Why manifesting isn’t working for you – OR IS IT?

Why manifesting isn’t working for you – OR IS IT?

by | Feb 9, 2022 | Law Of Attraction

Been doing ALL – THE – THINGS but your manifesting isn’t working?

Well, I have both good news & bad news.

It’s not that Law of Attraction doesn’t work.
And it’s not that you you’re not a good manifestor.

In fact, you’re an EXCELLENT manifestor… it’s just that you’re doing it backwards.

In this episode, we’re going to break down what’s going on that’s causing it to look like manifesting isn’t working, when in fact it is. It’s just that you’re manifesting the opposite of what you want.

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I’ve worked with 1000s of entrepreneurial women wanting to manifest more abundance and inadvertently, they all make this same mistake. So don’t feel bad – this is really common and one of those things that may seem hard to pick at first – but once you get it, you get it.

In a previous episode, I talked about the 5 Rules of Law of Attraction that make manifesting work. So if you haven’t watched that yet, check it out here. That will help. 

Ok, so here is the crux of the problem:

Most people think they’re focusing on what they want.
And yes, they’re THINKING about what they want.

But when it comes to Law of Attraction, what you’re thinking and what you want don’t really matter.

What matters is where your vibrational focus is is – where your emotions are at.

And when you want something, most of the time you’re actually focused on the fact that it’s NOT here. That’s why you really, really want it. 

So even though you’re thinking about what you want, your emotions are focused on the the LACK of it. That’s WHY you want it! That’s why you’re trying to manifest it. 

I invite you to pause for a moment and have a think about that thing you’ve been wanting to manifest. Has your emotional focus been mostly centred around the fact you don’t have it? Have you been feeling the absence and lack of it? Be really honest with yourself here and let me know in the comments! 

Let’s think about this some more:
You want freedom when you’re feeling trapped on some level.
You want more money when money feels tight on some level.
You want a great new relationship when you don’t currently have one.

See how it works?

So the key is to become a whole lot more self-aware and start lining up the way you feel – your emotional, vibrational state – to match the thing you’re looking to attract – rather than the lack of it.

Think about it like this. If you’re trying to lure some rare bird in, you’ll imitate its mating call.
And the bird will think, “Oh, there’s more of me over there. I think I’ll go join them.”

That’s how you need to approach this! It does take practice, because human nature is to notice what’s missing. That’s how we decide what we want, after all. But when you want to then ATTRACT it, you have to switch that up and become a vibrational match to HAVING IT.

It takes practice and continual self awareness. And somebody saying, “Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, you’re doing it the wrong way around again!” This is why in Magnetic Money, we keep each other accountable. We continually have that conversation to ensure that vibrationally, you’re focusing on what you’re wanting to attract. That you’re matching and imitating that bird call, rather than making some other noise that completely frightens that bird away. 

If money is something you’ve been wanting to attract more of and it’s not been happening, then I invite you to take my free Manifesting Abundance Quick-Fix Training. It’s a quick & simple video training that comes with a checklist of 5 simple tweaks that will help you start attracting more money – rather than be accidentally repelling it.

And if you enjoyed this episode, please let me know in the comments!
And if have some friends who would benefit from it, then share it with them. 

It’s time to embrace your unlimited potential and you are absolutely ready for the next step.

You just need to keep on building that self awareness, making little tweaks and have someone around to keep on reminding you.

See you in the next episode!
xx Miriam

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Law of Attraction Rules for Beginners – 5 things you need to know

by | Feb 2, 2022 | Law Of Attraction

Do you wish you had a rule book on how to make Law of Attraction work?

In this episode, I share the 5 Law of Attraction rules you must know – if you want to make manifesting abundance easier & more consistent

When you understand how it works, how to tap into it and leverage it, life can take on an amazing magical flow where you make it look easy – and others wonder how you do it.. and how you got so ‘lucky’.

But luck has nothing to do with it!

So let’s break it down into really simple terms.

⭐ What makes Law of Attraction work? 

⭐How do you tap into it? 

⭐ How do you leverage it so you can live a more abundant life? 

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When I first discovered The Secret, I did ALL – THE THINGS.
Affirmations, vision boards, writing out my goals – I did it all.

I had some good results… and I had some non-existent results. It was all over the place and I had no idea what was working & what wasn’t working.. or if maybe it was all just blind luck. 

Fast forward a few more years and I started working with one of my heroes and mentors, Mike Dooley. I became a trainer in his Infinite Possibilities program and I learned how Thoughts Become Things. I also studied hypnosis and NLP and studied the mind.

Through all of that, I realized one important thing: 

You don’t have to do all of that stuff! 

Essentially, manifesting becomes very, very simple – once you understand its basic rules.

The students in my Magnetic Money program love the feeling of relief when they realize that they don’t have to do a million things to become magnetic to more abundance.

And in this episode, I’m going to share the 5 basic rules of Law of Attraction with you so your manifesting can get easier too.

Number 1: Everything Is Energy

As you look around your world, everything you see is actually nothing but pure potential.

It’s all energy, particles vibrating at the speed of light. They’re actually NOT here more than they are here. So the world we see is an illusion, things are not really solid.

So without wanting to spin your brain out with quantum physics principles, the bottom line is that everything is energy and everything is vibration.

Everything is just little particles, packets of energy that are vibrating at different frequencies. 

And here comes the very important part of that: You are too! 

Number 2: Like Attracts Like

Within this vibrational Universe, things are magnetizes to one another that are on the same vibrational frequency. That’s the Law of Resonance.

So the interesting thing with that is that the more anything stays on a given frequency, the more it continues to attract and build momentum on that attraction power.

We call that Law of Attraction.

Like attracts like and if you hold that frequency for longer, more and more things start to be attracted and appearing in your reality that match that frequency. 

Number 3: You are Energy with Consciousness

You are energy that is aware of itself. You know who you are, that you exist and you can be aware of your vibration. You can be aware of your energy, and you also have control over it.

And you can change your vibration, you can adjust your frequency. You literally have your finger on the dial. 

Just stop for a moment and consider how powerful that is. Do you consider yourself the creator of your life? Pause for a moment and recognize your power and let me know in the comments below:  “Have you ever thought of yourself that way?” 

Number 4: Everything you want is on a higher vibration

The things you desire – more money, better relationships, better health, more fun in your life – all of those are good feeling things, right? Which is why you want them. 

All of those things are actually on a higher frequency. So given everything else we’ve just talked about, if you want to attract more of those things into your experience, then you need to get on that higher vibing frequency. 

I’ve linked another episode for you below with ideas and help on how to do that, so you can check that out next.

Number 5: Maintaining your Vibe is KEY

This is the big one. Raising your vibration is important because it matches you with the frequency of what you desire. But the key to having manifestations appear more easily is to MAINTAIN your vibration. 

Maintaining your vibration is key, which is why it’s so important that you become self aware and that you get better and better at not only raising your vibration and recognizing where your vibration is at, but at maintaining it there as steadily as you possibly can. 

It’s all about stability, because remember that stability allows Law of Attraction to keep on building momentum and bring you more ideas, more synchronicities, more perfect matches for the outcome that you desire. 

And if you’ve been trying to manifest what you want, but it’s just not happening, then look out for the episode because I’m going to cover that for you and help you do some troubleshooting if you need. 

Now, I bet one of the things that is at the top of the list of things you want to manifest more of is money –  cash – moolah.

The thing with money is that it brings with it a whole lot of other set of complications and challenges. This is why I run a whole group coaching program called Magnetic Money where I literally hold your hand and lead you through a step by step process that allows you to consistently attract more money and build your money confidence. 

But if you’re not yet in Magnetic Money, then I can still give you a little bit of a hand by helping you make some simple tweaks that allow you to align with that vibration of cold hard cash much more easily.

I’ve created a free training the Manifesting Abundance Quick-Fix, and you can grab that by clicking the link below. 

It’s time to embrace your unlimited potential, gorgeous, and you are absolutely ready to take that next step. 

I’ll see you in the next episode!

xx Miriam

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How to manifest business success – while juggling your day job

by | Dec 22, 2021 | 6 Figure Business

Are you still working in your day job while growing your business?

Katie Allen asked a really cool question about this:

“How do you manifest business success when working in your job leaves you feeling exhausted, burnt out and really struggling to tap into that abundance mindset?”

So in this episode, we are going to talk about how to use Law of Attraction to help you make money as quickly as possible so you can build your beautiful new business – while still working in your day job!

And in fact, we’re going to talk about how to take advantage of the fact that you have a day job to turbo boost the whole thing!

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Building a business while you’re still stuck in your day job can feel really hard. You might feel resentful and like you just want to so you can fully immerse yourself in your business. I felt that way when transitioning from my finance business into my coaching business.

At the time, my finance business had become my ‘day job’. I had grown it into an amazing, successful business and it brought in lots of money, but my heart was in my coaching business. That’s what I wanted to build. That’s where I wanted to spend my time. And so I found myself constantly battling against having to show up and spend so much time in the finance business.

It was really tiring and it wore me down.

So eventually I decided to stop struggling. I looked at the energetics of what was going on and took it back to basics. And I made a few tweaks that completely shifted that energy which allowed me to not just show up more in my new business without feeling tired and worn out – it also allowed that business to take off and become successful a whole lot faster! This meant I could leave the finance business sooner and hand my clients over to my wonderful husband, leaving me free to build my coaching business full time.

Here are some basic principles that will help you manifest business success and leave that day job faster:

The first thing to remember is: What You Resist, Persist!

The more you struggle against the day job, against not wanting to be there, feeling resentful of the time you’re having to put into it and the energy it’s zapping from you, the worse it’s going to get!

You will only exacerbate that problem and feel more drained and resentful. So you need to let go of that and stop resisting what is, which is what will make space for ‘what is yet to come’.

Next: Surrender allows new doors to open.

Surrender yourself to accepting that this is how it is right now. You may need to go a little bit slower. Some days you won’t be able to work on your business. 

The more you allow yourself to go with the flow of that, the more that energy actually relaxes and allows new doors to open. That allows new opportunities to come to you, because you’re no longer wrapping up all your energy in the struggle against what is. You’re allowing things to unfold and flow where life naturally wants to go next. And that allows the Universe to do its magic, put you in the right place at the right time and have the perfect conversations that ultimately help you grow your business even faster. 

Because who knows what amazing people you’ll meet through your day job that end up being the perfect catalyst to help you succeed in your business?

The more you just surrender into it and enjoy where you are right now, the more you allow the magic to unfold.

Sometimes in the Magnetic Money Club, a member will say, “Look, I’ve decided I’m going to take a part-time job as I build my business.” People used to feel embarrassed or like they’re failing, but my reaction is always to CELEBRATE because that job plays an important role in allowing your business to grow without all the pressure of having to make money instantly. It allows you to find your way, to figure it out, to let things find their way. The day job takes the pressure off your business and that allows the magic to flow.

If you’re still in a day job while building your business, tell me in the comments:
What are 3 things you love about your day job that you can be really grateful for?

The more you tap into that and express gratitude for all your day job gives you, the more you allow that energy to shift.

Remember also that the one thing that will support your alignment more than anything else, is getting enough rest. So be okay with going slow and get lots of rest because that allows you to be in alignment. And your  alignment is worth more than any amount of hard work you could put in.  

You can never work your way out of poor alignment. 

So you may as well take a rest, have a nap, go to bed early, take a day off and get back in alignment. The power of that alignment will make up for any missed time. 

Time is irrelevant when you work with the power of alignment. 

Let me share a quick story:

One of our Magnetic Money members works full-time while running her business. She took a new job she thought was going to free her up more, but didn’t realise she’d have to travel to and from the office. This meant she was out of the house from 7am until 7pm each day! There was no time and energy left for her business. She was quite distraught. We had a conversation and I said, “Look, it’s okay. Right now you’re in a transition period. Get  your head around a new job and settle in. Your business will still be there for you. Just look after yourself for now and love everything you can about this new job. And you’ll see… the energy will shift and things will find their way.”

Well, about 2-3 months went by. She felt terrible because she had all wanted to achieve all these things in her business. But she surrendered. And once she found her feet in her new job, things started to shift. She suddenly had freedom to work from home and a lot more flexibility. She found that beautiful place of alignment again and within a few months, she’d achieved more in her business than she’d hoped to all year. By surrendering and letting go, relaxing into & accepting what is, she’d allowed herself to get back into alignment. And she made up for all the ‘lost time’ in next to no time.

What she achieved in the next few months in her business was really quite staggering – and actually more than many others who are full time in their business.

So remember: Time Is Irrelevant – Alignment Trumps Everything.

Your mindset is going to be one of your most critical assets in getting you through any transition periods. So make sure you check out the episodes linked below, because they will really help you with sorting out some of the main mindset blocks that tend to slow entrepreneurs down.

It’s time to embrace your unlimited potential and you are SO ready to take that next step!

See you in the next episode!

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Are your money affirmations not working? Here’s why… and a much better alternative

Are your money affirmations not working? Here’s why… and a much better alternative

by | Dec 16, 2021 | Money Manifesting

If your money affirmations are not working, here’s why:

Affirmations don’t work!

Certainly not the way most people use them.

If you’ve been using affirmations for a while, and realize they aren’t working – or maybe they’ve worked for you sometimes, but not others – and you wonder why the heck that is, then this episode is for you!  

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I’ll explain why your money affirmations aren’t working and I’ll give you a much easier alternative that does work.

First off – let me be really upfront here.
I used to recite affirmations.. A LOT!

When I first watched The Secret and discovered the power of my mind, I did ALL the things. And that included reciting affirmations from dusk till dawn.

But they didn’t work. None of those wonderful things I was saying happened.

Instead, it started feeling heavier & heavier and quite demoralizing. My affirmations were actually a constant reminder of how miserably I’d failed at manifesting what I wanted!

Only years later, when I studied hypnosis and discovered how the mind works, I understood what the problem was!

And I came up with something much, much better. A simple hack that is an alternative to affirmations – and that really does work. And no.. it’s NOT afformations (although they’re pretty cool too).

Fundamentally, here;s why affirmations don’t work:

You’re trying to convince yourself of something that you don’t believe!
Funny – huh? But isn’t that kind of the whole point, you say?

But the thing is, you cannot bullshit the Universe. If you don’t really believe it, then you’re never going to be in alignment with it. So it’s nix on the manifestation.

When you’re trying to convince yourself of something that you don’t believe, you’re also building up resistance. And that resistance is a much louder signal than your little “I am so abundant – money flows to me easily” affirmation you’re trying to get out.

And you can forget about willpower. That doesn’t work either!

Here’s a quick demo of why willpower is futile:
I’m simply going to tell you to NOT think about a pink elephant. What I want you to do right now is think about anything you want – EXCEPT a pink elephant. Anything else is fine.. just NOT the pink elephant!

I don’t want you to imagine it. I don’t want you to think about where it might live or what it might eat or how it might roll in the mud or anything to do with that pink elephant. It’s off limits, And don’t even worry about what shade of pink it might be. Do NOT see that pink elephant in your mind right now.

So… watcha thinkin’ about right now?? That’s right, a pink elephant!

That’s because the mind does not hear the word ‘No’. So when I tell you NOT to think about a pink elephant, you think about the pink elephant. This is why willpower does not work.

Let’s dig a little deeper into why affirmations don’t work. This will help you understand why the hack I’m going to share with you is so damn powerful.

NUMBER 1:

The first reason is that usually, it’s way too much of a stretch. 

Most people use affirmations when they’re up the creek without a paddle, and desperately want to change their situation. So the affirmation they’re reciting is the complete opposite of where they’re at. And that’s just basically too big a stretch. The mind cannot go there. So straight away, you are blowing yourself out of the water.


NUMBER 2:

The second reason that affirmations don’t work for most people is because they’re actually not practicing them often enough!

The truth is that affirmations will eventually work. They can reprogram your mind.. BUT…
It takes a looooong time and a lot of reciting. And most people don’t do it anywhere near often enough – so they’re not brainwashing themselves in the way that affirmations are designed to. (they’re just kind of giving their mind a little spit & polish every now & then…)

This is the biggest problem with affirmations. They do work, but it’s a lot of work to make them work.

NUMBER 3:

The main reason affirmations don’t work is that you’re saying all this stuff, but you don’t actually EXPECT it to happen. 

Because you don’t really expect it, your vibration never lines up with it. And when you’re not a vibrational match to it, you cannot possibly attract it .

So, I really want to share with you my awesome hack that absolutely works and is a fantastic alternative to affirmations. That’s because it works WITH the way your mind naturally operates – rather than trying to battle against it. (remember that willpower thing..?)

But before we talk about that, please tell me in the comments: 

Whenever you’ve recited affirmations, did you notice the voice of doubt in the back of your head?

Because I know I heard that voice of doubt every single time … and I did my best to ignore it.
A lot of time passed before I realized that there was a much better way. 

Okay. Let’s do this… Let’s talk about the alternative to affirmations that actually works.
This is actually something I teach my Magnetic Money students and that we practice and build on in the program.

It’s an Evidence Mantra.

At first glance, it may sound like an affirmation, but there’s a really HUGE difference.
That’s because you only use your evidence mantra when something is ACTUALLY happening that you want to affirm. You kind of use it as a highlighting statement to point that thing out to your mind.

Example:
Say you just had an awesome new VIP client book to work with you. And it was really easy. That’s when you want to use your evidence mantra!

You want to have your own, personal evidence mantra, that feels really natural and easy for you. Everybody will have their own because guess what? There is no formula for you!

So my evidence mantra is really simple. It’s “That’s right. Everything is always working out for me!”

See, everything is always working out for me and no part of me can argue with that.

And you never use it as an affirmation to try and talk yourself off the ledge when things go wrong.
You use it in the moment when something really cool has happened and things ARE working out!

It’s actually AFFIRMING REALITY! It’s reminding you that “Yes, things are always working out!” The evidence is right in front of you. Your mind cannot argue with that.

It then starts to reprogram your reticular activating system (RAS) – think of it like a switch between your conscious and unconscious mind, that brings things into your awareness.

It reprograms your RAS to be on the look-out for even more things that are working out for you. 

And so with an evidence mantra you affirm to yourself that everything’s always working out for you,
AND you’re also programming your unconscious mind to be on the lookout for more,
AND bring that into your conscious awareness!

And this process will then build and build. You’re literally reprogramming and reconditioning your mind to start seeing all the abundance, all the opportunities.

Because they were always there and available. But now they’re being highlighted and brought to the surface for you so you can fully appreciate and enjoy them.

And THAT is what helps you attract even more!

I’ll link some other episodes with tips on how to attract more abundance into your beautiful business below, so be sure to check those out.

And when it comes to manifesting money in particular, people do tend to screw up a few things that inadvertently repel money rather than attract it.

If you want to find out what they are – and make sure you don’t fall into those traps, then grab yourself the Manifesting Abundance Quick-Fix.

It’s free and you can grab it at the link below.

That’s it for today, gorgeous.

Remember it’s time to embrace your unlimited potential – and you are absolutely ready to take the next step.

See you in the next episode!

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3 top tips on how to get into a high vibration – when the world’s gone nuts!

3 top tips on how to get into a high vibration – when the world’s gone nuts!

by | Dec 8, 2021 | Raise Your Vibration

​It seems like the whole world’s gone nuts the past couple of years, don’t you think?

I think in many ways, 2021 has been a lot more challenging than 2020. People are being really vocal and many are being less than kind to each other.

So how on earth do you manage to get on a high vibration and stay there, when it feels like the whole world’s trying to drag you down?



In this episode, I give you my 3 top tips on how to get in a high vibration – and stay there – even the world’s gone nuts.

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I think 2021 was a whole lot more challenging than 2020.

In 2020 we were all in it together. We felt like we needed to band together so we could get through it together. There was a sense of comradery among all humankind.

We started really celebrating all the hidden benefits – the earth was regenerating, smog was clearing, families were coming together, people played with their children in the park and all that sort of stuff.

We talked about the big reset and started enjoying getting a bit of a break where life slowed down. It was like a spiritual awakening for all of humanity.

But in 2021 we started arguing.. about almost everything. Arguing about the best way to move forward, whether to be jabbed or not to be, what was true, what was fake, what was exaggerated and what was being underestimated. Conspiracy theories exploded and people divided into groups.

My theory is that everybody is equally desperate to get ‘back to normal’. And whatever they decided was the best way to get us there is the position they took and dug their heels on. There are people all over the globe, now sitting on hills they’re willing to die on.

And conversations have been fueled by fear rather than compassion.

For myself personally, 2021 has been extra challenging as my husband and I headed on a cancer journey. My own vibration and mental health were really starting to slide at one stage, so I needed to dig deep, get proactive and figure things out.

The great news is that I didn’t need to do anything overly complicated, difficult, or new. I just needed to get back to basics. And that’s what I’m going to share with you today.

So here are my top 3 tips on how to get into a high vibration – and stay there – ESPECIALLY when it feels like the world is trying to drag you down.

Tip #1:

The first tip is to put yourself on a media ban. 

This is actually something that I’ve been advocating and practising for about 15 years – long before the current crisis came along. But this is a more important time than ever because the media loves a story that propagates fear on any day – and at the moment there’s more than ample material!

And if you consider for a moment that Law of Attraction is really just another word for ‘momentum’ – when you keep on fueling the same fear over & over and over again… that is a LOT Of momentum building up!

It’s a totally different proposition from having a variety of fears in series..  this is the same fear being fueled and accelerated again & again.

The truth is… you already know pretty much everything you need to know. So stop!

Stop watching the evening news, consuming news bulletins and subscribing to a million YouTube channels. Just stop. Give yourself a break and step away from the constant feeding and fueling of the fear.

This will allow your vibration to go back to its natural high vibing state. Because that is your natural, normal state.
It’s only when we suppress it, because we start worrying, paying attention to things that are outside of our control and give in to fear, that we suppress this natural, good feeling state.

But once you let go of all of that and just give yourself a break, your vibration naturally will bounce back up.

So go on a media ban. It’s one of the best things you can do for yourself.

Tip #2:

The second tip is something Martin and I did when we realized that we were going on a cancer journey.  

We went into ‘information lockdown’.

We informed ourselves, got all the information we needed & wanted, decided where we would stand on and how we wanted to proceed. 

Then we announced to people that, “Hey, guess what? This is what’s happening” And added, “But please, we don’t need any information. We are in information lockdown. We welcome your love and best wishes, but please no treatment protocol suggestions & no cancer stories!”

See, everybody’s got a story and a bunch of suggestions. And although people are well-meaning, the problem is that when you have this coming at you from dozens and dozens of them, it can get overwhelming, confusing and really get you down.

So we said, “Look, here’s our news, but we are in information lockdown. Please respect that.” 

And they did! It was such a relief and we were so grateful.

And you can do the same!

Decide how you feel, what you want to do & where you stand – wherever that may be.  And then simply say, “Listen, I don’t want to talk about it. You have your opinion and I have my opinion – whatever that is & whatever yours is. So let’s talk about something else, because there are other, more inspiring things we can talk about.”

This is going to help protect you from the constant bombardment of everyone’s opinions and the forwarding of ‘helpful & important information’. (It might also be a good time to kind of unfollow a few people on Facebook… just saying).

There’s one more thing I want to quickly slip in here for you. It’s a mantra Martin and I took on that we choose to BE INFORMED, NOT ALARMED.

We informed ourselves and then we said, “Okay, we’re good now, thank you very much. We don’t need to keep being bombarded with more information or bombarding ourselves with more information and push ourselves beyond being informed into a state of fear and alarm.“

And you can do the same! Whether you’re navigating a cancer journey, a world wide health crisis, or any other challenge in life. It’s going to go a very long way towards helping you stay in that beautiful high vibrational place.

By the way – I’d love you to share with me in the comments what strategies you employ. What helps you stay in a high vibrational state when the world is trying to drag you down? 

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Tip #3:

OK, my 3rd and final tip for getting into and staying in a high vibrational state, ESPECIALLY when the world around you has gone nuts is this:

Listen to and acknowledge people’s feelings with an open heart – and suspend your judgment!

You see, at the end of the day, people get vocal, they do and say things because they FEEL a certain way. And when you can get beyond the opinions – and even the obnoxiousness – and ask them to explain to you how they actually feel, the humanity can come back out.

Acknowledging the feelings helps you understand their behaviour and reconnect from your heart to theirs. This will lead to a lot more open and kindhearted conversations.

Ask them about their feelings and listen with an open heart. Suspend your judgment.
This is actually a golden opportunity to use these challenging situations to create healing in your relationships with these people and the world in general.

One way I like to support my people is with hypnotic meditations that help you navigate all sorts of challenges and maintain a high vibration.

I have a whole library of hypnotic meditations to help you align with abundance. (There’s even one to make annoying people disappear!)

A great way for you to get started is by grabbing the one I give away for free. It’s called ‘The Vibration of Abundance’ and the link to download it is in the show notes below.

Until next time, remember it’s time to embrace your amazing and unlimited potential – and you are totally ready to take the next step.

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