Why you keep running out of money (there are only 3 reasons!)

Why you keep running out of money (there are only 3 reasons!)

Do you keep running out of money?

There’s only three reasons that cause this.

So let’s cover them and talk about WHY it’s so important to have a simple money system that’s easy to use and you feel confident about.

Because when you take loving care of your money, your money will take great care of you.

 

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If you keep running out of money, it’s for one of these 3 reasons.

NUMBER 1:
You’re simply not allocating enough money.

I work with a lot of people who make plenty of money and they find that month after month, they run out of spending money, or grocery money – or their bills account gets overdrawn.

And that’s simply because they’re being stingy with themselves. They’re not allocating enough.

So ask yourself – are you being realistic?

You need a money system that starts with an audit of what your expenses truly are. You need to know how much you need for fun money – how much you need to cover the bills – how much you want to save – pay towards debts – invest etc.

Most people are shocked at how much money they spend, when they do a proper audit.

We all tend to think we need less than we do.

When you’re more realistic about what your expenses are and how much money you do spend, you’ll stop short-changing yourself and feeling like ‘there’s not enough money’ – which makes you feel poor (even when you’re not!)


NUMBER 2:
You’re spending too much without even realizing!


The second reason why people keep finding there’s not enough money is that they are simply spending too much money.

Not only do they spend more than they realize on the things they know about – they’re also spending money on things they’ve forgotten about! (s.a. subscriptions & plans)
 
This happened to me recently where I realized I’ve been on the highest-level plan for my membership platform and was paying for a bunch of features I’ve never used.

It happened because somebody else set it up for me and I wasn’t paying attention. For the past 5 years I’ve been paying more than I needed to for features I’ve never used. I could have saved sooooo much money!

It happens to all of us. That’s why we need to have a money system that helps us stay on top of things.

We need to be connected with our money. We need to be able to see where our money is going and assess where we’re spending more than we need to.

Most people spend money on things they don’t even need and rarely use – then wonder why they run out!


NUMBER 3:
The third reason people feel like they keep running out of money is that they simply don’t have enough income.

This is the first conclusion most people jump to, but it’s really not the case! Because we just covered 2 other – much more common – reasons people run out of money.

But say you’ve looked at both of those & that’s not it. You’ve eliminated unnecessary expenses, money that was being wasted. You’ve reduced your expenses, especially your unnecessary expenses – the things that were giving you no joy and little benefit (like me with my membership)

And say you’ve done all that & decided that even if you live on the bones of your butt and just eat baked beans, you are simply not making enough money.

Well, that’s even MORE reason to sit down & put together a money system!

Because by documenting it all, getting familiar and intimate with it, you will know what your minimum expenses are and you will be able to determine how much income you need.

And then you can make a plan!

If you’re in a job, you might need to change jobs, get a second job, or negotiate a promotion or pay rise.

And if you’re in a business, fantastic! Because you can make changes in your business to start generating more income. You can start setting business targets and developing a business strategy that helps you achieve the level of income you need.

The above are the ONLY reasons people keep running out of money.

And most people who keep running out of money think they just need to bring in more. They think they just need to manifest, attract, or earn more money. But that won’t fix things! 

Because if you are only focusing on that, you’re not getting intimately familiar with what’s really going on with your money. You’re ignoring your money, you’re not taking great care of it. And your pattern –  whatever it is – will simply continue. Because you’re flying blind, hoping for the best.

When it comes to your finances, flying blind and hoping for the best is really not a smart strategy.

So have a look at which of those three things might apply to you – then start getting familiar and intimate with your money.

And if you’d like some help with that, I’ll pop the link for the Magnetic Money ®️ System Bootcamp below. It will help you set up a money system that’s tailored for you and is simple to manage so you can have money confidence that shifts your mindset and the way you feel about money.

Remember: Start taking loving care of your money and your money will start taking care of you.

Have a fabulous day!

xx Miriam 

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SAVE $72k per year – 32 Things I Don’t Buy Anymore

SAVE $72k per year – 32 Things I Don’t Buy Anymore

Want to save $72,000 A YEAR – and get healthier, happier & WEALTHIER in the process?

Here is a list of 32 things I don’t buy anymore that most people think are necessary.

But I never miss any of them – and they basically add up to an entire salary!

 

It’s the things I don’t buy anymore that have allowed us to create financial stability & independence – giving us freedom of choice and even improving our health & wellbeing.

 

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Note these are OUR figures based on what we used to spend – or would spend – versus what we ACTUALLY spend. And these are also our choices based on our values & lifestyle preferences.

Your choices & savings will differ, but I know that within this list you’ll find loads of inspiration to help you make some significant savings in your life.

Because all those small daily choices really add up!


And we’ve been conditioned by society & the media into thinking that MORE stuff will help us feel richer – that we need it to make us happy.

But less is more! More freedom, more choices, less stress & responsibility.

And be sure to use your savings wisely so that money can go to work for you!
If you’re not sure how to do that, join the Magnetic Money®️ Management Bootcamp where we help you do that.

Ok, it’s a big list, so let’s get into it!

In order of money saved:

 

1. Roaming Data

Instead of paying for roaming data while traveling, get a local data only SIM card while overseas and tell family and friends you’ll stay in touch via Viber, Whatsapp or Messenger.

Annual saving: $440

 

2. Household Cleaning Products

 

We run a chemical free home which is not only better for our health and the environment, but also saves us loads of money!

 

Annual saving: $480

 

3. High Heels

They look pretty, so for years I was still buying them, even though I rarely wore them. So I stopped.

 

Annual saving: $600

 

4. Perfume & Cologne

We used to be fairly heavy users, but once I realised how toxic they actually are, we traded our designer smells for simple deodorant & essential oils.

Annual saving: $940

 

5. Private Hospital Cover

In Australia, we are blessed with a fabulous public hospital system (to which my ample tax bill contributes each year).

And since even with private cover, there is usually still a significant gap to pay, we opt to only have private extras cover (for dental, optical, chiropractic, massage etc) and invest in preventative health care instead.

Annual saving: $960 (plus the saved gap payments)

 

6. Orthotic Shoes

Yes, we’re at that stage of life where supportive shoes are important.

But attractive orthotic shoes are incredibly pricey.

So I now choose to continue to buy more affordable shoes as I always have – usually at end of season sales – and simply buy up a size to fit my orthotic inner soles.

Annual saving: $1,000

 

7. Designer Handbags

My handbags are purely utilitarian & very well used, so spending thousands (or even several hundred dollars) on a single bag is just wasteful to me.

Yes, a Chanel bag can be an investment – but not when you trash it!

 

I like to hunt for quality 2nd handbags in Thrift & Second Hand Stores or buy them on sale.

Annual saving: $1,000

 

 

8. Books

I read about 1 book per week (where are my fellow crime fiction addicts?) but I spend ZERO money on them!

Instead, I use those neighbourhood book exchange boxes and help save trees as well.

 

Annual saving: $1,000

 

 

9. Christmas presents for family & friends

We all used to all buy each other Christmas gifts – then have to try and find time to exchange them!

One year, we just stopped – and nobody has ever complained!

Annual saving: $1,000

 

 

10. Smart TVs & electronic gadgets

We only own 1 ‘dumb’ TV and use an inexpensive ChromeCast dongle with it. 

 

Annual saving: $1,000

 

 

11. Weekly Lottery Tickets

Although Martin still likes to buy these, I don’t (although if he does win, he’s still promised to share). I prefer to use the savings to invest in my business, health or well-being & invest in an equities fund to grow my wealth.

 

Annual saving: $1,000

 

 

12. Alcohol

I stopped drinking several years ago after a Shaman in Bali confirmed what I’d suspected (& ignored) for years. Alcohol did not agree with my constitution & dimmed my energy.

I recently started drinking a little again & quickly stopped again when I noticed how tired it makes me.

 

Annual saving: $1,040 


13. Brand New Cars

New cars depreciate by approx 15% the moment you drive them home. So even if you only spend $40,000 on a new car, that’s an instant loss of $6,000! Most people upgrade cars every 5 years, so:

 

Annual saving: $1,200

 

14. Streaming Services

There are so many of these, it’s hard to keep up!

Most people have several of these – but we choose to have only Netflix, which is quite

inexpensive (and we’ll still never get time to watch everything we’d like to!)

 

Annual saving: $1,260

 

15. Mobile Phone Plan

 

By switching to an alternative phone plan provider (Boost mobile rather than Telstra) we still enjoy exactly the same network coverage at a tiny fraction of the cost!

Annual saving: $1,560

 

16. New Mobile Phones

 

There’s always a lot of hype about the latest & greatest mobile phone… and they’re being released faster than the latest Hollywood gossip.

I choose to take great care of my phone & keep it for years. At the moment, I still have my Samsung Galaxy S9, which is now almost 5 years old. And it does everything I need!

And when it’s time to upgrade, I will buy a refurbished phone that comes with a 3 year warranty for a fraction of its original cost.

Annual saving: $1,780

 

17. Hair Salons

 

Leaving behind the trendy inner suburbs & city salons for a local neighbourhood one as well as choosing to go just a little less often has made a massive impact on the cost!

Annual saving: $1,792

 

18. Partner Gifts 

 

Martin & I generally do not give each other gifts for anniversaries, Valentine’s Day, Birthdays & Christmas.

We’ll usually celebrate by going out to dinner (which is part of our usual spending plan anyway) and we buy things as we need and want them, rather than buying an extra gift ‘just because’


Annual saving: $1,800

 

19. Soft Drinks & Beer

 

We do crave those thirst-quenching drinks, but I now substitute with home-made Kombucha, which costs next to nothing and is way better for our health.


Annual saving: $1,896

 

20. Magazines & Subscriptions

 

With everything being available in digital form, it was pretty easy to give up the magazine habit. We also look to limit other subscriptions (Audible etc) to only what we actually use)


Annual saving: $1,920

 

21. Kitchenware

 

Tableware, pots & crockery can be extremely tempting to spend loads of money on. The trick is to avoid all those beautifully styled shops and their temptations & to buy simple white plates and plain glasses from places like K-Mart, Target & Ikead instead.

The bonus is that even if you break a few, the old will still match the new!


Annual saving: $2,000

 

22. High End Skincare & Make-up

Again, my tip to you is to avoid those shops.

I buy all my make-up at the chemist (drugstore) & choose to buy non toxic skincare which is also way more affordable than the glamour brands with all their heavy marketing (which is mostly what you end up paying for)

 

Annual saving: $2,100

 

23. Second Family Car

 

Several years ago we made one of the BEST decisions ever & replaced the second car with a $1,600 Piaggio scooter.

It is so much fun to ride and it only costs $10 to fill the tank!
It’s also much more cost effective on registration and insurance and kinder to the environment.


Annual saving: $2,495

 

24. Sound System

 

Although we talked about it for years, we never found the need to get an expensive sound system for our home. We use portable bluetooth speakers that we can carry with us & take on holiday. Simple, easy & cheap!


Annual saving: $2,500

 

25. Small Kitchen Appliances

Thermomixes. slow cookers, breadmakers, dehydraters, blenders, choppers, beaters, mixers – we have NONE of them. (actually, I do have an old hand mixer, that’s it!)

I prefer to keep things simple, not clutter up my cupboards & be kinder to my bank account.


Annual saving: $2,500

 

26. Coffee Pods

This was actually largely an environmental choice, so I’m quite surprised at the savings!
Rather than buying coffee pods, we buy beans & grind them at home.


Annual saving: $2,860

 

27. Holiday Resorts

I enjoy staying in a resort about as much as I enjoy spending time in a shopping centre. Negative 1,000!

To me it feels like you could be anywhere. So instead, I prefer to rent a BnB from a local & immerse myself in the local culture.


Annual saving: $3,000

 

28. Home Decor

This is another one of those ‘out of sight, out of mind’ things. I used to LOVE browsing through homeware stores, but inadvertently came home with yet another knick knack, decor item, wall hanging or vase.

I include lighting in this category. Rather than going to lighting stores, I now visit Ikea or Freedom Furniture when we need new lights. And the savings are significant!


Annual saving: $3,000

 

29. Furniture

Again, if you take me to a beautiful designer furniture store, I will end up wanting to buy the latest funky modular couch or a new sideboard for the hallway.

So I choose to avoid them & have embraced the joy of buying furniture second hand or at auction. I still have my coffee table made of pallet wood (that I bought when I was flat broke) and my Oak Dining table I got for $100 at the local auction house.

I love the personality of these pieces and the fact they are part of my story. They have  a beautiful soul and energy and I couldn’t bear to part with them for something that

s only just come out of a factory.


Annual saving: $5,000

 

30. Fine Dining

We love eating out a couple of times a month, but rather than frequenting the latest trendy restaurants, we seek ‘Tasty AF’ super authentic & simple super little eateries.

This also replaces take-out and actually saves us money and is a whole lot more fun.

We still enjoy fine dining at our favorite places but save it for special occasions.

 

 

Annual saving: $5,000

 

31. Clothes

The clothing industry & fast fashion are wrought with so many issues – from cheating massive amounts of landfill to the environmental impact from use of materials to the exploitation of labour forces.

I’m a big believer in circular fashion and love to hunt for treasure at my favorite Thrift and Second Hand stores.

But even here, overconsumption can be an issue and I currently have way too many pieces in my wardrobe. So for 2023, I’ve set myself a ‘no buy’ challenge. Wish me luck!

Annual saving: $5,400

 

32. Personal Trainers

This one shocked me as I expected it to appear somewhere in the middle of the pack.

We choose to attend group PT sessions rather than having private ones – and we ‘pay as we go’ (ie, we don’t have gym memberships)

The savings, based on just 2 sessions per week for the 2 of us, is astounding!

Annual saving: $12.320

 

 

So there you have it!

Which of these has inspired you?

Let me know below – where will you save more money & spend more mindfully?

Remember that the next step is using those savings WISELY.
If you need help with that, thenMagnetic Money®️ Management Bootcamp is for you!

Have an awesome day!!

xx Miriam

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Got a money guilt complex? Read This!

Got a money guilt complex? Read This!

Do you find yourself at dinner with friends and feel like you’re the only one worrying about the bill?

Do you enviously see other women booking into spa days … while you’re squeezing the last bit of face cream out of a tube you bought 2 years ago?

Or maybe you LOVE to spend money – as long as it’s on OTHERS & not on you..?

No matter how it shows up, a money guilt complex is no fun.

But although it can feel really isolating, I want you to know:

You are NOT alone!

Here’s how others have described it:

I feel bad just for wanting to spend money on makeup and look after myself.

I happily invest in the stock market, but I’m too afraid to spend any cash on myself. 

I’ve been frugal for years and just realized what an unhealthy relationship I have with money.

I had a bad experience with money in the past. And even though I’m financially okay now, I’m still afraid to spend.

I’m afraid to buy a designer handbag I’ve been saving for – but meanwhile, I bought six other bags and spent more money in the process!

These are common stories. …  Always saving for the next thing. Afraid to spend money… not knowing why.

In this episode, we’ll give you some insight into what causes this – so you can change it.
And I’ll share my favorite HACK to liberate you from money guilt FAST.

But first – let’s talk about where this guilt complex & fear of spending comes from.

 

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Let’s talk about the power of stories:

Stories are powerful. Humans have shared information through stories since the dawn of time.
And stories are HYPNOTIC! We hypnotise each other (& ourselves) with the stories we tell.

But do you remember some of the stupid stories your parents told you as a kid?
I noticed a lot of them were about our eyes:

  • Reading in the dark is bad for your eyes.
  • Sitting too close to the TV is bad for your eyes. 
  • If you don’t eat your carrots, it’s bad for your eyes
  • If you cross your eyes, they might get stuck like that. 
  • And if you keep your eyes open while sneezing, your eyeballs might pop out. 

A rather disproportionate level of concern for the welfare of our eyes, I think…..

And there’s more:

  • Cracking your knuckles will give you arthritis. 
  • Swallowed gum takes seven years to digest. 
  • Swim after eating & you’ll drown. (I would’ve drowned so many times by now!)
  • Swallow watermelon seeds and one will grow in your stomach. 

And of course everybody’s favorite:  Santa knows if you’ve been naughty or nice!

You’ll notice these stories are about trying to control our behaviour through fear.

As children, we believed them and fell in line. As we grew up, we realized they were just stories and not true.

But ask yourself:
“If I still believed those stories I was told as a kid, what would my life be like?”

Stories are powerful and hypnotic. And what’s even more powerful is the UNCONSCIOUS STORIES we pick up through what we hear, see & experience.

If we see our parents stressed and worried about money, constantly tired from working too hard, we tell ourselves a story and we start to believe it.

You take on unconscious stories about your parents’ experiences… or YOUR PERCEPTION of their experience.

So your job is to make sense of what’s true and what’s not true – what’s resourceful and what’s not resourceful – what’s going to help you in life – and what’s going to hinder and hold you back.

If your parents told you there’s monsters under the bed, will you let it ruin your sleep for the rest of your life?

As we start to recognize the stories that our parents told us, it’s important to bring a sense of compassion.

Because they were mostly trying to keep us safe. They passed on stories they believed or that were based on their experience. They meant well and they were trapped in their own stories.

When you recognize that it was just THEIR story, you can liberate yourself and decide to tell a new story.

Take a minute and think about some of the money stories your parents told you – or that you took on based on what you saw or heard.

  • What did you OBSERVE your parents do? 
  • How did you HEAR your parents say about money?
  • And what did TELL YOU about money?

Here are some MONEY STORIES I was told:

Do you think we’re rich?
Money doesn’t grow on trees.
You’ve gotta have money to make money.
Must be nice for rich people.
I wonder what they did to get THAT?? <insert suspicious look>

As you look at the  things your parents told you about money, you’ll recognize THEIR fear, THEIR guilt.

Maybe they told you not to be too greedy because when you asked for something, it triggered their fear and lack mentality. Maybe they felt bad for not being able to provide it and just wanted to make you stop asking, so they told you “Don’t be greedy!”

So none of it is REALLY about the money… it’s mostly about feeling safe!

This is why compassion and forgiveness will heal your old money stories – yours and theirs. 

But there’s more to it than just ditching money guilt & feeling ok about spending money on yourself.

Because not only do these old money stories make you feel bad and stop you from spending money that you’d really like to spend…

They also BLOCK your flow of abundance!

Because if you believe that money’s bad and that it’s not okay to want more, you will unconsciously block money from flowing to you.

But it gets worse, because:
If you stop money from flowing OUT, you’re also blocking more money from flowing IN!

Just like blocking the OUTLET of a hose stops more from flowing through the INLET, by being unwilling to spend money, you’re blocking more from flowing to you.

Which means you need to expand your comfort zone around spending money.

An easy way is to use token gestures:

Next time you go shopping, don’t compare which toilet paper is cheaper – just buy the one you want.
Go to the deli counter and buy the cheese you like – not the one on sale.

Little token gestures like this make a HUGE difference because they disrupt neural pathways.
Token gestures help you start to create a new story and expand your comfort zone around abundance.
They challenge old stories, which starts to break them down.

This is a muscle you need to exercise.

A great place to start is to decide what you want your new story to be.

If you were telling a story about money & abundance to your child, what would you want to say?

What story would you want them to take forward through life?

Gift yourself that saME story!

Tell yourself a story that’ll EMPOWER YOU, that opens you up to possibilities and makes you feel more abundant – right here, right now. 

Because YOU get to choose your story!

Here’s a hack that will help you wire that new story in faster:

Look for EVIDENCE of the new story being true!

The more you look, the more you’ll find. And that will help reinforce the new story and wire it in faster & deeper. It will help your conscious & unconscious minds to get on board with the new story faster.

Now of course you still want to save money, right? But WITHOUT feeling guilty…

So it’s important to find a happy balance between being smart with money – and having an abundance mindset. You want to be thrifty, but you want it to feel empowering.
And you want to feel GOOD about spending money on yourself – when you choose to.

That’s what the episodes linked below are all about. So be sure to check those out next.

And in the meantime, find out what your Money Habit Archetype is! You can TAKE THE QUIZ HERE. 

That will help you uncover more of those old money stories.

Enjoy!


xx Miriam

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10 everyday money saving tips that make you feel more abundant

10 everyday money saving tips that make you feel more abundant

It’s time for some show ‘n tell!

In this episode, I share 10 everyday money saving tips – that help you feel totally abundant.

Plus, I share some of my favorite recent purchases and tell you how I got them for an absolute steal!

 

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See, saving money doesn’t have to be about feeling poor and like there’s not enough.
Saving money can be done in a way that feels utterly empowering, helps you create wealth AND makes you magnetic to more!

And as you save money on things you don’t really need to be spending extra on, you have more available to ‘make money babies’, creating financial stability and freedom for yourself and your family.

Back when I was going through my ‘broke single mum’ phase, I had no choice but to save money –  because I didn’t have any. 

There was both good and bad in that. Because on one hand, I felt poor and was totally stressed about money. But on the other hand, it also taught me that you can do with very little money pretty much the same things you can do with A LOT of money! 

In a recent episode, I talked about bargain shopping with an abundance mindset (you’ll find the link below). Because at the end of the day, what’s important is not so much what you do. What’s important is how you FEEL about what you do.

If you bargain shop from a place of excitement and empowerment about saving money so you can accelerate your wealth creation, it cultivates an abundance mindset.

It feels empowering to take charge of your financial destiny like that.

Plus, bargain shopping is a whole lot of fun! 

OK, let’s get into these 10 tips. These are not necessarily my top 10, but they’re 10 wide-ranging tips that are super easy to implement.

TIP NUMBER 1:
Capsule shopping list

Let’s start at the grocery store. Firstly, always have a list – obviously. Make that list based on the meals you’re planning to make. The trick here is to make those as MODULAR as possible. 

 

You know how we have capsule wardrobes? Think about having a capsule shopping list! So if you say, buy broccoli, plan to use some of it in a stir fry and the rest steamed on the side of some fish.

So you’re buying the one thing, but you’re planning to make more than one meal with it. This is awesome for avoiding leftovers and waste.

An extra little bonus tip is to shop and plan for one meal LESS than you think you need. Because there are always some leftovers and sometimes it’ll just end up being takeout night.

TIP NUMBER 2:

Keep it basic, then glam it up!

 

Let’s move on to your wardrobe. Stick to buying good quality, basic pieces. Then dress them up and accessorize them with things that you buy recycled and secondhand!


For example, I’m very much a top and jeans kind of girl. And I love jackets. I have A LOT of jackets! And you might look at my wardrobe and think, “Oh my God, woman, how many jackets does one person need?” But the thing is, that I can just wear a plain tee-shirt or top with my jeans and swap out my jackets for a whole variety of different looks.

Same goes for jewelry and handbags (which I also like to buy recycled where possible)

In the video of this episode, I do a little show’n tell, sharing my favorite recent purchases, so be sure to watch it!

I share some of my favorite coats, leather jackets, and handbags, which only cost me a few hundred bucks and allow me to create a bunch of different outfits.
And sometimes, I’ll sell my handbags when it’s time for a change.. which is why it’s so important to buy quality and take good care of things.


Less really is more – as long as you absolutely love and adore every single piece. And if you also make them modular and keep things simple, you end up being able to dress in really abundant, luxurious feeling ways, for very little money.

TIP NUMBER 3:

Create space!

I’ve touched on this already and it’s to sell something before you buy something new.

Because we all have enough stuff in our lives, right? So if you decide you need something new, get rid of something first. It creates space and shows you have an attitude of abundance. If you can get a few dollars for it, awesome! You can put that money towards your current number 1 financial priority. 😊

TIP NUMBER 4:

Going – going – gone!

As you’ve probably realized, I love thrift and recycled stores. To me, it really is a treasure hunt. It’s fun and exciting and you can really find those statement pieces like jewelry, handbags and coats to make whatever you’re wearing really pop.

It also gives me a deep sense of satisfaction knowing I’m not adding to waste to the planet or contributing to industries that are rife with moral, ethical and environmental issues.

And you can do the same with furniture! In fact, most of the furniture in our home I bought back when I had no money. I went to local auction houses and found things that I liked. I’d leave absentee bids which took away any temptation to spend more money and eliminated the pressure and stress of being at an auction.

 

And I ended up with furniture that we still use and enjoy every single day. I wouldn’t part with it for anything. It’s all great quality and would cost a fortune to replace!


TIP NUMBER 5:

Sell the car!

We did this. We sold the second car! 

Now, if you still have young kids and are always driving off in different directions, this may not be for you… yet. But once you get past that stage, you really don’t need two cars.

We realized we were paying insurance, registration and maintenance on a vehicle we didn’t really need. So we sold the second car.

We realised that if we had a schedule clash and one of us needed to catch an Uber every now and then, it was still going to be worth it.  But it’s never happened yet!

We did however buy a scooter instead, which we absolutely love because it reminds us of Bali. Anytime the weather’s good, we fight over who gets to ride the scooter.

It’s what I take to my yoga class, or when I head out for a coffee. We don’t really go very far so the scooter is super handy.

On the weekends, if the weather is nice, we both jump on and go for a ride along the beach, grab an ice cream or coffee and pretend we’re in Bali.

TIP NUMBER 6:

Get solar panels!

Then run your electrical equipment during the day! You’ll use the power of the sun to run your home, your electricity bill will be next to nothing – and you’ll have spent that money adding value to your home instead.


TIP NUMBER 7:
Shop around and review your basic home bills.

I’m talking about your phone bill, internet, insurances and all those basic home bills we tend to kind of forget about.

Because you know what? Chances are you’re paying way too much. Remember how back when you signed up for them, you shopped around to make sure you got a good deal? Do that again! Review them each year..

If you can’t be bothered doing it yourself, pay someone else to do it! There are services who are impartial and will guarantee to save you money. Every time I’ve done a review of our basic home bills, I’ve saved at least a thousand dollars – which is pretty cool.


TIP NUMBER 8:

Review your rates!

Be sure to regularly review the interest rate on your mortgages (as well as any other loans and debts you have). 

When we operated our mortgage broking business, this was standard practice. We reviewed every single customer’s loans every year. We didn’t wait for them to call us and ask for this. We just did it.

It was awesome to send out emails saying, “Hey, we just saved you a few thousand dollars a year! ”

If you have a broker, that’s their job. And if you don’t have a broker, please find a good broker. Don’t go directly to the bank. Their job is to sell you what they’ve got, not what their competitor has.


OK, intermission time…


Let me know in the comments below:
What are your favorite tips for saving money? 

I’d love to hear them!

 

TIP NUMBER 9:

This is a really fun one! Look for relocation deals on motorhomes and campervans. 


Martin and I have done this several times where we drove a motorhome that needed to be moved from Alice Springs to Adelaide. You literally get paid to drive the motorhome, rather than paying to rent it.

You get to see different places without having to pay for accommodation. You get to be on the road, build fires at night and camp in unusual locations. It’s so much fun!

My favorite site for this is www.imoover.com so go check it out!

There’s cars, motorhomes and campervans available. And often you can hire the vehicle for a couple of extra days at a reduced rate. That way, you can make your trip a little more leisurely rather than rush from A to B.

Plus of course, the benefit of a motorhome is that you have a traveling kitchen and bathroom with you. You can stock up at the supermarket and make really simple, easy meals to enjoy by the campfire at night.

It’s a lovely way to get away.

 

TIP NUMBER 10: 

Here’s another travel one!

Look for house swaps or house-sits! There are websites and apps dedicated to this. Or you can ask friends if they know anybody who would like to do a house swap.

There are always people looking to have somebody look after their pets, water their pot plants, etc while they’re away.

It’s a great way to stay in a comfortable home and avoid paying for accommodation.


BONUS TIP!

A little bonus tip… Going back to meals and meal prep for a moment.

When you cook at night, make enough to cover lunch the next day. It avoids having to make something else for lunch or buying lunch.

I find the easiest thing is to just put that extra serve aside as you’re plating up dinner. In our house, everyone works from home in their track pants, but if you have someone in your home who actually gets dressed and leaves the house for work, they will ESPECIALLY love you for having their lunch ready like this.

Ok, that’s it for today’s episode. Did you enjoy it? What was your favorite tip? Let me know below, please!

When you save money in a way that makes you feel abundant and empowered, it makes you magnetic to more.

And when you’re saving money, you can reduce your debts, accumulate savings, invest and grow your wealth so much faster.

And all of that helps you create a more abundant life, inside & out.

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Emotional Spending – how to stop feeling guilty for spending money

Emotional Spending – how to stop feeling guilty for spending money

Today I’m giving you my top tips for avoiding the guilt of retail therapy


We’ll help you stop emotional spending so you can stop feeling guilty for spending money on yourself – and make better purchase decisions.


When it comes to retail therapy, I definitely tend to do more of it when it’s the last thing I should be doing. It’s usually either financially not a great time to eb spending up – or there’s something else going on that I should be focusing on instead.

Because more often than not, retail therapy is just a distraction.

That’s why today I’m giving you some practical tips to avoid unnecessary retail therapy and the subsequent guilt that comes from it. You’ll also get some practical tips to help you make better purchase decisions so the things you buy are what you actually need, want and can afford!

 

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Looking back, it’s pretty obvious that the times I was doing the most unnecessary spending were also the times I was feeling the least happy and fulfilled.

The shopping was just a distraction, an escape mechanism.

It’s not really therapy!

We call it ‘retail therapy’, except it’s not actually therapy. It only gives you a temporary high – and then you’re left dealing with the bill and the guilt afterwards. And that makes you feel even worse!

So let me give you some practical tips to help you avoid getting into that pickle in the first place. Because we want to ensure that when you shop, you do it in a healthy way that makes you feel empowered and great about your choices.

Tip Number 1: Want vs Need:
Before you buy something, ask yourself, “Do I just want this, or do I actually need it?”
Because we say, “I really need this,” when we actually just mean that we really want it.

And it’s okay for you to want things. But the next question to ask is, “WHY do I want it?”
And that can be extremely illuminating!

Some more questions to ask yourself:

“What do I really want? What is it I’m really looking for? Is it validation, feeling more desirable, feeling rewarded or worthy? What am I actually wanting that I think this thing I’m about to buy is going to give me?”

Because if you’re looking for something else altogether, then this purchase is just a band-aid. And when it falls off, you’ll be left with an even bigger sore.

So the question of, “What do I really want? What do I feel is missing?” is very powerful.

The ease of online shopping can make quitting retail therapy pretty tough. Because it’s just too easy! There’s a million apps, free shipping & free returns. It feels like this effortless commodity – except you still wind up with the charges on your credit card!

So Tip Number 2 is: Set a spending limit!
The rule is that anytime you want to spend more than this limit, you need to wait 24 hours before going ahead.

This will give you some breathing space and helps you step away from the emotional state that’s driving that purchase. It helps you make a rational decision you’ll feel good about and consider your choice from outside that emotional space. Then you can decide whether you really need it – or if you just wanted it to try and fill a void.

It gives you space to step away from making an impulse decision based on emotion.

Tip Number 3: Imagine The Future
Another trick that really works for me is to imagine myself in 6 months time. I imagine having that item in my wardrobe or in my home. How do I feel about it now? Do I actually want to use it? Do I enjoy having it?

Example: I’ve been looking to buy some summer dresses. Now, I’m usually more of a jeans and t-shirt kind of girl but decided I’m going to make an effort to dress more feminine.

And as I imagined needing to leave the house wearing one of these dresses in 6 months time, I suddenly realized that none of them were a style that suits me!

So imagining yourself with it in the future is a great little trick – especially when online shopping. Because it looks great on the model when we ‘Click To Buy’. But sadly I’ve come to realise that still doesn’t help me suddenly grow cleavage…

Tip Number 4: Buy a round trip!
Last but not least, a really, really practical tip is to make sure you can get a full refund without having to pay shipping charges in your returns.

And a bonus tip is: When your items arrive, keep those tags on until you’re ready to wear them!

Make a note in your diary so if you haven’t worn it by the final return date, you can have another look at it. And if it’s still sitting in your wardrobe by then, chances are, you will return it. Because if it was perfect and you loves and needed it, you’d have found a way to wear it by then.

Which probably means you  were looking for something else altogether…


Okay, so there you have some really practical tips to:
1. avoid the guilt of retail therapy
2. to actually make some really good empowering purchase decisions


Tell me, WHAT ARE YOUR BEST SHOPPING TIPS?
How do you avoid the guilt of retail therapy?

Share your top tips in the comments below!

I also highly recommend you get your money organized so you know where to find your fun money and how much you can spend guilt-free. It’s a massive help in avoiding emotional spending and the subsequent guilt.

My free workshop “Organize & Tidy Your Banking” will help you get started. You’ll find the link to get instant access below.

 

Enjoy & see you in the next episode!

xx Miriam

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