really aligned, by being grounded in who you are, by taking good care of yourself so that you’re not frazzled, and constantly thinking, “Well, I need to do this, I need to do that. Maybe I need to have this kind of client. Maybe I need to start speaking the language of this kind of person with that kind of problem. Maybe. Maybe. Maybe.” You’re constantly looking outside of yourself, trying to figure out who you need to be to please them.

What you actually need to do is flip that around and become so grounded, so strong, and so powerful in who you are and what you are about that you then become irresistibly magnetic to the people who need what you have to offer. The more this is genuinely in alignment with who you truly are and what it is you’re here to do, so that you can just stand powerfully in the passion of it, in the belief in it, in the mission that is entirely and uniquely yours, the more irresistibly magnetic you will become to the people who need exactly what it is you have to offer.

So it is about knowing YOU and connecting to YOU at that deep and powerful level.

Because you know what? When you’re standing in that place of power, you could be selling paper clips or you could be selling toothpicks, and people will want to buy them from you because people still need paper clips and toothpicks. So whatever it is that is uniquely your thing, there is a market for it. The more powerful you are in your knowing that this is you, and speaking your message and getting it out there, the more clearly you will connect with those people and the more powerfully you will attract all the things you need in order to serve them.

So, the key to it is knowing yourself in a really deep and profound way.

And you start doing that by knowing what your core values are, by connecting to the deepest part of you at the unconscious level so that you do have that pure passion, that pure drive, that inspiration that comes from within that draws you forward in the direction of your dreams that makes you irresistibly magnetic.

If it’s been a while since you’ve done your core values or even if you think you know what they are, I truly invite you to grab my free mini course to uncover your core values, because the way I do it is unique. I take you deep into your unconscious mind and when you connect at that level you let go of all the “what you think you should be doing to please other people and who you think you should be to please other people” and instead you become powerfully connected to who you truly are at your core, at the deepest part of you. That is when you become irresistibly magnetic and you will manifest all the clients, all the money, and everything you need and desire… but you won’t even care so much anymore because you will be so lit up with the thing that truly is who you are and what it is you’re here to do.

So, grab it from the link in the description if you haven’t done that course in a while. It’s entirely free and I lead you through a process that I actually take my students through in live workshops and in the Effectology Method program… and it’s all yours!

I’m there to guide you with a live video, a workbook, and a guided meditation to take you deep, deep, deep within yourself.

Have fun with that! I’d love to hear what your core values are, so please feel welcome to leave me a comment.

Until next time, keep on embracing your gorgeous and unlimited potential.

Bye for now!

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